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5 Surprising Reasons He WON’T Leave His Wife For ‘the Other Woman’ by Kelvinprinzyy(m): 3:02am On Oct 07, 2015 |
First and foremost I want to make something
clear. Men do leave their wives for other
women. It happens very often. One could say
you have a “fighting chance” if you’re the
other woman. But then again, you’ve probably
heard that from your friends already.
Let’s look at the reasons why you THINK he
should leave her — and why he chooses to
stay instead.
1. She’s gained 35 pounds over the years.
You know you look pretty hot compared to
her! Why would he choose her instead? The
reality here is that when someone falls in love
truly and deeply, they see the other person
with the eyes of their soul. Men don’t want to
say these things out loud, but they are just as
corny as most women.
Never-the-less, men can separate s*x from
true feelings very easily. They’re programmed
to look at a pretty face, and especially a hot
body. For some, it’s such a temptation that
they simply can’t resist.
But their wife is not in that category. Their
wife, in their eyes, is the same woman they
met twelve years ago, or twenty years ago.
The attraction is on a deeper level. The
connection was built over many rainy days,
arguments, illness and family tragedy. He’s
attracted to her soul. Being prettier and sexier
won’t help you to win this game.
2. She doesn’t understand him.
Yes, it’s true. You’ll sit with him and watch
hours of football, throw back shots of Patron
and watch P0*n with him. You know what he
likes! And he eats it up like it’s going out of
style.
However, did you know he doesn’t really care
that she won’t do these things with him? He
won’t leave her for that. He knows in his
heart that he can get his buddies to share
most of those activities with him any day. And
it’s a fair tradeoff, so he won’t have to go the
mall or sit and watch a sappy romantic
comedy with her.
But what if you know he really enjoys these
activities with you, specifically? What
heterosexual man wouldn’t enjoy his favorite
buddy activities with a hot, sexy woman
instead? This is just an opportune situation
for him. He won’t walk out on his family for
this. He’ll just milk it for as long as he can.
You see, he never cared about that when he
married her. He was used to having those
side guy activities all his life. He wasn’t
expecting it would change.
3. She nags him all the time.
In a long term relationship, a lot of women
start to turn into their mothers. And, many
times, they start mothering their men also.
You know not to do that!
Unfortunately though, statistics show that
most men who have a mother or sisters and
later get married are “trained” by these
ladies. They aren’t surprised to find lingerie
hanging in the restroom, and they’re not
surprised that their woman nags them about
leaving their socks on the floor.
Men who understand women know all too
well that we ALL nag, and if we aren’t
nagging now, it’s because we haven’t been
around him enough. He knows that as soon as
you two share a complete life together and
you get to see all his “sloppy dude sides,”
you’ll nag just as much.
4. She uses the kids to keep him in the
marriage or relationship.
I’ve heard this so often, but it stills astonishes
me! You don’t think a man should have to
stay out just because of the kids.
Wait a minute — of course she holds him
responsible for his kids! This is the reason
why he respects her on a level you have yet to
understand as “the other woman.” A couple
makes babies together and make a
commitment to those children for life. It’s an
unspoken vow that’s stronger than any
marriage. The relationship of parent and child
will precede and succeed anything else in his
life. This woman merged blood, family, and
went through hellish pain and agony to give
him an heir or two, or more.
When he holds those children in is arms,
there’s a deep gratitude and attachment in his
heart that no one can ever break. He won’t
stay with her because of the kids. He just
feels he can’t leave her because of the kids.
He wants his children to have the best
possible family scenario, and he won’t destroy
that possibility over hot s*x, booze and
submissive behavior.
So now that you know the reasons why a man
won’t leave his wife, you might just think that
you actually want a man like that. A loving,
committed, responsible man. He might fool
around with you now, but when he comes to
his senses, he will go right back in the nest
that makes him feel like a real man.
Yes, many men cheat, and it’s sad. But studies
show most cheaters stay with their wives
anyway. You don’t want to keep a cheater.
You want the one who won’t cheat, and if he
does, he’ll have remorse, make amends and
continue with his family. Don’t you deserve
that too?
source: yourtango.com 1 Like
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Re: 5 Surprising Reasons He WON’T Leave His Wife For ‘the Other Woman’ by SweetTee(f): 3:10am On Oct 07, 2015 |
Lol! I'm not about to read this whole essay. Please, someone tell me when a summary is available. 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Surprising Reasons He WON’T Leave His Wife For ‘the Other Woman’ by trapQ: 3:31am On Oct 07, 2015 |
May the lord bless I and my sisters and every girl/lady reading this thread with good, caring, loving, sweet, adorable, God fearing, hardworking husbands in jesus. KARISHIKA (other woman), fall and die ooooooooooooo 1 Like |
Re: 5 Surprising Reasons He WON’T Leave His Wife For ‘the Other Woman’ by Nobody: 5:46am On Oct 07, 2015 |
trapQ:Hahahahahahahahaha you no wan use eye see person wey wan just stroll around your territory? :-)) nawao don't you believe that there is love in sharing again? |
Re: 5 Surprising Reasons He WON’T Leave His Wife For ‘the Other Woman’ by Blackfire(m): 9:09am On Oct 07, 2015 |
Now this is what i called the truth |
Re: 5 Surprising Reasons He WON’T Leave His Wife For ‘the Other Woman’ by younghartz(m): 9:13am On Oct 07, 2015 |
The pic tho |
Re: 5 Surprising Reasons He WON’T Leave His Wife For ‘the Other Woman’ by excellencyabia1: 12:20pm On Oct 07, 2015 |
this what happens when we love and appreciate what we have. one truth is that life gives us what we give it. love gives us peace and a fulfilled mind |
Re: 5 Surprising Reasons He WON’T Leave His Wife For ‘the Other Woman’ by misspicy(f): 12:27pm On Oct 07, 2015 |
Why would he go and bring another woman in the first place when he claims to love his wife Oju kokoro lon da awon okunrin laa mu |
Re: 5 Surprising Reasons He WON’T Leave His Wife For ‘the Other Woman’ by NinaNigeria(f): 12:37pm On Oct 07, 2015 |
100% true. Most of the time even if he cheated, he will not leave. Most of the time, the person who courses the separation is the lady, when she refuses to forgive and she ends everything, but as long as you forgive him, he stays. |
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