I am limping between decisions, I need your piece of advice to buoy my wobbling senses. A well educated lady is in my radar, I like ladies that control grammar very well, in fact I am a sucker for such ladies. This my lady controls grammar so well and she is beautiful, a graduate.

Now, I also have a young lady that comes around, and I observed that they are both different in manners. She is not a graduate, she stopped at secondary school level due to finance problem.

When this not so schooled lady comes around she always notices disorganized things and would arrange them, would notice dirty floor and mop up,wash dirty dishes etc. She would not greet me without bending her left knee slightly to show respect. She is not as beautiful as the educated lady though.

The graduate lady do none of these things, all we do is just gist.

Lately the school cert lady makes me feel the warmth of a caring lady, I am beginning to notice her more.

I am a graduate with tastes, I don't know what I want again, I am confused, somebody advise.

Just marry someone who is kind enough

The school cert lady is preferable. At least you can upgrade her to your taste.

jamb C.b.t. 2015 past questions! Ma bi ni jamb question! I no be dondu,i no be fool!

trust me your betterof with the well mannered lady... just tu.sh her up and give it time.
#easiersaidthandonetho.

tido77:
I am limping between decisions, I need your piece of advice to buoy my
wobbling senses. A well educated lady is in my radar, I like ladies that control grammar very well, in fact I am a sucker for such ladies. This my lady controls grammar so well and she is beautiful, a graduate.
Now, I also have a young lady that comes around, and I observed that they are both different in manners. She is not a graduate, she stopped at secondary school level due to finance problem.
When this not so schooled lady comes around she always notices disorganized things and would arrange them, would notice dirty floor and mop up,wash dirty dishes etc. She would not greet me without bending her left knee slightly to show respect. She is not as beautiful as the educated lady though.
The graduate lady do none of these things, all we do is just gist.
Lately the school cert lady makes me feel the warmth of a caring lady, I am beginning to notice her more.
I am a graduate with tastes, I don't know what I want again, I am confused, somebody advise.

It ain't gonna be bad if you have both in yaa girl characteristic.

vizkiz:
just

she's gat good attitude doesn't mean I should marry a vulture

can't get your point my guy , she is not ugly, just she is not so beautiful

afrikaa:
trust me your betterof with the well mannered lady... just tu.sh her up and give it time.
#easiersaidthandonetho.

I see wisdom, thanks

Cutehector:
Just marry someone who is kind enough

I feel u bro

Marry the lady wit d secondary schl cert and ur friends and families brand her uneducated, Half educated and all sort of names especially when she misbehaves.
Marry d educated girl and she would also receive d comment dat education does nt pass tru her when she misbehaves too. I was in situation One tym. Pray to God for guidance. Bt i would choose, i prefer the educated girl cos if u choose the other, u will av to explain to a lot of pple. To make or shapen her to ur taste will require alot (financially) when u r supposed to start a family u will nw start to spend on ur secondary schl cert wife in the university.

ksbusari:
Marry the lady wit d secondary schl cert and ur friends and families brand her uneducated, Half educated and all sort of names especially when she misbehaves.
Marry d educated girl and she would also receive d comment dat education does nt pass tru her when she misbehaves too. I was in situation One tym. Pray to God for guidance. Bt i would choose, i prefer the educated girl cos if u choose the other, u will av to explain to a lot of pple.

thanks bro

Sorry to say, you don't even sound like a graduate.
What stops the non-educated one from getting a degree?

elantraceey:
Sorry to say, you don't even sound like a graduate.

What stops the non-educated one from getting a degree?

not sure if u read with understanding , the lady stopped at sec school coz of finance. U need to return to nursery school dude.

vizkiz:
just because she's gat good attitude doesn't mean I should marry a vulture

[email] yeah, op marry the pretty one, so you wont get chimpazee faced children[/email]

tido77:
not sure if u read with understanding , the lady stopped at sec school coz of finance. U need to return to nursery school dude.

I think you misunderstood what she was trying to say.

Educated ladies who ate well cultured ain't finish out there brother...

Or u enrol the school cert lady in higher inst.. the rest they say is story

So the cleaning she does is what makes you notice her more Bulletin for you; we girls have mastered the art of pretence.
If a clean house and freshly laundered clothes sway you that much, hire a housekeeper/cook and buy a washing machine, then marry your beautiful, well educated, grammar controller and enjoy the best of both worlds.

PS. The educated girl is not necessarily bad mannered, she just might surprise you after marriage

BEAUTY

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Guys describing the other lady as being Ugly. Please, the OP only said 'not as beautiful' as the educated lady. That means, she could be beautiful as well.

For the fact that she stopped at secondary school, she should be able to speak English fluently. If she can, my brother, you are good to go.

However, what would count in my case is their respective ambition.

You wouldn't want a lady that can't stand by you during the rainy period. BTW, most beautiful graduates feels they are expensive to maintain like say them be cars.

marry both

See me see trouble. Pray to God for guidance o. Cos no be ordinary eyes person suopose marry these days o. Only God knows the future and impossible is nothing

Marry the educated Beauty, even tho it may fade later; but there are other qualities she'll have that you'd appreciate. The school cert holder with 'good' manners may just be a pretender to get what she wants. Plus, by the time you upgrade her, you never can tell what she'd turn into.

hmm

manners pls, everyone is beautiful, its a matter of time and money

"I fvck beauties and I marry manners". Quote me anywhere

Beauri

the school cert girl can even clean ur a s s hole after u pOo.what else has she to offer?
the educated girl isn't mannerless.she just cant act like ur maid while the sch cert girl knows she is below u n inferior so performing domestic chores n kneeling for u,to her is a way to get ur mind.
Marry her n educate her.dont come back to tell us another story o

Manner pls