Have you ever wondered why it's as though the perfect lady you found yourself falling in love with does nothing but nag?
Are you one of those who claim she was pretending to trap you?
Are you now scared of the woman she has become
Well the answers still lie in your hands. The woman you have today is the same girl you once thought was perfect the only difference is your touch.
Your touch you may want to ask and I will say yes.
There is a common saying of train up a child in the way he should grow and when he's old he will not depart from it.
Groom a lady the right way & watch grow into your ideal woman.

First thing you must know about ladies when it comes to relationship is the fact they always get use to things that are sweet and romantic.
E.g......
- Calling just to say good morning.
- Texting to check on her
- taking her shopping
- taking her on dates.
- telling her how you spent your day.
- making her feel you enjoying nothing but spending all the free time you got with her.
- calling to hear the sound of her before bed time.
A lot of guys are guilty of these act but its also common to see that the minute the relationship kicks off the story changes. A lady who had gotten so use to been treated as a queen is suddenly begging for the attention. She has to complain before he sends a text.
The excuse most guys give is "am busy with work".
If you didn't recently change a job then guy you have no excuse. After all you chased her while on that same job.

Guys will say some ladies want too much but I believe that the way you start up a relationship determines how much the lady ends up wanting. You cant start up a relationship making her feel you only shop in boutiques only to tell her two weeks later its time for okrika.
You visit her @ least twice a week and out of the blue you can't make it once in a month.

Relationships built on lies and pretence don't stand the test of time. ..

If truly things change between the time you asked her out and the time she became a full blown nag its because you haven't tried to explain things patiently. In a relationship, one of the essentials is "timing". Rather than leave the house or get into an argument make her see reasons.
Understand her point of view rather that claim "Mr right".......
It is in the bid to impress and win a lady over that a lot of guys get it all wrong. You woo her like a king she falls like a queen when you become you, most times the ladies can't handle it.
We do not seek perfection in man least we loose our focus but a man and a woman must realise how much they need each other. They must understand human nature which is their weakness to be able to understand what deciding to live together really means.

Ladies sha always blaming somebody

Nagging is as much exacting on the nag giver as also on the nag receiver.

Nonsense

This is a crock of shìt
Even the wisest of men (solomon) didnt have a clue how to deal with a nagging woman when he said you better off roasting on the roof of your house than to be in the same house with a nagging woman

starlingslimnet:
Ladies sha always blaming somebody

who is blaming who?

BUTCHCASSIDY:
This is a crock of shìt
Even the wisest of men (solomon) didnt have a clue how to deal with a nagging woman when he said you better off roasting on the roof of your house than to be in the same house with a nagging woman

tell me more

Cutehector:
Nonsense

good to c u again

Mzflexydeeva:
tell me more

you nag

Mzflexydeeva:
good to c u again

yeah... Likewise

BUTCHCASSIDY:


you nag

is dat all?

Mzflexydeeva:
is dat all?

For now yes

What's worse than a nagging woman?.
A nagging woman.

Both the nagger and the naggee, are virtually in danger,the difference is that the nagger, in this case the woman cherishes each nagging moment

Mzflexydeeva, I have only one question for u;

DaFuq does this

Groom a lady the right way & watch grow into your ideal woman.

means?

DollyParton1:
Mzflexydeeva, I have only one question for u;

DaFuq does this
means?

you can prevent a woman from nagging you out when you do the right thing of been you, taking care of her, been her partner & understanding the mood she's in.

Taking a close look @ d write up again, u'll fig out its not talking about ladies who nagging is part of their dna no! It's more focused on ladies who became the nagging type due to circumstances. This I believe can be prevented

I agree totally with this piece
No woman will start nagging a man if hez doing right by her
Wen a woman starts complaining of one tin or d oda her man isn't doing ryt,instead of d man to try understand her n probably explain tins to her
He Terms it nagging

How about the woman that is constantly nagging about her husband having an affair, out of excessive jelousy, when in reality the man is not even having an affair? How do you expect the man to deal with that? Or do you also blame that on the man?

