I am in a relationship with a girl who pretends and thinks she is smart and claims innocent.Though I have nt caught her but my instinct says she is having affair.this was confirm whwn she visited and while sleeping together she mention other guys name.Can you believe she denied it absolutely.Can u pls advise

mentioning names in her sleep doesn't necessarily mean she's already cheating on you. . .get your facts right. . . . Innocent until proven guilty. . .

@ Thoniaslim,

Sleeping together is a figurative term for them having sex.

In my opinion, I think she is cheating on the dude. This is based on my own personal experience though.

Sorry
u've gat to be smarter,

@poster

dotsa:

other guys name.

Meaning more than one guy?

Sleeping together is a figurative term for them having sex.

Spot on.

But u know this girl is my first and the relationship is fallin into pieces as for me.but right now she seems serious and wants d relationship to work but left for me I am only playin along.Do u think it is right

Meaning more than one guy?

Well only one guy
It says "let me sleep tunde .stop it, "

u know.

dotsa:

But u know this girl is my first and the relationship is fallin into pieces as for me.but right now she seems serious and wants d relationship to work but left for me I am only playin along.Do u think it is right

Dude, if you not serious with her, best you quit the relationship man.

How old is the girl by the way?

bros take am easy jare. let me tell u about dreams.

if i come disturbing you throughout today, making you uncomfortable, there is every tendency that i will come again in ur dream, or if i come to you today, take you out. we had fun, enjoyed ourself. there is also every tendency that you will see me in the dream dis night. dreams are manifestation of the physical. surely she could be cheating on you wit the guy she calls her name while sleeping or not. facts becomes reality wen proven. dont judge her for calling some1 name in d dream. but then try to find out how she spends her day and wit who.

gud luck

How old is the girl by the way?

She is 26 goin for service in August

At her age, I assume she would be thinking of marriage and settling down. If you are already thinking you are not serious with her and she mentioned another dude's name while you were sleeping together, then the relationship between you guys was never meant to be and y'all are not serious with one another.

PATAKI

In my opinion, I think she is cheating on the dude. This is based on my own personal experience though.

Can you shed more light pls

The only light that can be shed on it is that, I have done it before. I mentioned ''damilola'' while I was with ''bukky''.  And I quickly fabricated a lie to cover-up.

Is that satisfactory enough for you?

@poster
wats the name of the guy she mentioned! ! ! ! . . . ,

anyway, wats ur case?
besides

"he who is without sin should cast the first stone"!

Hmn @Eniyan pataki

Yoo too

Pataki:

@ Thoniaslim,

Sleeping together is a figurative term for them having sex.

In my opinion, I think she is cheating on the dude. This is based on my own personal experience though.

Seconded!

dotsa:

Meaning more than one guy?

Well only one guy
It says "let me sleep tunde .stop it, "

u know.

She is making out with Dotsa, and calling Tunde's name

The thing is that i dont think i can take this relationship to the next level.
Should I just let her go or just keep playing along

dotsa:

The thing is that i dont think i can take this relationship to the next level.

now ur talking!

@dotsa she's definitely cheating. One more thing did you stop digging her when she mentioned the name? If no. She has every right to deny it.
It aint easy but that should hurt you enough to stop digging.

Well basically that was the final punch to me and come to think of it she keeps acting cool and smooth as nothing happens.

@dotsa: you seem to have pity for her, you are not sounding like you love her anymore. Have you ever heard of something called "getting hooked?", yorubas "call it o ti ha". i pray that don't be your end if you don't act fast. Make a decision.

~ 1, 2, 3, 4. . . ~

poster,
she must have been dreaming. It's natural jor

Hooked?

No way. I guess I should do whatever I got to do anyway though I dont think I love her anymore.

then, it shows that you too have been pretending.

i guess u ve made up your mind not to have anything to do with her anymore so u dont need to send such post here as long as u av concluded in ur heart that u dont love her anymore, so why waisting her time and let her go off ur way b4 its too late for both of u.

Did she tell you that you are the first guy she's dated? what if it's her ex's name she called?

INSTINCTS

be careful with what ever decision you tend to make

dotsa:

Hooked?

No way. I guess I should do whatever I got to do anyway though I dont think I love her anymore.

"Truth is the touchstone of itself"

oh boy, she is really cheating on you. if you know that you are tired of her, do not hesitate to do away with her. meanwhile, i will advise you to follow your mind.

she s having affairs
talk 2 her
av 1ce bin in her shoes
call her down and talk 2 her sences

@naomi 92
she aint u her altitude is clearly differs