I came across this link earlier:


https://www.nairaland.com/2623173/husband-fingers-daughters-while-bathing

I do not have a daughter. But before now I often wondered if it's okay for a father to bath a female child especially as the genitals of the baby will have to be properly washed. Even with good intentions by the father, the view may appear different to observers with perverted mindset.

Please I need your views on the subject matter. It will help a lot of people out there. Personally though, I think it is wrong for a father to bath a female child because the art of washing the genitals thoroughly is no different from fin.gering a babe even if the father has clean intentions

Cc: lalasticlala

Only wen u have an odawiz thought.

U can bath a toddler, but not a preteen regardless of gender, it's not right. Why would I want to bath an eight year old healthy child who isn't handicapped?

Depends on the age

comment later

Is it proper for a mother to bath her son? I mean, won't she be fondlingg and pulling his peenis?

You can bathe a daughter while a toddler.As the child grows,the father should stop bathing her.

What is most important is...........,..know thyself o man

Timbuktou:
Is it proper for a mother to bath her son? I mean, won't she be fondlingg and pulling his peenis?

thank you i just wonder the way some people think

Timbuktou:
Is it proper for a mother to bath her son? I mean, won't she be fondlingg and pulling his peenis?

Several cases of molestation commonly heard of is about girls. Generally the society will frown more at that of the girls. This topic is specifically for daughters

ThundrCork:


Several cases of molestation commonly heard of is about girls. Generally the society will frown more at that of the girls. This topic is specifically for daughters

Good thing you said "commonly heard of". How would you feel if your wife banned you from bathing your daughter, sir? It means you're already a suspect . Will you be opening topic one for sons?

There's nothing wrong with that... Unless it's only a mother's duty which its not..


In the future, my hubby will help in bathing our children

I dont think there is anything wrong in it. But in other to avoid being considered a mad man by people with faulty eyesights, one should avoid trying to get into town with a dirty car mechanics attire lol. Am a proud father of 3 girls and a boy. I have NEVER bathed any of my daughters. Things we read these days are too scary, so I think its better one avoids certain things no matter how good your intentions might be. Our society is a bit biased against fathers. But you can't blame people sometimes because of the scary things we read about some so called fathers doing to their daughters. For example my wife while bathing my son could hold his little manhood and make a joke about it and we all have a good laugh. She could do that on a few more different occasions like while helping him to urinate when he is sleepy, and we all still have a good laugh; But if a father holds his daughters urinary machine and makes such jokes, or does it in some other occassions too, hmm people will start reading silly meanings into it. So better to avoid certain things while still being a great dad than trying to be a perfect dad and be termed something else by people with weird thoughts. This is my take on this - Cheers.

Abel202:
I dont think there is anything wrong in it. But in other to avoid being considered a mad man by people with faulty eyesights, one should avoid trying to get into town with a dirty car mechanics attire lol. Am a proud father of 3 girls and a boy. I have NEVER bathed any of my daughters. Things we read these days are too scary, so I think its better one avoids certain things no matter how good your intentions might be. Our society is a bit biased against fathers. But you can't blame people sometimes because of the scary things we read about some so called fathers doing to their daughters. For example my wife while bathing my son could hold his little manhood and make a joke about it and we all have a good laugh. She could do that on a few more different occasions like while helping him to urinate when he is sleepy, and we all still have a good laugh; But if a father holds his daughters urinary machine and makes such jokes, or does it in some other occassions too, hmm people will start reading silly meanings into it. So better to avoid certain things while still being a great dad than trying to be a perfect dad and be termed something else by people with weird thoughts. This is my take on this - Cheers.

gbam. best comment according to me.

Mtchew a perv is a perv.. Bath your daughter or not... So wot if ure a single dad... Some people look for flimpsy excuses to avoid responsibilities... Bath ur daughter till she is able to bath herself...

Nigerians with Una stupid mindset, why would my husband bath my baby daughters....

Anyways, it depends on the age my hubby cnt be bathing my teenager daughter but btw 0-6 years wat's the big deal....its the mind set....nigerians we should talk taking our minds off dirty tinz

Timbuktou:


Good thing you said "commonly heard of". How would you feel if your wife banned you from bathing your daughter, sir? It means you're already a suspect . Will you be opening topic one for sons?

From asking a question, to i am now a suspect. Are you one of those naija police men? lol.

Abel202:
I dont think there is anything wrong in it. But in other to avoid being considered a mad man by people with faulty eyesights, one should avoid trying to get into town with a dirty car mechanics attire lol. Am a proud father of 3 girls and a boy. I have NEVER bathed any of my daughters. Things we read these days are too scary, so I think its better one avoids certain things no matter how good your intentions might be. Our society is a bit biased against fathers. But you can't blame people sometimes because of the scary things we read about some so called fathers doing to their daughters. For example my wife while bathing my son could hold his little manhood and make a joke about it and we all have a good laugh. She could do that on a few more different occasions like while helping him to urinate when he is sleepy, and we all still have a good laugh; But if a father holds his daughters urinary machine and makes such jokes, or does it in some other occassions too, hmm people will start reading silly meanings into it. So better to avoid certain things while still being a great dad than trying to be a perfect dad and be termed something else by people with weird thoughts. This is my take on this - Cheers.

Thank you. I even posted a link of a father that was accused by the wife of fingerings his daughter while bathing which i personally think may have been a lie told by the wife because she is seeking divorce. If the man avoided bathing the girl, that accusation would not have come up at all.

