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Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by ThiefOfHearts(f): 3:36pm On Apr 29, 2009 |
*funny thing is I was just talking about my haters on im with someone yesterday jenni, shey na you be topic of the day? ![]() |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by amebono13: 3:46pm On Apr 29, 2009 |
ThiefOfHearts: e be like say oooo ![]() ![]() ![]() like i care ![]() sista woman continue with the yim oooo, those people u r doing the yim will soon come and talk ,once theres a misunderstanding na today?wetin yim never cause for this forum? everything is being tabled and thrashed out on NL ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by LadyT(f): 9:27pm On Apr 29, 2009 |
Its not hate Sisterwoman but you dont need to make people in already bleeped up situations feel any worst. Osisi for example is married and her marriage as far as we know is solid and strong but it sounds normal we dont get mad outbursts of how amazing her husband is every 45secs. On a serious note I really panic when people in "love" get tattoos of each others names, talk about each other 24/7 to other people like there is no other subject. Declare their love 34585040359349 times a day honestly it all ends up doomed in the end. And this your greencard loff. . .Imma bitch I know its just reality *sigh* |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by sistawoman: 12:52pm On Apr 30, 2009 |
Does how we met really matter? I think how we finish truely matters. I dont think i am being deceptive at all. Yes everyone knows how and why we met. What you fail to realize and appreciate is the love story behind our meeting. PS. I talk about my kids in real life far more than i could ever talk about hubby. I use yall to talk about him. amebo no1.: What exactly will they bear? Lets see: My first name is : Sista My last name is: Woman I am married to a Nigerian I live in Baltimore Md I have a job I have two businesses My husband has his own business I love my man and he loves me I love my kids and they love me My children are beautiful and loved I cant stand to be buzzed and only warn one time before adding the person to ignore. Now that I have told you everything that anyone from NL could ever find out about me on YIM I guess it is all out in the open. Sweety i was not born yesterday. Sweety I have been playin the game for far too long. Sweety you gots to get up extra early, have a large bowl of weaties just to think about getting me. Unless someone is going to alter a conversation to add in juciy details of my life that are not true. . . the above is the best anyone from here can get from me. |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by touchmeder: 2:04pm On Apr 30, 2009 |
all i can say 2d poster is this (because there is nothing new in terms of advise that will do you any more good, u have heard it all) one day you will look into the face of your children and weep when they ask you why, why you made a mess out of their life y u put up wit so much rubbish n kept exposing them to nonsense as they grew up because maybe you dont know children get affected later in life on that day your whole life will flash before your very eyes how you constantly allowed disaster (that man u call a man)make a mess out of your life(indirectly affecting theirs) i wish you all the best |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by Dammyray(m): 2:10pm On Apr 30, 2009 |
Wats the big deal |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by maxtop(m): 2:33pm On Apr 30, 2009 |
amebo no1.:Consider yourself lucky,you married to the right man. @ poster-----i will rather suggest you live with him for the rest of your life,i know it is painful to love and cared for somebody only for the person not to cherish the love. But i guess that is your own cross which you have to carry no matter the circumstances. I know some people will tell you to live your man and settle for divorce but i want you to remember the Biblical saying :"the devil we know is far better than an angel we have not seen." Just let your man realize the extent to which he has ruined your marriage despite the fact that you gave your all to the marriage.In this type of situation; patience,perseverance and prayer will see you through and if you so believe in God and His wonders ,he can turn a new leaf. Be in peace and harmony with him. Cheers, C |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by hilli666(m): 2:59pm On Apr 30, 2009 |
When planing a family, especially raising children! both parties should always consider being the primary custodian to the child. In case of an unexpected demise of the other. In today's family, both woman and man are guilty of trying to place some kind of responsibility on the other. E.g Women expect the man to bring home the bacon, and men expect the woman to stay at home and raise the child. This setup was very reliable in the earlier stages of human societal development, where it was seen as a sociably acceptable practise, because the attainment of food in itself was a dangerous expedition e.g hunting, warring and pillaging e.t.c and hence reserved for the men, while the woman stayed at home and was responsible for all domestic affairs. Fast forward a few thousand years. Now advances in technology and changes to civil rights law and humanitarian law, has leveled the platform between men and woman, Work is just as dangerous for both man and woman alike. In such and environment you should adjust accordingly. The only deciding factor is now education and not gender. My point in all this is, If you weren't so dependent on old ideologies you wouldn't be in such financial predicaments. If he doesn't want to take care of his son then, you move on. I also understand the emotional hurt involve and the sever feeling of betrayal that can leave you scarred for life. But as long as there is a will there is a way. Pick you self up, dust your shoulders off and hop back on band wagon. And never put you trust in a man, History tells you that we are unreliable creatures. |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by eyeshadow(f): 3:04pm On Apr 30, 2009 |
