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Why Do We Hate? by IkembaCMD(m): 5:04pm On Sep 27, 2015
Why do we hate?

Hate!,

That feeling of disgust, the thought of
dislike, the emotion of rejection…
Well, let’s get it straight… Hate is as old as man.
It sources from the time of wearing figs and
hides to the hood and Sneakers era. Very well,
hate has been described in many ways and in
numerous forms. Every spheres of life has its
own attribution of hate.
Hate, is a measure to which the Human
emotions can not favor a subject or object
according to the conditions or environment on
which the subject acts upon. That definition of
mine looks technical, right? Well, it simply means
having a negative attitude towards Someone or
Something.

Let’s get the main point aright, WHY DO WE
HATE?... Seriously speaking, except when it is
really intense, a lot of us sometimes find it
difficult to give a tangible reason as to why we
dislike something or someone, W e are just
like ..”I just hate that guy, I don’t know why!”, “I
don’t like going to the village, I just don’t like it”,
“Oh My God! I hate that Course, it’s just
somehow”….. among other examples.
It is for this reason I have gone into the crypts
of the Society most especially the Academic and
Social environments on to why we as Humans
hate.
As-a-matter-of-factly speaking, I really have
some interesting tips on this issue, They go
thus;


THREAT : Its either the Subject of Hate is a
threat to us or a form of danger to our well-
being. Take for example, Diseases, War and Pain
are threats to the human nature , Therefore, it is
pertinent to hate them. Also in human terms, is a
typical example of a wicked and inhumane
Dictator or terrorist whose actions are thought
are to wrought evil and death; He or she also
would be hated due to the nature of his actions.


THE WANNABE ; People hate people sometimes
because they want to be like the others. This is
illustrated better as “ENVY”. It connotes Mr. A
hating his fellow Mr.B because he wants to be
like Mr.B and due to some circumstances or
reasons, he just could not. This feeling of not
being fulfilled could stir up hate for Mr.A who
just gets lucky every time and never fails at any
attempt. This kind of hate could really get bad
and may become uncorrectable.


SELF-MISCHIEF ; Quite so often, people can
hate because they hate themselves as human
beings. This may sound awkward but it really
happens in our everyday life. I could hate you
because I am not content with my living
conditions. This is better described as”
FRUSTRATION”. The impact of rejection, poverty,
emptiness, disability and hopelessness among
other paraphernalia could spring up Self-hatred
which would speak out boldly on the outside
world also. This parameter of hate if not kindled
quickly could result into Suicide or something
worse.


IT DOESN’T AGREE WITH OUR CONVICTIONS :
“ I hate my wife, she’s such a nag!”…A couple of
husbands would have made this kind of
statement quite a number of time. This centes
on one thing – Their wives don’t agree with
them, its like, their wives don’t want to
understand them-This applies to normal folks
too. A healthy dialogue could graduate into a
volcanic argument if the matter of dialogue isn’t
clarified or understood properly.
Lastly, hate is a part of the human emotional
makeup. It brings a balance between the
necessities of good and evil.
On a concluding note, I am confident that this
reflective write-up would have added to Our
collage of knowledge concerning the reasons
why we Humans HATE!.
Thanks.
#IKEMBA_ONE

Novo Ordo Stratum Progressiva…


Source: http://glasshouseorbit..in/2015/09/why-do-we-hate.html?m=1
Re: Why Do We Hate? by KanwuliaJara: 12:56am On Sep 28, 2015
In HIS own image and SICKNESS! wink
Re: Why Do We Hate? by Drogbotel(m): 3:08am On Sep 28, 2015
My question. . . differentiate between hate and dislike.
Re: Why Do We Hate? by IkembaCMD(m): 5:40pm On Oct 07, 2015
KanwuliaJara:
In HIS own image and SICKNESS! wink

...I don't get you....
Re: Why Do We Hate? by IkembaCMD(m): 5:41pm On Oct 07, 2015
Drogbotel:
My question. . . differentiate between hate and dislike.

They are synonyms, used interchangeably...
They point at the same thing...
Re: Why Do We Hate? by KanwuliaJara: 11:58pm On Oct 08, 2015
IkembaCMD:


...I don't get you....

