She go spoil your kele kele oooo. I don't know what it means BUT She go spoil your kele kele oooo.

On a more serious note bro, just repackage the gifts and return it. Make sure you politely explain. Or you equally buy her a gift too, take it to her and seriously thank her for being a 'Good' friend and neighbor. Your gift counters hers.

Finish

HEY...GIFT IS A GIFT, YOU DON'T HAVE TO RETURN IT IF YOU DON'T WANT TO. IF YOU DONT WANNA WEAR EM GIFT EM OUT AS AS GIFT AS WELL.

ashmanpolo:
This girl in my area was hanging out with my friends and then she started bitching on me. That she hates me. I like forming. "Everytime he's dressing like an Americana and he doesn't even greet people" That, what am I even feeling like sef?

"Why is he not with you guys today? I always see him here everyday, drinking Heineken and always Laughing out Loud with y'all" She told my friends as she feigned obsessed.

The next day my friends told me about all the swearing so I saw her some days later and greeted her first. The girl is quite pretty BUT not my Speck. I don't do 'yellow paw-paw'. I started the conversation this way:
"Halo swit, my name's Ashman. You' so beautiful"
The young girl started laughing. Every word I said was countered with laughter.
"Are you laughing at me?"
She stopped, whipped her face. Looked straight into my eyes and said:

"I'm laughing because you don't even know how long I've been trying to get your attention" whew!!! I was flattered. For once in my life I felt like the Emperor of Rome. BUT one thing was sure, I can't date this girl. No NEVER.
We exchanged contacts and it's barely two weeks, she walked up to me and handed a parcel to me. "I got this for you"

I got home and opened it this morning. I swear, I saw a brand new Swatch wrist watch; Original Malizia Perfume and a foreign Pee-Jay. That girl must have spent an estimate of 30k. Right now I feel perplexed. I really don't need such gifts from a girl I can NEVER date. I mean NEVER and I also wouldn't want to be indebted to her.

'I know this kinda girls. If they fall in love, e don be for you na. They will remain in your life like Mount Zion that can never be moved. Love go taya you na'

How do I politely return her gifts.
Thanks. Mature responses needed asap.

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Ishilove

I like your principle,you reason just like me.

Do this...Call her and sit her down.

Tell her you like her as a person and friend but right now you are not too into her so you are considering returning those gifts so that it wil not look as if you want to take advantage of her.

If she says she understands that you can keep them, then please do.

I once had such experience and i really made the girl realize my stands

Why did you collect it in the first instance. I guess you are disappointed with what you saw inside. Very simple, pass it to the person that comment first on your thread

ashmanpolo:


Maybe it's a message. She wants a baby from.... Not me

Guy how old are you?and how true is this your story?because it's very rare for a Naija babe to act this way, that's, buying gift to someone not certified yet as her BF, which propel one more question from me; where is your location? I mean you don't reside in Nigeria right?

kindly face the wrist watch up so I can judge .

Sunexy:


Uv married an ogbanje



U dnt need 2 sleep wit her sha...she has ur baby alredi

guy you got me laughing

Bros, she's on Nairaland na.

NEPA don bring light

bestestgirl:
First lemme laugh you small

Second, those gifts are not worth 30k biko, so chillix and stop overthinking things, its just a token she bought you because she likes you.

You, on the other hand, should have rejected it outright since you know that you can NEVER date her. infact, why did you not just greet her normally and pass that day, you had to add all the sweet words and then exchange contacts (all the while knowing that you can NEVER date her)

Ok Now what to do:
1. pack all those things back into the gift bag.
2. Go to her house and knock on ther door
3. when she opens, hand the bag to her and say "Hi, I realise that I am to blame for this current confusion because I may have given you mixed signals, however I want to clarify things that I am not currently looking for a relationship, I would like us to remain friends but I don't want to date you. so if this exchange of gifts means what I think it means, I apologize for confusing you."
4. Turn around and go back to your house
5. NEVER flirt with any girl you know you will never date.


She may be hurt today but she will respect you for not playing with her heart.

your name being bestestgirl is an understatement

1st time I would b hearing dat a guy doesn't like fair girls........shuuuu

OyinMIXmola:
I srsly hate ish like diz,I'd rather stay single than taken cheaply all in the name of love...am sure if d babe knew how u created a thread on her matter,it even hit the front page too,am sure she wld start hating you men frm today onwards...if u dnt want her gifts then u sldnt collect it in d first instance,mercy after death...bro abeg go baffff

bless you, the op is just too childish and a very confused being, he prolly gave the lady a green light via his use of words, whatever happened to a normal hi, good morning and walking away, instead he sugar coated all his words and even exchanged contacts, now he is here seeking for matured responses when in essence, he really needs to grow up!!!!!! That's if his tale is true though...... Ion blame ladies who bottle up their feelings for men, it's babies like you that makes em feel embarrassed and cheap,return the gifts or you keep em and shut the hell up,trying to paint the poor lady up, but you ended up showing the world what a sissy you are.

