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Parents Should Stop Doing This Because Of Their Children Future. by bytemeister(m): 8:07am On Oct 05, 2015 |
1>>Whether educated or not... This post or
thread is directed to all
parents and even the intending parents can
learn one or two
things from this while those who were victims
may also share
theire experiences.
.
I was in SS1 to introduce the newly promoted
students to
Physics as a subject... I felt there is the need
for me to ask
them why they chose the science department
even when some
of them know how demanding the department
could be... I was
taken aback with some of the response i got
from some of the
students. A female told me categorically that
her passion is to
become a writer in the nearest future as she
love reading poems
and Novel but her mother was against it. I
asked her what was
on her mother's mind when she said no and
she told me that
her mum told her emphatically that there is no
Nurse in the
family and as such she has to be a nurse to
fulfil her mum's
wish... I was left dumbfounded as the girl has
no other option
but to obey her 'dear mum'.
As if it wasnt enough, another told me he loves
designing but his
dad want him to be a Pilot and he doesnt have
any option.
The matter above is somehow sensitive as
even the so called
educated fellows make the mistake of
'departmentalising' their
kids if that Word exist in the english context.
The scenario reminded me of the movie 3
idiots that i watched
back then and i had to prescribe it to the
students to go watch
with their parents...
Imagine what disastrous effect it would have
had on their
careers if MOHAMMAD ALI's father had forced
him to be a
musician and MICHEAL JACKSON's father had
forced him to be
a boxer...
I Shared my impression with a friend and he
stated point blankly
that this is one of the many reasons why our
educational sector
keeps falling beyond expectation... It isnt about
what they want,
rather, it is about what we the parents want.
Parents have totally forgotten that they are
suppose to CHOOSE
WITH their Children and Not CHOOSE FOR them
when it comes
to their careers...
We might be vastly experienced but we still
need to respect the
passion of our children...
Let the children know that they need to follow
excellence and
success will chase them pants down as stated
by Ranchoddas
Chalmadas Chanchad...
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