Hatred is a sickness from that una "Godioh"!
So, why you "dey surprise"? wink
Re: Why Do We Hate? by Nobody: 3:08am On Oct 09, 2015
I have yet to experience the emotion TBH
Re: Why Do We Hate? by IkembaCMD(m): 2:26pm On Oct 09, 2015
KanwuliaJara:


Hatred is a sickness from that una "Godioh"!
So, why you "dey surprise"? wink

hmm, well, i still don't get your point
Re: Why Do We Hate? by IkembaCMD(m): 2:30pm On Oct 09, 2015
MrsPhyno:
I have yet to experience the emotion TBH

like seriously
Re: Why Do We Hate? by Nobody: 2:56pm On Oct 09, 2015
IkembaCMD:


like seriously
Yeah. I don't hate anybody.
Re: Why Do We Hate? by KanwuliaJara: 12:08am On Oct 10, 2015
MrsPhyno:

Yeah. I don't hate anybody.

You asked? "Why do we hate"?
I tried to explain the origin of ALL NEGATIVE EMOTIONS.

DID YOU NOT READ IN THE BIBLE: "FOR I AM A JEALOUS GOD"? grin

It only follows that in "HIS" own image and likeness, people will be MOSTLY filled with HATE, ENVY AND JEALOUSY. . . . Like their GOD!

Q.E.D. kiss
Re: Why Do We Hate? by SAMBARRY: 8:27am On Oct 10, 2015
Don't blaspheme madam k.

nothing evil comes from God. He is holy, perfect and the almighty God

it's devil that brought hate into the world and workers of darkness smiley
KanwuliaJara:


You asked? "Why do we hate"?
I tried to explain the origin of ALL NEGATIVE EMOTIONS.

DID YOU NOT READ IN THE BIBLE: "FOR I AM A JEALOUS GOD"? grin

It only follows that in "HIS" own image and likeness, people will be MOSTLY filled with HATE, ENVY AND JEALOUSY. . . . Like their GOD!

Q.E.D. kiss
Re: Why Do We Hate? by KanwuliaJara: 1:50pm On Oct 10, 2015
SAMBARRY:
Don't blaspheme madam k.

nothing evil comes from God. He is holy, perfect and the almighty God

it's devil that brought hate into the world and workers of darkness smiley

Hmmmm!
How can I blaspheme about something I believereth not? undecided
Only a "believer" blasphemes!
I am not and can NEVER be.
Tufiaaaaaaaakwa!!!! embarassed
Re: Why Do We Hate? by IkembaCMD(m): 9:50pm On Oct 10, 2015
KanwuliaJara:


You asked? "Why do we hate"?
I tried to explain the origin of ALL NEGATIVE EMOTIONS.

DID YOU NOT READ IN THE BIBLE: "FOR I AM A JEALOUS GOD"? grin


It only follows that in "HIS" own image and likeness, people will be MOSTLY filled with HATE, ENVY AND JEALOUSY. . . . Like their GOD!

Q.E.D. kiss


This, sincerely, has nothing to do with religion...
Do keep the religious suppositions apart... thanks
Re: Why Do We Hate? by IkembaCMD(m): 9:55pm On Oct 10, 2015
KanwuliaJara:

Hmmmm! How can I blaspheme about something I believereth not? undecided Only a "believer" blasphemes! I am not and can NEVER be. Tufiaaaaaaaakwa!!!! embarassed


This is purely a logical Writeup....
Re: Why Do We Hate? by KanwuliaJara: 8:51pm On Oct 11, 2015
IkembaCMD:



This, sincerely, has nothing to do with religion...
Do keep the religious suppositions apart... thanks

I beg to differ!
But, please carry on! cool
Re: Why Do We Hate? by IkembaCMD(m): 10:33pm On Oct 11, 2015
KanwuliaJara:


I beg to differ!
But, please carry on! cool

on a fresh note,what's your view about the post
Re: Why Do We Hate? by Yinkah15: 1:15pm On Nov 03, 2015
Good God...
Hmmmmmm, Nice one though
Re: Why Do We Hate? by dsquare33: 4:37pm On Nov 03, 2015
Just as love or to love irrespective whoever or whatever is inate, so does hate is inate,it's a vice while that of love is virtue.Like the OP has a stated hatred is borne out of a mind that is not sound. A mind that is not sound is not healthy, a mind that hates will always exude sorrow and that sorrow is what he unleash on others in form of envy, low self esteem, furstration e.t.c .The solution is to love Him, He truly loves, irrespective of your ethnic, religious,social and race background and that person is Jesus Christ. The more we soak ourselves in His love the more we radiate that love to others,because we become contend,love and appreciate ourselves and others around us.

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