I have been dating a girl for about 4 years now. I met her as a virgin; she is so beautiful and looks like a model. We love each other very much. I told her I hate lies. That it is better to say the truth or forget me. She is very loving and caring. I am even planning settling down with her. I have always believed and trusted her. She is the kind any man will want as a wife. But recently, she shows me some pictures she took in a studio about a year ago posing as a model. In two of the pics she was not wearing anything except for her pant. He said he decided on her own to take those pics, that there is no way she can hide anything from me that was why she showed me the pics. That apart from that, nothing and has ever touched her. I was very bitter but she asked for forgiveness.
She said she has been battling with her self on the issue because she doesn’t know how I will feel. She said she has to confess to me because she loves me. She is the girl I was planning to get married to. Should I go ahead…am confused.

Dude she didn't have to show you the picture. Seems to me like she is trying to be up front with you. If it's just pictures rip em up burn em and move on with you relationship. Don't let a picture break up something that could be meaningful besides i'm sure you have done worse than the pictures she showed you.

I say you burn the pics and the negatives and enjoy your life with her

She was only being truthful like you suggested.u dont have to feel bad.

Thank you all. I am very grateful.

Be careful how you react. If you react badly this will keep her from telling you things in the future. You want your woman to feel like she can tell you anything. Even if it makes your blood boil hear/seeing what she wants to tell you, you have to pretend not be upset.

A woman values a man that she can be completly naked to and not have to worry about it being held against her.

She loves you that is why she told you.

If you want me, a cherry on top,
The pick of the peck, The crème de la crop.
If you want me you better do better than that tonight.
Oh, Oh.

If you want me, it takes more than a wink,
And more than a drink and more than you think.
If you want me you're gonna have to break the bank, tonight.

'Cause some don't have the patience,
Some call me high-maintenance
But you pay the bill, 'cause, that's the deal.

If you wanna ride, just name your price,
And don't play cheap with your heart
Don't make a bet if you can't write the cheque, for me, for me.
'Cause I can be bought, but you'll pay the cost
If you can afford me

If you want me, I'm not a piece of ass,
A one night stand, a storage she'd
I think you better walk by, tonight
Oh, no.


If you want me, then stop begging
I don't put out for charity
If you want me there's no discount price tonight.

But I don't need your dollar bills
I just want something real
'Cause nothing's free, except a lovin' me

If you wanna ride, just name your price,
And don't play cheap with your heart
Don't make a bet if you can't write the cheque, for me, for me.
'Cause I can be bought, but you'll pay the cost
If you can afford me

If you want me, a cherry on top,
The pick of the peck, the crème de la crop

If you wanna ride, just name your price,
And don't play cheap with your heart
Don't make a bet if you can't write the cheque, for me, for me.
'Cause I can be bought, but you'll pay the cost
If you can afford me

If you wanna ride, just name your price,
And don't play cheap with your heart
Don't make a bet if you can't write the cheque, for me, for me.
'Cause I can be bought, but you'll pay the cost
If you can afford me

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@op
she didn't have to show you those pix but she did. i think that shows she wants to be truthfull & upfront with you. my advice is forgive her cos nobody is perfect

Think she is sincere

Thanks

U told her that she shldn't lie to u no matter what, and she came out with those pixs. Pal, just forget abt the pixs and move on with her. so many people have pasts they want to forget. she was being honest with u and from what she did, i'm sure she wants to be wit u. she came out truthful nd honest. not so many ladies of today have that kinda courage. so my advice - when next u see her, take her home, tell her to hand over those pixs to u, tear them up, burn the pieces, grab her in ur arms, kiss her till her head spins, nd tell her u love her. she really deserves it for the courage she displayed in showing u the pictures.

Maybe I'm missing something here; was she disvirgined by the photographs? I really dont know what the fuss is about. . .

Another numb nut, what do you expect, she a model. You don't deserve her, your to shallow and not very educated. Send her my way. I will be so much supportive of her.

Yeah I think she's just being honest. Be happy.

Thank you

she sir committed no crime.
get that straight.

she is one in a million stick to her, she is sincere anyway

@poster: "a bird in hand is worth more than 2 in d bush", abeg njoy dis r/s,

Thanks.