emusmith:


Nonsense! Uncouth! Insulting! Rude!

Why bring his mum into the pic?
All these kids...

I didn't

He did. He mentioned ladies and I asked about his mum. It was just a mere inference. It is allowed now

akike:


What about your mum? Was she worth it?

Mothers are not on the same level as a young lady who is yet to be committed to a relationship, sacrificed for her partner or possibly demonstrate love.
It doesn't make sense to keep comparing such girls to fully grown mothers who have gone through thick and thin of life with their families over a considerable number of years.

One or two points here

Truckpusher:
Their queer nature is what makes them special bro.

Trust me , try and relax with a free hearted woman and listen her - She's for your comfort but she's got a price too......and that price isn't money.

Just simply tell them what they want to hear.

You ehn

You haven't met the one that nothing go move her. Stay there o

eni4real:
Mothers are not on the same level as a young lady who is yet to be committed to a relationship, sacrificed for her partner or possibly demonstrate love.
It doesn't make sense to keep comparing such girls to a fully grown mothers who has gone through thick and thin of life with her family.

She was once a young lady. And FYI, whatever they did before they chose their husbands or their husbands chose them is no different from what is happening right now.

Forget that nonsense about modern day, it simply does not add up.

emusmith:


Haha! The angels of God are all over me, bro!

Honestly, with write ups like this ,these women would become smarter and you'd write more in the future but they keep changing like chameleon.

Get yourself one , make her your project and be contented with the outcome else trying to study a woman will kill you bro, this is a secret that belongs to God only .
Women has affected every decision that man has made on planet earth and they will always remain here , determining everything decision by default.
This is the truth let's face it else we might end up lying to the next generation of boys about these delicate creatures .

akike:


You ehn

You haven't met the one that nothing go move her. Stay there o

Stay where ? Women are just emotionally unstable in nature.
I believe that you're a lady and you understood what I'm saying.

If you have a brother that hates a particular boy in the neighborhood for some years , there is this likelihood that your brother might still have an axe to grind with him if they still exist in the same neighborhood but a sister and daughter is likely to love your worst enemy or family you have an axe to grind .

Though I look at it from a different angle , it is for the continuity of the human specie after all man is also an animal. The laws of natural selection cancels out everything.

Vinshu:


Oh I'm serious and I'm not aggressive. I am actually gentle and reserved but hate when men feel important.

sharrap diaa...men shouldn't feel important but women should, right? Just gerrara here!

akike:


She was once a young lady. And FYI, whatever they did before they chose their husbands or their husbands chose them is no different from what is happening right now.

Forget that nonsense about modern day, it simply does not add up.

My emphasis is not on modern or ancient days. I was trying to say that it is an insult to ask a guy if he consider his mother as useless simply because of the guy's cliche of "these girls are useless". His mother worth a gold, a great personality that took care if him since childhood such disrespect must not be accorded to her. You can relate his assertion to his sisters but not to his mother.
Mothers are precious abeg.

Truckpusher:
Stay where ? Women are just emotionally unstable in nature.
I believe that you're a lady and you understood what I'm saying.

If you have a brother that hates a particular boy in the neighborhood for some years , there is this likelihood that your brother might still have an axe to grind with him if they still exist in the same neighborhood but a sister and daughter is likely to love your worst enemy or family you have an axe to grind .

Though I look at it from a different angle , it is for the continuity of the human specie after all man is also an animal. The laws of natural selection cancels out everything.

I disagree with you. I am one of such women. I don't get moved, I get amused.

I have seen men who are close to people their wives can't stand. It goes both ways. I do agree that women are likely to do that but have you considered whether it is because they don't see what you see. They might think that the issue between you two is just childish and stupid.

OP, your points are valid, but you don't have to be a mysoginist. Back to the post, such guys erk me...dey don't just get "NO".

eni4real:
My emphasis is not on modern or ancient days. I was trying to say that it is an insult to ask a guy if he consider his mother as useless simply because of the guy's cliche of "these girls are useless". His mother worth a gold, a great personality that took care if him since childhood such disrespect must not be accorded to her. You can relate his assertion to his sisters but not to his mother.
Mothers are precious abeg.

Nah. Hs mum falls under the woman category and that is all that matters

If his mum is all that, he would realise that there are many ladies like his mum out there. He would also know that some men might once thought of his mum like that. Also, these little girls he is insulting are/would be mothers someday, do you think it is fair for him to insult other people's mothers just to get a point across.

You don't have to get all emotional, It was just a question

Good one

akike:


I disagree with you. I am one of such women. I don't get moved, I get amused.

I have seen men who are close to people their wives can't stand. It goes both ways. I do agree that women are likely to do that but have you considered whether it is because they don't see what you see. They might think that the issue between you two is just childish and stupid.

On the highlighted ,you're obviously lying to yourself and even your emoticon has betrayed your true feeling.
Of course women always think that all men are silly but it's that subconscious part of us that commands respect when you behold us , just like your queer nature attracts us.

I don't even know why boys are complaining about women when they are suppose to be your toys. If only you're ready to go down to their level.

Guys should just quit making them feel important anyhow nau.

Dymondgurl:
OP, your points are valid, but you don't have to be a mysoginist. Back to the post, such guys erk me...dey don't just get "NO".

But you can be a misandrist cum feminist rag head.