ThundrCork:


From asking a question, to i am now a suspect. Are you one of those naija police men? lol.

Hehehe. That's the logical conclusion to your question, sir. If you cannot bathe your daughter because you cannot be trusted with her, that makes you already guilty before the fact. Which means if you indeed bathe her, it is aaumed you must have tampered with something you shouldn't have.

Bath your baby pls.

If you know yourself and your wife trusts you, why should that be an issue?
Is any outsider going to come into your house to ask you why you are bathing your child?

Unless there's something you're not telling us.

cococandy:
Bath your baby pls.

If you know yourself and your wife trusts you, why should that be an issue?
Is any outsider going to come into your house to ask you why you are bathing your child?

Unless there's something you're not telling us.

Cococandy, did you go through the link In my first post?

This is not about trust but the general perception of the populace. If you go through that topic, you will be quick to call the man all sorts of names but what if the wife lied? Sadly, most people would just attack without verifying the truth due to the intolerance of the crime. So why involve yourself in something that could make you vulnerable to suspicion?

ThundrCork:
I came across this link earlier:


https://www.nairaland.com/2623173/husband-fingers-daughters-while-bathing

I do not have a daughter. But before now I often wondered if it's okay for a father to bath a female child especially as the genitals of the baby will have to be properly washed. Even with good intentions by the father, the view may appear different to observers with perverted mindset.

Don't judge all fathers out there with the same yardstick used for the sicko. Not all fathers are perverts. How can you even think that??

ThundrCork:
Please I need your views on the subject matter. It will help a lot of people out there. Personally though, I think it is wrong for a father to bath a female child because the art of washing the genitals thoroughly is no different from fin.gering a babe even if the father has clean intentions

Cc: lalasticlala

Now this is sick.

Only a sicko would type the bolded bit.

Sambarry, oya come and handle this. I can't deal...

I have dealt with this issue times without number

pedos kontinu o

EfemenaXY:


Don't judge all fathers out there with the same yardstick used for the sicko. Not all fathers are perverts. How can you even think that??



Now this is sick.

Only a sicko would type the bolded bit.

Sambarry, oya come and handle this. I can't deal...

ThundrCork:
I came across this link earlier:


https://www.nairaland.com/2623173/husband-fingers-daughters-while-bathing

I do not have a daughter. But before now I often wondered if it's okay for a father to bath a female child especially as the genitals of the baby will have to be properly washed. Even with good intentions by the father, the view may appear different to observers with perverted mindset.

Please I need your views on the subject matter. It will help a lot of people out there. Personally though, I think it is wrong for a father to bath a female child because the art of washing the genitals thoroughly is no different from fin.gering a babe even if the father has clean intentions

Cc: lalasticlala

Jeeezzz

I hope your future wife knows the kinda man you're and does well to keep her daughters far away from you right from birth. .

Just look at the bolded. . SMH.. Mtcheeewww

If a dad does not bath his own child, who will, the ancestors.

ifyalways:
If a dad does not bath his own child, who will, the ancestors.

No. The house boy will do it.

Very funny question!!...

Well as for me,the moment I notice a single pubic hair on her young punana.....AM OUT!!

Thank you!

dearsly:
Very funny question!!...

Well as for me,the moment I notice a single pubic hair on her young punana.....AM OUT!!

Thank you!

How old d'u think she'd be by then?

@OP... I see nothing wrong with a dad bathing his baby girl..as long as his intention is good. The society will not be watching him bathe his daughter thru a key-hole or window so please carry on.

MarvellousGod:
Jeeezzz

I hope your future wife knows the kinda man you're and does well to keep her daughters far away from you right from birth. .

Just look at the bolded. . SMH.. Mtcheeewww

You have not made any sense. I was hoping you will explain why it won't appear that way.

As disgusting as it may sound it must be discussed as some men see it that way. If the mothers who's daughters fell victim of rape and molestation by their fathers where cautious of these facts, It would have been avoided so don't be ignorant! My view of fathers to not bath their daughters stands because there is no definite way of telling who can commit such act. so best a law be set in place to discourage it. That way, we would not hear of such cases.

Creamish:


How old d'u think she'd be by then?

@OP... I see nothing wrong with a dad bathing his baby girl..as long as his intention is good. The society will not be watching him bathe his daughter thru a key-hole or window so please carry on.

What would you say about the man who's wife accused him in court of fin.gering his daughter while bathing her? What if it was a cheap lie just so the verdict will favor her? I bet the public will just laugh it off if it were the wife that was accused by the husband of fo.ndling with their sons pe.nis while bathing him? Like someone mentioned above, the public is biased against men especially when it's a sexually related offence. Mind you in this case, it's not the society but the wife pointing accusing fingers at him

ThundrCork:


What would you say about the man who's wife accused him in court of fin.gering his daughter while bathing her? What if it was a cheap lie just so the verdict will favor her? I bet the public will just laugh it off if it were the wife that was accused by the husband of fo.ndling with their sons pe.nis while bathing him? Like someone mentioned above, the public is biased against men especially when it's a sexually related offence. Mind you in this case, it's not the society but the wife pointing accusing fingers at him

Even though you'll disagree with what I'm about to type - you do need to see a shrink, because all isn't in order upstairs, son.

Timbuktou:


Good thing you said "commonly heard of". How would you feel if your wife banned you from bathing your daughter, sir? It means you're already a suspect . Will you be opening topic one for sons?

Y wil a man enjoy bathing his female child ?wat appened to d moda?