Mzflexydeeva:
you can prevent a woman from nagging you out when you do the right thing of been you, taking care of her, been her partner & understanding the mood she's in.

Taking a close look @ d write up again, u'll fig out its not talking about ladies who nagging is part of their dna no! It's more focused on ladies who became the nagging type due to circumstances. This I believe can be prevented

You maybe right but some take advantage of guys that care thinking those guys are weak I learn that from bitter experience so these days I don't do more than what I believe is required of me, if she like make she nag from now till next year their is a limit to how much care I can give.

O boi this is yet anatha beautiful nagger pity your man, he better don't stay home

Here we go again.

In any case I disagree.

osesology:
How about the woman that is constantly nagging about her husband having an affair, out of excessive jelousy, when in reality the man is not even having an affair? How do you expect the man to deal with that? Or do you also blame that on the man?

has anyone blamed anybody for anything..... trying reading b4 attacking instead on attacking b4 reading. If she wasn't nagging about hi cheating initially then something prompted it. Figuring out how & wen it all started is a good start

LordOfTheWeed:

First of all, correct the mistake on the topic, you omitted "n" where you wanted to "In"

Second of all, i refuse to concur with your sentiments.. .. ..

I know

Ucheosefoh:
You maybe right but some take advantage of guys that care thinking those guys are weak I learn that from bitter experience so these days I don't do more than what I believe is required of me, if she like make she nag from now till next year their is a limit to how much care I can give.

the point is not doing more than is required of you. If you do wat is required of you, you set a pace and she follows it. When you start off doing more than what is required she also follows that pace such that when you start doing only what is required it results in nagging...u get?

Mzflexydeeva:
the point is not doing more than is required of you. If you do wat is required of you, you set a pace and she follows it. When you start off doing more than what is required she also follows that pace such that when you start doing only what is required it results in nagging...u get?

I got it but the reasons for guys doing more than required is because of the pretentious nature of most girls, at the beginning some will pretend as if they never want you which may lead the guys into over doing the requirements just to win their hearts. You know the saying no campaign after election. Once the hearts are won, the care reduces, familiarity sets in, some guys may discover that she did not worth the initial care maybe by then she has become used to it and has refused to adapt to the new method hence the nagging. I always tell people to live their life and avoid living by societal stereotypes and standards so that anybody dealing with them will know what they are in for, from the beginning.

Mzflexydeeva:
has anyone blamed anybody for anything..... trying reading b4 attacking inst
ead on attacking b4 reading. If she wasn't nagging about hi cheating initially then something prompted it. Figuring out how & wen it all started is a good start

It's like you don't even know the theme of your own write up. You just wrote that we are part of the cause of women's nagging, and then you turn around to tell me that nobody is blaming anybody. Mind you I read evrything b4 commenting. You just didn't want to answer my question direct, that's why you came up with this arguement. You must be a nagging woman yourself

I dislike nagging (women)
But I realize that it's something 99.9% of the female population does and tbh it keeps men in check a lot of the time.

I'm that 0.01% btw

MrsPhyno:
I dislike nagging (women)
But I realize that it's something 99.9% of the female population does and tbh it keeps men in check a lot of the time.

I'm that 0.01% btw

It keeps men in check, like seriously?

MrsPhyno:
I dislike nagging (women)
But I realize that it's something 99.9% of the female population does and tbh it keeps men in check a lot of the time.

I'm that 0.01% btw

you know you shouldn't nag beside me...I dislike it pa

xynerise:

It keeps men in check, like seriously?

yeah at least to an extent

just like a kid that doesnt do something just because he doesnt want his parents to yell at him

MrsPhyno:

yeah at least to an extent

just like a kid that doesnt do something just because he doesnt want his parents to yell at him

But we are not kids.