I would kill to have a guy like this. Some girls are just super wicked, she's been double dating all along and deceiving you. Now she and her serious boyfriend are about to wed. Let me advise you, you've not lost she has. You're a great guy. You were dating a liar all along, imagine if you had married her and seen her true color after wedding? You will find someone worthy of you, it's alright focus on your job. She is calling because her conscience is judging her and she feels pity for you, knowing you truly loved her. Picking would make you feel worse, I'm going through a bitter break up myself. Just move on someone deserving of a guy like you will come. So sorry, it's life. But you will be happy later, trust me.

PunkyVeer:


Someone she barely knows? I wouldn't be suprised if 1)she's a fake virgin
2)she's been sleeping with the dude she's marrying because she actually loves him & only using the OP as her gullible cash cow.

My sister, thank you very much. I thought exactly the same thing. Of course, he was just an assistant boyfriend whose sole purpose was to aid her with financial matters. The other bobo was the real fiance. I have seen lots of Bachelors and Masters in Applied Mumuology; this is my first encounter with a Ph.D in the discipline. God dey.

avasweet:


Yes nah...imagine I get a man who agrees to no marriage no sex objectives and he spend dis much on me, my dear WTF do I want again....plus the fact he helps to control our degree during rromance, mehhnnn....some lady sha...smh

baby, dat man is here

U mean u are yet to confirm if d lady was just pulling ur leg? Smh, makes me wonder if u are saying d truth. Anyway, ur new employment is enough as a compensation, congratulations. U can still have beautiful girls times 5 of her beauty and take d one with d best character (who loves God nd don't do eye service, call a spade a spade 4 u nd correct u when u act wrongly).

Bros eh, u really deserve my dirty slaps. Anyway, d best advice i do hv for u now is to knock ur big head against dat wall or rod in ur front because u be mugu eririeri. Go to hellfire dere u're right now!

it was the guy that gave her the koboko she wanted, that she is marrying
sorry you hear
next time, knack the girl wella
that way she becomes attached to you

adedayourt:


d guy tried playin nice but got stabbed
hes furious nd out fr vengance
now a wounded lion has been added to d pack of guys out der to chop any lady nd clean mouth

if he wants to revenge, he should go to the girl and revenge rather than punishing any innocent lady that come his way. Afterall he was the one who accepted to spend on the girl. I didn't see where he mention anything about the girl rogging him of his allowance ooo. He was palying mr. Samaritan so he should revenge the babe and not any girl he sees.

jedyjedy:
Moral lesson: nack any babe u date. Lobatan

Abeg operate their brains and hammer this law inside it. If OP had been reading our posts about ' fake virgins' over the years, maybe he'd be wiser. Like I said just days back. Over 90% are fake. We have seen it all. At least you didn't end up in marriage with a "virgin" that abortions have already destroyed her womb. Obviously painful because you are in love but move on quickly dude. You began on a poor note: you funded her and she laid the ground rules alone. You were simply her dream ATM and maga. And she didn't even have to open her legs.

macroscopic:
Pls Nairalanders help!!

I met this beautiful damsel while serving(NYSC) in Imo State in 2013. She accepted to date me on one condition (NO SEX before marriage). I gladly accepted. Our love was a major gist in town because she is a beauty queen. I so much loved her with all my heart..She was a virgin and I so much respected her for that...I spent 75% of my allowee on her in addition with my personal savings...

On several ocassions, she lost control of herself during romance but as a gentleman, I kept my promise by not harvesting the forbidden fruit.. Her love for me grew stronger because of my self control. After NYSC, I relocated to Lagos in search of greener pasture. Things got tougher because jobs were extremely scarce. Still,I struggled to send her some money through her father's first bank account (she was 18yrs then).

Once in a month, I travelled from Lagos to Owerri just to see her....Our love was so strong..But since inception of this year, things got pretty bad that I could not meet up with my routine travels to see her. After 3yrs, I got a job few days ago in an oil company and I was so enthusiastic to relay the good news to her....But to my greatest shock ever...She sent me an apology sms that she will be getting married next week...I was preparing for sunday service but the news automatically made me fell asleep. I just woke up and feeling abnormal...She is calling but I can't imagine myself taking the calls...Pls I need your pool of unalloyed advice...

Pls save a soul today and God will bless you..Thanks

Hahaha. Sorry, you had a gf others enjoy on bed. How could you say she was your gf, yet you didn't sleep with her? You're a wussy.

Next time, you should shoot first and she will be yours.

Sorry again, because you didn't play the game well and another dude had to out-smart you.

