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Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by coolbreeze44: 12:44pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
I had known her for quite a while and she had always turned down my proposal for dinner. She suddenly accepted my dinner offer when i was almost giving up, I later learnt she just left a relationship . We continued to meet and see every day and i fell in love with her. We exchanged messages and calls as if my dad owned MTN and her mum was the Managing Director. The feeling was mutual until this day (barely a month into the holy friendship) when she begged we should stop seeing each other and probably stop communicating. I thought it was a joke, my calls were not picked on time and when it becomes a missed call, sometimes it is never returned. My Messages were replied in manners that excludes any emotional underpinning. We finally met to discuss the way forward and reasons for her actions. She claims she is not ready for a relationship and that she has seen enough from guys. I am fully convinced she no longer sees her ex. Please advice, should I continue to persuade her or let-go. Letting go would be very difficult as I have already loved up in no small amount. Your candid advice will go a long way in helping me move forward. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by MsBliss(f): 12:48pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
chai |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by Tallesty1(m): 12:50pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
She is tired of seeing guys, even you so what do you want us to advice? Maybe she has seen that the friendship is heading to where she doesn't like or maybe she has started seeing another guy. It is possible. I will pack well if I were you because it is pointless forcing yourself on people who don't care. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by Theyveedo(m): 12:56pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Give her the space she wants. If she's really into u she will come back when her head is cleared. Stop buggin her with calls n messages cos that will make u loose ur self worth n most likely get u friendzoned. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by misspicy(f): 12:57pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Op let her be,she is fed up of guys lies and antics like me,blame your fellow guys for her attitude,she has been dealt a big blow,so let her overcome her heartbreak don't cloud her reasoning with yeye love |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by dharay99: 12:58pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
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Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by SirLegal(m): 12:58pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
I feel your pain bro. It seems like shez confused about guys, love and all what not. But don't call it quits with her. Don't just give up. Make her see that you are different from the other guys she have dated. Let her see that you are E pluribus unum(one out of many). ![]() ![]() |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by Nobody: 1:00pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
You sure say you no get mouth odour? There must be reason for the sudden change, check yourself again and again if you are okay! If you are satisfied that nothing is wrong with u, then something must be wrong with her # just saying o. |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by Nobody: 1:02pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
She has already told you, in no uncertain terms, that she's not ready for a relationship. I'm guessing you speak the same language, so which part didn't you get? ![]() Sometimes women flip flop. Initially, she must have thought she was ready to go out & date again after the break up. But on 2nd thought, decided that maybe she's not really that ready. It happens. Too bad your feelings are already involved but just take her word for it & leave her alone. She knows where to find you should she change her mind AGAIN & decide to be with you. Just give her some space to clear her head. That's if she's not letting down easily though. She could be the cowardly type that expects you to read between the lines & just "get it" that she's not interested. Either way, keep it moving. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by dharay99: 1:02pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
MsBliss: aaah, laaaaaaawwwwwd of mercy, See FTC's advice.? Nawa o0. ![]() |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by Nobody: 1:03pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
You're a big fool. First of all, you're a hopeless goat for your brain not to have registered the fact that the girl in question is tired of you. She said you should stop seeing each other and further proposed that you end all means of communication. . . what does that tell you? For fvck's sake she severed ties with you, dumbo. That means she's no longer interested in you, in the relationship. Its left for you to wisen up, take up the mantle and move on or continue mourning your loss. Your choice. |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by Magician1503(m): 1:04pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Cast your net in another direction bro, It's an opportunity to get something better ![]() #BasedOnBelief 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by coolbreeze44: 1:05pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Theyveedo:smells true! Hmmmm ![]() |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by malele(m): 1:09pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
coolbreeze44: Give her space. She never recover from her past relationship |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by falconey(m): 1:10pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
misspicy: . Wristbangle I blame you! |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by falconey(m): 1:12pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
crazysaint: LWKM 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by Hannysmilez(f): 1:12pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Just let her be. Don't bug her with calls and messages else you become a nuisance. You'll find a better one. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by misspicy(f): 1:17pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by falconey(m): 1:19pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
misspicy: what else do you want? Because of you I just blamed innocent wristbangle. |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by misspicy(f): 1:24pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
falconey:I want your right eye ![]() |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by phillipay: 1:25pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
The thing is this....The lady might be into you but needs time to recover so my advice would be not to cut off all means of communication and still keep in touch with her but dnt bug her with calls and messages every day..In due time if she is into you for real then she would come bak |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by wristbangle: 1:28pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
falconey: Lol baba wetin I do oo |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by wristbangle: 1:29pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by Deefuray(f): 1:29pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
She has spelt it out already. She doesn't want you. Just move on 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by falconey(m): 1:31pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
wristbangle: she say make we blame our fellow guys wetin them cause girls wey make them no wan love us. |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by MsBliss(f): 1:31pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
dharay99:lol he needs as much sympathy as he can get |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by misspicy(f): 1:32pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
wristbangle:So sorry,am not able to access my mail again ![]() |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by wristbangle: 1:41pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
coolbreeze44: Bro, there are reasons why a lady may stop seeing a guy which are; 1. She is in love with someone else 2. She is back to her EX 3. You are not in her league financially and morally 4. Maybe your character is dis pleasing her and your outward appearance (vocabulary, mouth odour etc) is not appealing to her. My advice is move on brother. Go and make money. U will see the magic of huge influx ladies parading your life. No grubbing lady is worth dying for. Have a nice day. ![]() |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by wristbangle: 1:45pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by wristbangle: 3:47pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
falconey: Lol bro. I am innocent |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by coolbreeze44: 5:03pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
PunkyVeer:thanks alot |
Re: Please Help! She Wants Us To Stop Seeing After I Had Fallen In Love. by coolbreeze44: 5:07pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
wristbangle:Your points are well noted. Money is not an issue here, to the best of my knowledge I am very comfortable and could be very caring as well. I never believed a girl could turn me down in that manner. |
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