Truckpusher:
But you can be a misandrist cum feminist rag head.

if the occassion calls for it, sure. Sometimes its necessary sometimes its worthless and by the way, you do know the meaning of the word mysoginist don't you? Cos you ain't flowing with my line of argument.

Truckpusher:
On the highlighted ,you're obviously lying to yourself and even your emoticon has betrayed your true feeling.
Of course women always think that all men are silly but it's that subconscious part of us that commands respect when you behold us , just like your queer nature attracts us.

I am not betraying myself. I am very unstable but to say that I fall for what I hear or read will be the biggest joke of the century. It is my personality. If I were a guy, I will be a play boy but I am a lady.

akike:


Nah. Hs mum falls under the woman category and that is all that matters

If his mum is all that, he would realise that there are many ladies like his mum out there. He would also know that some men might once thought of his mum like that. Also, these little girls he is insulting are/would be mothers someday, do you think it is fair for him to insult other people's mothers just to get a point across.

You don't have to get all emotional, It was just a question

That question is meant for his father not him.
He can only speak about his experience with contemporary ladies. You can't simply jump back through a generation and ask a guy "does your mum worth it?" it doesn't justify anything. Why don't u ask if his sisters worth it?
Mothers are special

akike:


I am not betraying myself. I am very unstable but to say that I fall for what I hear or read will be the biggest joke of the century. It is my personality. If I were a guy, I will be a play boy but I am a lady.

The falling isn't for what you read or hear but the personality is all part that makes the man .

From his spoken voice to the way he carries himself is the personality .
Personality doesn't have a measurement but the man himself.

I totally agree with this is an eye opener for me, I think acting your advice will really help me.

eni4real:
That question is meant for his father not him.
He can only speak about his experience with contemporary ladies .you can't simply jump back through a generation and ask a guy "does your mum worth it?" it doesn't justify anything. Why don't u ask if his sisters worth it? Mothers are special

I am a soon to be mum. I am special. Iam awesome. I don't deserve to be told that ‘she is not worth it because she is a female'. Do you think it is justifiable to say that to all mothers out there?

It must be the time of day, but I really do not understand the point of this thread.

That's one. Two, I find the use of the word 'dump' very distasteful. You're referring to a human being, not garbage. You can leave someone if things go south or there are irreconcilable difference, or maybe you find someone more to your liking-- you do not dump people and you shouldn't use that word to appeal to your vanity.

Now if someone wants to explain what the emusmith is saying, I'll listen.

Truckpusher:
The falling isn't for what you read or hear but the personality is all part that makes the man .

From his spoken voice to the way he carries himself is the personality .
Personality doesn't have a measurement but the man himself.

Personality? Yeah


But all these toasting nonsense is simply amusing and makes me wonder a lot. It won't even change the way I see you.








Do you feel like we know each other?

akike:


I am not betraying myself. I am very unstable but to say that I fall for what I hear or read will be the biggest joke of the century. It is my personality. If I were a guy, I will be a play boy but I am a lady.

if calling out someone's mum in a discuss that doesn't involve her in the first place is one of the attributes of a lady, then I need to recheck the dictionary to see if the meaning of the word "LADY" has changed.

eni4real:
That question is meant for his father not him.
He can only speak about his experience with contemporary ladies. You can't simply jump back through a generation and ask a guy "does your mum worth it?" it doesn't justify anything. Why don't u ask if his sisters worth it?
Mothers are special

I should have asked him to quiz his dad whether his mum was worth it. But it think it is more provocative to frame it the way I did

I enjoy provocation

akike:


I am a soon to be mum. I am special. Iam awesome. I don't deserve to be told that ‘she is not worth it because she is a female'. Do you think it is justifiable to say that to all mothers out there?

Of course not. You can speak for yourself on how awesome you are and appreciated by people around you. However that does not apply to all ladies. It is abnormal to generalize that all females do "not worth it" but it is worse to take a swipe at a guy's mother to drive home a point. Two wrongs i guess.
I got ur point though.

CzarChris:
if calling out someone's mum in a discuss that doesn't involve her in the first place is one of the attributes of a lady, then I need to recheck the dictionary to see if the meaning of the word "LADY" has changed.

If calling out all mothers in a discuss that does not involve all of them in the first place is one of the attributes of a gentleman, then I need to recheck the dictionary to see if the meaning of the word ‘gentleman' has changed

eni4real:
Of course not. You can speak for yourself on how awesome you are and appreciated by people around you. However that does not apply to all ladies. It is abnormal to generalize that all females does "not worth it" but it is worse to take a swipe at a guy's mother to drive home a point. Two wrongs i guess.
I got ur point though.

It is not worse. It is simply an inference. If all ladies are this, then my mum must also be this.

Don't tell me you didn't do verbal reasoning in primary school?

akike:


If calling out all mothers in a discuss that does not involve all of them in the first place is one of the attributes of a gentleman, then I need to recheck the dictionary to see if the meaning of the word ‘gentleman' has changed

I never called myself a gentleman here, now, did I?

pzona:
Make I hear

Is ur wife Chinese or naigerian?...coz I know that Chinese aren't this hot.

am tired of all dis relation right up

nowaday, i usual just ask a girl strate, "can u please gimme yansh "

if she say no, den is not ment to be