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8 Reasons Women Cheat: This May Surprise You! by Betcliq25(m): 11:29pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
1. Lack of attention and intimacy:
How long can you go without receiving love and attention before
you look somewhere else? Some can go for only days or weeks,
and others can go for years. However, in general, women need
and desire intimacy, physical touch, and mental and emotional
attention. If you are not receiving this from your husband or
boyfriend, it will only be a matter of time and you may seek it
from another i.e. a caring guy friend, the attentive guy who feeds
your emotional needs at your workplace, or the hot trainer at the
gym. Women deprived of attention, compliments, and
compassion; usually have emotional affairs. That doesn't mean it
won't lead to sex, but initially they crave the attention and
compassion that has been absent from their relationship. |
Re: 8 Reasons Women Cheat: This May Surprise You! by shikshark: 11:30pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
even if a man gives all the above and below.....women still cheats. it just like reflexes ....as in it is part of them. 1 Like |
Re: 8 Reasons Women Cheat: This May Surprise You! by Betcliq25(m): 11:30pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
2. Revenge:
Being cheated on is a very difficult act to forgive. For those of you
who have been cheated on, you know how awful it feels. You feel
deceived, hurt, angry, sad, numb and even violated. It also affects
your self-esteem. At the moment you find out your man cheated,
your whole body begins to shake, you begin to sweat, your
stomach drops, and you feel nauseated. Clearly, it negatively
affects your relationship, your mood, behavior, and your ability to
trust the cheater ever again. When you have been cheated on,
some of you may want to get revenge by making them feel the
way you felt. This can lead you, to do the cheating next. The
biggest truth is that cheating never solves a relationship problem.
Communication, assertiveness and increasing passion and
romance in your relationship are a much better solution. |
Re: 8 Reasons Women Cheat: This May Surprise You! by Betcliq25(m): 11:30pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
3. Bad sex:
Women need to feel desired and experience REAL orgasms during
sex. If women are getting bad sex, not enough sex, non-
emotional sex, or "wham-bam-thank-you-mam" sex, you may
eventually lose interest in the relationship and look elsewhere for
GOOD sex! This creates a temptation to seek sexual or emotional
satisfaction elsewhere. In my opinion, it's best to communicate
your needs to your man with the hopes that he will step it up a
notch. You can do this on your own or with the help of a sex
therapist. |
Re: 8 Reasons Women Cheat: This May Surprise You! by Betcliq25(m): 11:31pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
4. Weight loss/plastic surgery:
Male attention increases quickly after a boob job, a butt implant or
weight loss, and so does your self-confidence. With all this male
attention, your temptation to cheat rises, and it takes more self-
control to resist some of those male offers. Once you realize other
guys want you, your desire to act on it may have you feeling
euphoric. However, be careful, act wisely and make your pros
and cons list. |
Re: 8 Reasons Women Cheat: This May Surprise You! by Betcliq25(m): 11:32pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
5. Financial independence:
When you feel financially dependent on your husband or
boyfriend, it's more difficult to speak up in arguments or leave the
relationship. The fear of being alone and financially unstable keeps
you in a one-down position. Now that women make their own
money, enjoy working, and are good at it, the need to stay in an
unhappy relationship is not necessary. That feeling of power and
independence can be like seeing the red carpet laid out for you; all
the way to those other fish in the sea. |
Re: 8 Reasons Women Cheat: This May Surprise You! by Betcliq25(m): 11:32pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
6. Low self-esteem:
When you feel insecure about yourself, you have a need to seek
validation from others. This can be in the form of sexual,
emotional, or intellectual attention. When you don't love or value
yourself, you may project that onto the person you are in a
relationship with, and believe they don't love or value you. Even if
your husband or boyfriend loves you greatly, you still may cheat
because you find it hard to accept their unconditional love. I
suggest reading one of the many self-help books out there on
building your self-esteem, or get some counseling to help
improve self-confidence. |
Re: 8 Reasons Women Cheat: This May Surprise You! by Betcliq25(m): 11:34pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
8. Bored:
He doesn't spray on that good smelling cologne anymore, his
clothing is wrinkled, stained or way out-of- date. When he comes
home from work (assuming he has a job), it's the same old thing;
"what's for dinner"? When the weekend comes, he says he's tired
and just wants to relax at home, or go out to the same sports bar
you go every weekend. The routine is the same over and over
again. You are no longer on the same page. You barely have
anything in common. You are feeling emotionally distant from
him. You find yourself looking at other prospects and fantasize
about being with someone else. You begin to feel excited
(something you haven't felt in "forever" just thinking about it.
There are many ways to spice up an old, tired relationship.
Boredom is something that can be resolved with a little, or
sometimes a moderate amount of effort. It requires both of you
introducing new ideas and behaviors, and some spontaneity. Be
sure of what you want. |
Re: 8 Reasons Women Cheat: This May Surprise You! by Nobody: 11:34pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
GREED MONEY 1 Like |
Re: 8 Reasons Women Cheat: This May Surprise You! by Nobody: 11:37pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
BIA@OP 4get dat tin, if u dont have money and u dnt have a big dick plus u dnt last in bed, ur woman will cheat on u. "but if u have those then she is yours 4reva. |
Re: 8 Reasons Women Cheat: This May Surprise You! by Vinshu(f): 11:37pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Lies |
Re: 8 Reasons Women Cheat: This May Surprise You! by doublewisdom: 11:39pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Influence of the social media too. |
Re: 8 Reasons Women Cheat: This May Surprise You! by McCarlito(m): 11:45pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
It is written.. He/She who will cheat must surely cheat no matter how much u protect or treat them... Trust and Loyalty is by self-determination |
Re: 8 Reasons Women Cheat: This May Surprise You! by divinehand2003(m): 11:59pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
It's the devil's subtle and forceful temptations and trials that push the man or woman into the act of cheating. It reminds me of the scripture wherein Paul the apostle stated thus, "THOUGH THE SPIRIT IS WILLING, THE FLESH IS WEAK". |
Re: 8 Reasons Women Cheat: This May Surprise You! by lekjons(m): 11:59pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Actually... It ain't suprising! |
Re: 8 Reasons Women Cheat: This May Surprise You! by lekjons(m): 12:00am On Sep 25, 2015 |
Actually... It ain't suprising! |
Re: 8 Reasons Women Cheat: This May Surprise You! by Nobody: 1:08am On Sep 25, 2015 |
Guys don't ignore number 1, most women cheat cos of that. Just saying . |
Re: 8 Reasons Women Cheat: This May Surprise You! by ShayGirl(f): 4:02am On Sep 25, 2015 |
sweetorgasms: So money and sex will help u keep ur lady forever? |
Re: 8 Reasons Women Cheat: This May Surprise You! by rogerbyy: 4:44am On Sep 25, 2015 |
Who cares |
Re: 8 Reasons Women Cheat: This May Surprise You! by Israel5(m): 7:14am On Sep 25, 2015 |
There's one only. LUST. REPENT of your sins today and Jesus will save you and your marred marriage. |
Re: 8 Reasons Women Cheat: This May Surprise You! by ajademola2000(m): 9:38am On Sep 25, 2015 |
Women been cheating since the days of Adam, nothing new |
Re: 8 Reasons Women Cheat: This May Surprise You! by WailingWailer00(m): 10:09am On Sep 25, 2015 |
Women are dogs |
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