She also played with your feelings. A woman who loves you would definitely go to bed with you no matter what.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
if he wants to revenge, he should go to the girl and revenge rather than punishing any innocent lady that come his way. Afterall he was the one who accepted to spend on the girl. I didn't see where he mention anything about the girl rogging him of his allowance ooo. He was palying mr. Samaritan so he should revenge the babe and not any girl he sees.

u nd i both know any gak dat coms around now ll b an object to vent vengance on

macroscopic:
Pls Nairalanders help!!

I met this beautiful damsel while serving(NYSC) in Imo State in 2013. She accepted to date me on one condition (NO SEX before marriage). I gladly accepted. Our love was a major gist in town because she is a beauty queen. I so much loved her with all my heart..She was a virgin and I so much respected her for that...I spent 75% of my allowee on her in addition with my personal savings...

On several ocassions, she lost control of herself during romance but as a gentleman, I kept my promise by not harvesting the forbidden fruit.. Her love for me grew stronger because of my self control. After NYSC, I relocated to Lagos in search of greener pasture. Things got tougher because jobs were extremely scarce. Still,I struggled to send her some money through her father's first bank account (she was 18yrs then).

Once in a month, I travelled from Lagos to Owerri just to see her....Our love was so strong..But since inception of this year, things got pretty bad that I could not meet up with my routine travels to see her. After 3yrs, I got a job few days ago in an oil company and I was so enthusiastic to relay the good news to her....But to my greatest shock ever...She sent me an apology sms that she will be getting married next week...I was preparing for sunday service but the news automatically made me fell asleep. I just woke up and feeling abnormal...She is calling but I can't imagine myself taking the calls...Pls I need your pool of unalloyed advice...

Pls save a soul today and God will bless you..Thanks

make I laugh first abeg



padi shey make I advice you?

while you were busy forming Mr. nice guy, someone else was giving her the D real bad..
na jst dat 75% of ur alawee and your life savings made me feel sorry for you..
Just thank your stars you've got a job.. so focus and develop your career, your wife will come to you..

Love I repeat is a SCAM... peace

Next time when u meet a babe, u bang her on your first date with her.... Use your head!

macroscopic:
Pls Nairalanders help!!

I met this beautiful damsel while serving(NYSC) in Imo State in 2013. She accepted to date me on one condition (NO SEX before marriage). I gladly accepted. Our love was a major gist in town because she is a beauty queen. I so much loved her with all my heart..She was a virgin and I so much respected her for that...I spent 75% of my allowee on her in addition with my personal savings...

On several ocassions, she lost control of herself during romance but as a gentleman, I kept my promise by not harvesting the forbidden fruit.. Her love for me grew stronger because of my self control. After NYSC, I relocated to Lagos in search of greener pasture. Things got tougher because jobs were extremely scarce. Still,I struggled to send her some money through her father's first bank account (she was 18yrs then).

Once in a month, I travelled from Lagos to Owerri just to see her....Our love was so strong..But since inception of this year, things got pretty bad that I could not meet up with my routine travels to see her. After 3yrs, I got a job few days ago in an oil company and I was so enthusiastic to relay the good news to her....But to my greatest shock ever...She sent me an apology sms that she will be getting married next week...I was preparing for sunday service but the news automatically made me fell asleep. I just woke up and feeling abnormal...She is calling but I can't imagine myself taking the calls...Pls I need your pool of unalloyed advice...

Pls save a soul today and God will bless you..Thanks

So all these things wey we don dey talk here year in year out, you no hear. Well, thats ur mafaking business. Let help you repeat it, no be woman get their body, if u furtunately meet a virgin u want to marry, open it and marry her simple. If u nevery ready, then forget abt her and look for money first, there are other virgins. It is better to have money and be looking for love than to have love and be looking for money.

macroscopic:
Pls Nairalanders help!!

I met this beautiful damsel while serving(NYSC) in Imo State in 2013. She accepted to date me on one condition (NO SEX before marriage). I gladly accepted. Our love was a major gist in town because she is a beauty queen. I so much loved her with all my heart..She was a virgin and I so much respected her for that...I spent 75% of my allowee on her in addition with my personal savings...

On several ocassions, she lost control of herself during romance but as a gentleman, I kept my promise by not harvesting the forbidden fruit.. Her love for me grew stronger because of my self control. After NYSC, I relocated to Lagos in search of greener pasture. Things got tougher because jobs were extremely scarce. Still,I struggled to send her some money through her father's first bank account (she was 18yrs then).

Once in a month, I travelled from Lagos to Owerri just to see her....Our love was so strong..But since inception of this year, things got pretty bad that I could not meet up with my routine travels to see her. After 3yrs, I got a job few days ago in an oil company and I was so enthusiastic to relay the good news to her....But to my greatest shock ever...She sent me an apology sms that she will be getting married next week...I was preparing for sunday service but the news automatically made me fell asleep. I just woke up and feeling abnormal...She is calling but I can't imagine myself taking the calls...Pls I need your pool of unalloyed advice...