Am sorry to say d op is just been childish....she bought u a gift nd u want to return it...datz bullshit,if she buys u gift repeatedly again nd it's not your birthday...datz wen u refuse it or tell her your mind...so dah at d end of d day she will know her place....nd stop whateva intention she has.nd as for all of u saying d gifts re cheap bla bla bla is what she can afford.nigeria boys sha smh,to b good or friendly na sin for where Una dey

Keep the items. just tell her politely that you usually don't accept gifts like that from people. But the truth is that I see you liking her.

Maliza perfume=N700
Baby blanket=N1000
Mallam watch=N700
Wrapping paper=N30

U should av rejected it immediately

O le, ole.

Evergreen4:
What happened to the doctrine of "chop and clean mouth" ?

buhahaha. kalokalo doctrine

why my mind dey tell me say you use style show us your gifts

Send me her phone number.... And will help you return it politely. Thanks me later

Op pass d babe to me.

Sunexy:


Uv married an ogbanje



U dnt need 2 sleep wit her sha...she has ur baby alredi

true talk, dey wld not understand. GUY RETURN THOSE THINGS! Don't give any explanation. Just tell her u don't want,simple, n safe ur destiny. Na birthday u do wey she give gift?

After the Reggae (accepting the gift) you are playing the Blues (regrets)...Pass her number make u pass d booooooze

free2ryhme:
www.nairaland.com/attachments/2936676_image_jpeg9f360c5ab7736510df54c882e9dbf188

my guy show the face of that your watch.


Original swatch don't come in nylon.

suspend your disbelief for the nairaland story.

GreenWhiteGreen:
You don fall for story. No Nigerian girl will say to a guy that she's trying to get his attention. Those pictures are what he intended to buy for her.

wonder

Why the two watches color different I smell lies

bestestgirl:
First lemme laugh you small

Second, those gifts are not worth 30k biko, so chillix and stop overthinking things, its just a token she bought you because she likes you.

You, on the other hand, should have rejected it outright since you know that you can NEVER date her. infact, why did you not just greet her normally and pass that day, you had to add all the sweet words and then exchange contacts (all the while knowing that you can NEVER date her)

Ok Now what to do:
1. pack all those things back into the gift bag.
2. Go to her house and knock on ther door
3. when she opens, hand the bag to her and say "Hi, I realise that I am to blame for this current confusion because I may have given you mixed signals, however I want to clarify things that I am not currently looking for a relationship, I would like us to remain friends but I don't want to date you. so if this exchange of gifts means what I think it means, I apologize for confusing you."
4. Turn around and go back to your house
5. NEVER flirt with any girl you know you will never date.


She may be hurt today but she will respect you for not playing with her heart.

God bless you.. this is the best thing to do..... aboki in (Chinese tone)

apheyz:





This OP can lie for Africa

Thank u.... U Don talk am finish.... First of all, maliza perfume is not more Dan 2k, dat wrist watch is not more Dan 3k,and dat handkerchief abi na baby napkin, is just 2H, so u have about 5k gift wit u, dats if na true, Secondly, u don't download pics of an expensive wrist watch and upload here for gullible people.... Dat watch am seeing below is highly different from what is among d so call gift.... No heart feelings bro.. Na u be James Bond

love that..u know how much it cost, just maturely ask for her account details and send it there, for ur mind u have paid for what she bought for u ,,simple..thats how i do too.dnt want any babe to say dey do dis and dat for me too...i stylishly pay back in another way after estimating the worth of the gist..

saaedlee:

So persuasion make you alter you stand? Cant you make a decision as a man? anyway since u know girls and boxers, I guess u have been receiving it in the past!
Bia, how can they wrap biscuits with "I love you" wrapping sheet?

the gifts aren't that expensive as you make it look, trust me on that. Ask her for her account number and deposit the "30k" if you think otherwise!

ashmanpolo:


No I'm not.

You are not in a relationship, Babe give herself freely to you and come give you gift sef on top, you still dey complain. You be gay!!! Na 14yrs be dat O!!!

Normal guy go just chop am, even if na for Konji sake!! I no trust you again.

Etizz:


Thank u.... U Don talk am finish.... First of all, maliza perfume is not more Dan 2k, dat wrist watch is not more Dan 3k,and dat handkerchief abi na baby napkin, is just 2H, so u have about 5k gift wit u, dats if na true, Secondly, u don't download pics of an expensive wrist watch and upload here for gullible people.... Dat watch am seeing below is highly different from what is among d so call gift.... No heart feelings bro.. Na u be James Bond

Abeg no make me provoke for u o....Na when malizia reach 2k? e no pass 800h

ashmanpolo:

Naa. I don't want

y dnt u want? Is dere something u dnt like abt her

I hate desperate girls, she be karishika ni? Op, i dnt blame u 4 collecting d gift cos it may av caught u unawares. Bt if u dnt knw hw 2 return d gift, find out her acct number nd deposit money in2 it nd let her knw u r d depositor. After dt, dnt give her face cos u're nt indebted 2 her anymore.