SUMMARY: Before you get married, make sure you spend as much quality time as possible getting to know that person you intend spending the rest of your life with. There is no rush. Ladies, don't get caught up in the ring and wanting to prove to all your homegirls that somebody finally loves you. Filing for divorce seems to be very popular and that's the spirit of the DEVIL. "Do i love you more than i know you"? Its painful to go down that road and figure out who your wife or your husband is on the other side of marriage. Most people want the ring, but its not like a trophy you get after a football or basketball game, showing that you won the championship, then the game is over. Wen you get married, the game just started. you don't want to get to know the person you married on the other side of getting married because that would be very painful for you. The tent, flowers, balloons, the skyscrapers, fantasy, romance, wen it all withers away, its still you and that person. Hopefully you'll get to know you married your best friend. Don't rush, take your time, PRAY.

Op...

Nice one OP, Prayer is key and there's need for effort to make it work. so how much of someone can one know? How long is enough to know someone? 3months, 6 months, 1 year, 6years... these are questions I ask myself

viclawz:
SUMMARY: Before
you get married, make sure you spend as
much quality time as possible getting to know that person
you intend spending the rest of your life with. There is no
rush.
Ladies, don't get caught up in the ring and wanting to prove
to all your homegirls that somebody finally loves you. Filing
for divorce seems to be very popular and that's the spirit of
the DEVIL.
"Do i love you more than i know you"? Its painful to go down
that road and figure out who your wife or your husband is
on the other side of marriage.
Most people want the ring, but its not like a trophy you get
after a football or basketball game, showing that you won
the championship, then the game is over. Wen you get
married, the game just started. you don't want to get to
know the person you married on the other side of getting
married because that would be very painful for you.
The tent, flowers, balloons, the skyscrapers, fantasy,
romance, wen it all withers away, its still you and that
person. Hopefully you'll get to know you married your best
friend.
Don't rush, take your time, PRAY.

Noted.

Ok

I need a job

nickkylawve:
I need a job

what kind?

naijaboiy:
Yea...crawl into it.

if possible

someone you might
want to spend the rest of your life with—is something that
has to go through a number of stages. Your relationships
with your boyfriend is different from your relationships with
your friends or your family, or at least I hope they are, so
it’s only natural that you get to know them in a different way and also as you prayer is also key.

senorB:
Nice one OP, Prayer is key and there's need for effort to make it work. so how much of someone can one know? How long is enough to know someone? 3months, 6 months, 1 year, 6years... these are questions I ask myself

someone you might
want to spend the rest of your life with—is something that
has to go through a number of stages. Your relationships
with boyfriend is different from your relationships with
your friends or your family, or at least I hope they are, so
it’s only natural that you get to know them in a different way.

senorB:
Nice one OP, Prayer is key and there's need for effort to make it work. so how much of someone can one know? How long is enough to know someone? 3months, 6 months, 1 year, 6years... these are questions I ask myself

Just know his bank account. Thats all.