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12 Points For Wives To Note by Beta1: 2:14pm On Sep 25, 2015
12 POINTS FOR WIVES TO NOTE:
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1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not wise.
The home is not a law court.
2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the home - placing
embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers - lacks wisdom.
3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of "women's
rights" to insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a fool of
herself.
4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through
bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help. A man should be eager
to run away from office to be at home, for that should be the safest
and coziest place on earth for him.
5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean competition. It
simply means partnership. Taking advantage of such equality to
turn around and become the de facto head of the home and
oppress the man is tantamount to playing with fire. If you destroy
your home, soon you will be the boss of an empty home.
6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he assumes that he
is the head. Once he gets that feeling, the woman gently wields her
power and the head actually turns to wherever the neck wants
without a protest.
7. A wife that does not pull herself away from friends' influence and
advice or even from the control of her mother and father will have
herself to blame.
8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses women of
different shapes and sizes to choose a wife. But soon after
childbirth, many women hide under the excuse of childbirth to let go
of themselves.
Many stop bothering about their looks, shape, dressing, etc. Within 5
years of marriage, people start wondering if the wife is the man's
aunt, even though she is 7 years younger. Her defence is that if he
truly loves her, he should love her the way she is. But when looking
for a wife, he saw people like the present YOU and ignored them and
settled for the former YOU. Today, you go to bed smelling of onions
and ogiri. You go to bed wearing grandmothers' clothes. Why are
you playing with your marriage? Love is not about looks - we know.
But looks enhance love and marriage. There is a difference between
someone disfiguring herself and the person being disfigured by an
accident. Please don't be complacent. As hard as it may be, work
on looking like you were when he first saw you and began the
chase.
9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down with headache or
fever, "not in the mood," you are a joker, a serious comedian!
10. If your children suddenly become more important to you than
your husband, you need prayers.
11. If you assume that as the woman, only you need to be
pampered and fussed over while the man is a stone that has no
emotions, you need to be pitied.
12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does not excite her
husband. Wives are usually complacent and presumptuous. A wife
must strive to have the mind of a girlfriend.
A girlfriend is always nicer, sweeter, more loving and always
thinking of ways to wow her sweetheart; a girlfriend does not try to
win all arguments, does not call the man a "useless man", is not
careless about her looks or dressing, always smiles and laughs with
the man, sends the man sweet messages and calls, etc.
Are you your husband's girlfriend in word and indeed? https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10206327173849747&id=1578877907&refid=7&_ft_=qid.6198434848225375147%3Amf_story_key.-8108820232182378742%3AeligibleForSeeFirstBumping.&__tn__=%2As
Re: 12 Points For Wives To Note by libertyfather(m): 2:39pm On Sep 25, 2015
Nah true
Re: 12 Points For Wives To Note by Nobody: 4:11pm On Sep 25, 2015
very true and a wife that believes in the theory of feminism is daft,dull,physco and not wise.
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Re: 12 Points For Wives To Note by MMotimo: 4:32pm On Sep 25, 2015
Beta1:
12 POINTS FOR WIVES TO NOTE:
================
When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses women of
different shapes and sizes to choose a wife. But soon after
childbirth, many women hide under the excuse of childbirth to let go
of themselves.
Many stop bothering about their looks, shape, dressing, etc. Within 5
years of marriage, people start wondering if the wife is the man's
aunt, even though she is 7 years younger. Her defence is that if he
truly loves her, he should love her the way she is. https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10206327173849747&id=1578877907&refid=7&_ft_=qid.6198434848225375147%3Amf_story_key.-8108820232182378742%3AeligibleForSeeFirstBumping.&__tn__=%2As



That whole thing about if you truly loved me you'd love my fat is . . . . . . . If he wanted a fat woman, he would have married a fat woman.
By the way, you have a right to demand he maintains a healthy weight too, why should you be saddled with a pot bellied man when you did not marry one.


Just for laughs

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Re: 12 Points For Wives To Note by adet991(f): 6:34pm On Sep 25, 2015
MMotimo:




That whole thing about if you truly loved me you'd love my fat is . . . . . . . If he wanted a fat woman, he would have married a fat woman.
By the way, you have a right to demand he maintains a healthy weight too, why should you be saddled with a pot bellied man when you did not marry one.


Just for laughs
your comment got me laughing
Re: 12 Points For Wives To Note by repogirl(f): 4:17am On Sep 26, 2015
Wife this, women that...people should let women rest jare! Ah ahn, everyone has advice for a woman as if only the woman marries herself! Mtchewwwwwwww!

OP, go and copy and paste advise for men also, not just women! angry

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Re: 12 Points For Wives To Note by MMotimo: 6:08am On Sep 27, 2015
adet991:
your comment got me laughing

Happy to hear that, everyone should laugh regularly and loudly
Re: 12 Points For Wives To Note by adet991(f): 5:13pm On Sep 27, 2015
MMotimo:


Happy to hear that, everyone should laugh regularly and loudly
thanks

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