Pls save a soul today and God will bless you..Thanks

I feel for your story bro,try and take heart,if truly she was meant for you nothing would have happened.I no the painful part is d one of you doing mr Nice guy.....Take heart...Shit Happens

I carefully went thru the relayed story, it really sadened my heart what target d devil uses dis days. My friend, it's an unpalatable aspect of life but d lord knows &gives d best.

Haven't bothered to read past the first page, but is the OP pained because she didn't have sex with you or because you lost her?

If it is the former, might as well just ring up an olosho to drown you misery.

If its the later tho, nothing you can do, live your life to d fullest, no one is irreplaceable.

De place dat caught my attention was " I spent 75% of my allowee on her in addition with my personal savings..." bros!!

Why they insults? What did he do wrong? He's not a fool for not sleeping with her because even if he had sex with her he would still be heartbroken and would feel deeper pain because he really loves her.
He doesn't need bashing, you don't know the pain he's going through. OP I can help you get through this. Send me a pm.

sirhot:
Op some advice here are plain silly! I know how you feel; betrayed, rejected, deceived etc. You did the right thing by not sleeping with her. Fvvckinnggg a girl is not the best way to get back at her else you get HIV. So you choose. I'll rather be free of STDs in a no sex relationship than endanger my life with a sex relationship.

Let a lady do what she wants with her body, if I can't take or don't want it, I move on. She can't say I used her

Safety first! Loose infected bitches everywhere. Be careful!

Pick of the bunch!

So you were a God sent mayee for 3 years

Ok, Next story please

What a cooked up story, oil company ko marriage ni.

Have you care to ask her if she has just joined APC? ........ this promise and fail things sef.

In as much as I shud commend for ur chastity I want 2 say dat money shud nt b spent dat much in a no sex relationship. U made mistake in spending. No sex relationship is no money spent. Just take hrt. Move on, take it dat she s nt meant for u. But u shud ve learnt ur lessons

This forum is a joke
For Igbo land marriage can be anytime for ladies
She be tear-rubber(virgin), how u take know? when u diddnt enter PIN code.
You be big mumu, girls that really wanna maintain dont let u spend, instead the girl will try her best to please u since she aint giving u kpomo. THIS IS EXPERIENCE TALK. She just wannna eat your cash bro
Imo state wen get fine babes yaga yaga full every where. you dey find story. The other paddy dey browse, while u dey pay. MUMU

Share d gala..... Share d blues... D blues............ D blues............ Omo she don share ur gala finish now na to share d blues.....

Sowi bro...you story reminded me of ma rabbit which I spent on and fed for good 2yrs but decided to run away...and you also reminded of profit n loss..take Kidney

macroscopic:
Pls Nairalanders help!!
I met this beautiful damsel while serving(NYSC) in Imo State in 2013.She accepted to date me on one condition(NO SEX before marriage). I gladly accepted.Our love was a major gist in town because she is a beauty queen.I so much loved her with all my heart..She was a virgin and I so much respected her for that...I spent 75% of my allowee on her in addition with my personal savings...On several ocassions,she lost control of herself during romance but as a gentleman,I kept my promise by not harvesting the forbidden fruit..Her love for me grew stronger because of my self control.After NYSC,I relocated to Lagos in search of greener pasture.Things got tougher because jobs were extremely scarce.Still,I struggle to send her some money through her father first bank account(she was 18yrs then).Once in a month,I travelled from Lagos to Owerri just to see her....Our love was so strong..But since inception of this year,things got pretty bad that I could not meet up with my routine travels to see her.After 3yrs,I got a job few days ago in an oil company and I was so euthusiastic to relay the goodnews to her....But to my greatest shock ever...She sent me an apology sms that she will be getting married next week...I was preparing for sunday service but the news automatically made me fell asleep.I just woke up and feeling abnormal...She is calling but I can't imagine myself taking the calls...Pls I need your pool of unalloyed advice...Pls save a soul today and God will bless u...Thanks

My dear your own small sef....just take it easy..u will surely get over it.

mustiiz:


Lolsss.. Are u the 18 yrs gal in question.. Tell me I won't tell d guy it will be a secret betwin us

Lol.....am way above dat dude

eoadeniji:
baby, dat man is here

Lolzzzzz

jerome263:
I SABI CONTROL DEGREE DURING ROMANCE WELL WELL O, MK WE START OUR OWN NA, ABI HOW U C AM?

Lol

quiinnBee:

am good too


okay i'll go check it now

Kk dear

PunkyVeer:


Someone she barely knows? I wouldn't be suprised if 1)she's a fake virgin
2)she's been sleeping with the dude she's marrying because she actually loves him & only using the OP as her gullible cash cow.

I am not defending her, but don't be too quick to judge her........girls general even you if you are truly a girl are too easy to deceive