ChiSun27:
This story get as e be.

You just walked into someone's apartment where you haven't been to before and the gateman still allowed you on small persuasion?

I refuse to digest this unpalatable jollof rice.

ChiSun27:
This story get as e be.

You just walked into someone's apartment where you haven't been to before and the gateman still allowed you on small persuasion?

I refuse to digest this unpalatable jollof rice.

Twaci:
Hmmmm.

Talk to your mum. No i am not saying that you should report it to your mum. Have a mother and daughter talk. Ask her certain questions like; what is really going on btw your dad and herself? Are they tired of the marriage? Does she still love him?

If you aren't comfortable asking her these, you can confide in an older but closer family relative who u believe can confidently handle the matter, because truth being told, your mum may even be doing same but is not caught yet.

If they are tired of the marriage then they should dissolve it like adults without affecting you and ur siblings.

Jollyjoy:
and you expect the mum to come out plain How easy!!

ChiSun27:
This story get as e be.

You just walked into someone's apartment where you haven't been to before and the gateman still allowed you on small persuasion?

I refuse to digest this unpalatable jollof rice.

Zoe41:

I take time b4 i enta nah

Widall:
anoda torotoro & tortoise tory

misssclassy:
First of all, I am sorry about the problem you are faced with. It's not always easy dealing with family issues like this, especially as the child. It's like you are intertwined in something you are not capable of forcing your way out of and honestly, I can really empathize with your situation.
I'd advise you shouldn't tell your mum anything. If you do, you would only be escalating the whole problem and trust me, you don't want to do that.
How about you talk to your dad. I don't know how close you are to him, but it's best you talk to him in a mature manner. Tell him you aren't happy with what he is doing and it's affecting you both psychologically and emotionally. Tell him you won't tell your mum about what you know but that what he is doing isn't right.
If he is really your father and he still has some drops of humanity and self respect inside of him, he should see some sense in what you have to say and adjust his footsteps.
You should also talk to your mum. Have a little mother and child discussion. Don't make it sound like you know, or that you are suspecting your dad's is having affairs outside the marriage, but just ask how about her relationship with your dad and where they stand.
Try to urge her to do all she can to keep her marriage and to be careful and watchful so that someone won't come and destroy what she has built.
Plead with her that if she is having any issues with your dad, she should try and dissolve it.
Let her know that no matter what the issue is regarding their marriage, she and your dad should still try their best to protect their union.
If she asks you why you might be giving her the "advice", just tell her that something inside you prompted you to.
Also try to take the matter to the feet of your God. Most of these kind of marital issues aren't always just "physical". Commit your parents marriage to God and pray for unity and love.
I wish you and your parents all the best.

See long essay on top fake story.

naijaboiy:

See long essay on top fake story.

Phayme:
Whether this story is true or it isnt(because it seems some of you nairalanders have just decided to heap curses on your own heads), the only thing you CAN do honestly is to table it before God. If you like go and talk to your mother about her love life, beht jes bare in mind that this is not obodo onyinbo.

ChiSun27:
This story get as e be.

You just walked into someone's apartment where you haven't been to before and the gateman still allowed you on small persuasion?

I refuse to digest this unpalatable jollof rice.

misssclassy:


What makes you so sure that the story is fake?
Even if it is, my comment isn't just addressed at the op. Any other person who might be having similar issues or who might know someone who might be having similar issues, can also pick a thing or too from it what I posted.

Yes Ma Sir!