bridget007: Girl, this is a sad sad story but you need to be strong; not just for yourself but also for your child(ren). Just start saying NO to everything he asks for. Visits, gifts, outings, money etc. I did that with an ex who I never thought I could live without. Even when it hurt me to do so I still said no. You will be surprised what that does to your self confidence. I hope you get yourself out of this mess soon and get your life back on track. No no one is worth being with such a disrespectful and irresponsible man. |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by Feelitx(m): 3:26pm On Apr 30, 2009 |
I have always felt that anyone who comes to Naira land should leave feeling better. Why all the hate? |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by sugabelle: 3:50pm On Apr 30, 2009 |
every day, more and more, I see why people say ***life is complicated***. bridget007, just stay strong and don't go losing ur mind over a man - no1 is worth that. |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by JJYOU: 4:08pm On Apr 30, 2009 |
amebo no1.:you, na telephone without wire you and karma be. una memory bank na only God know the size. this leilah and bridget show na only nollywood go fit use am. i cant beleive most of the things they come up. |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by JustGood(m): 5:04pm On Apr 30, 2009 |
These women never learn. I'm sure if anyone tried to advise them, they'd give the person a lecture on the meaning of love etc. You guys never sabi |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by JJYOU: 5:26pm On Apr 30, 2009 |
JustGood:you dont want to fall in love? when you become desperate you do anything. |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by bridget007(f): 5:34pm On Apr 30, 2009 |
Well, if you believe that |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by JJYOU: 6:01pm On Apr 30, 2009 |
bridget007:go and repair the car. why would you drop a man just when he needs you most? creat a thread and ask us what is expected of you as first wife. the guy maybe permitted by home office to marry a second wife on religious grounds. at least the pressure on you would reduce now he has a 2nd woman. who knows maybe a third. it only gets better from here. i am going to nigeria next week if you desire to sell the film rights i may be of assistance. only 15% commission no VAT. |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by wendyc: 6:14pm On Apr 30, 2009 |
Bridget, i'll tell u now that who ever said leave GOD out of it is telling u- well u can't get out of it. if there is anything on this earth that we think we can do with out GOD, i'll like for one to point to it. if u make a wrong decision, it's becos u chose to do dat, it's not GOD making d decision 4 u. right from d begining, he gave us dat freedom. it's left to us to follow and make the ones he advise us to take. As for all d people telling u to leave ur husband, ask which is married? ask how their marriage is, some will and do take more of all dat u have gone through in their own marriages if not worst, and then dey tell u to leave him. if u do, and d next prince charming comes, proposes on top of the mountain for all to see, gives u d best marriage u can ever dream of, takes u & ur kids to shopping in London or anywere every foru months, threats u like u r on top of d world, only to find out dat he's doing some rituals, or some un godly things, armed robbery or so, will u leave him too, and cos all u'll do is either get back here and ask for advise that u maaried a robber, or a killer, should u leave him, and d answer as always is "what r u doing with a killer" and all d stuff. Your husband is out in d world. far into d world i should add. all u have to do is interceed and pray for him, pray for yourself and ur kids. if u have taken d convenant that he's ur hubby, hold on and pray about it, d drugs if u can't have him around u and d kids, u can tell him to pls stop coming till he learns to keep it away from u guys, and ask GOD to deliver him from it. it's not an easy thing. some men cheat, even d ones dat love their wives, and all that stuff, it's temptation. d one with the power to over come it is the one that will over come, ur prayer is for GOD to have him over come d temptation. my dear all u have is GOD, any other thing is not going to work, even if u leave him for the next simple but loving GUy, what happens if dat one too does something? u leave again. marriages go through ups and downs, it may have being rough from d begining which u should have seen, but u didn't and let it happen, GOD is a merciful GOD, even with this, he will still help. depend on him completly and not on any advise dat some give here. |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by NosaHenry(m): 6:30pm On Apr 30, 2009 |
We are madly in love with each other. We do work very hard at keeping our marriage on track and working. The thing that brought us together was destined, it was ment for us to find each other. He is my missing piece. And if actions speak louder than words than his is screaming at the top of his lungs that he is madly in love with me. The best part about all of this is if he turned around tomorrow and said it is over, I have experienced a love that very few ever get to experience and that cant be taken away from me no matter what. [quote][/quote] This is one of the best compliment i have read in recent times. Baby, enjoy your life while it lasted (hope it will last till death do you part) because many people don't get to experience or feel true love throughout their life time. [@bridget My only advice to you is to work on your self esteem and you will be ok. |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by zilosxp(m): 6:35pm On Apr 30, 2009 |
@POSTER your English is scary.dont even know how people got to understand you.bet it wasnt easy ![]() |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by JJYOU: 6:42pm On Apr 30, 2009 |
wendyc:true but tell her to go repair the car and ignore her buddy leilah, Nosa-Henry: |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by noetic(m): 6:45pm On Apr 30, 2009 |
wendyc:@ poster best advice so far, and the best u can get anywhere. prayer works like , . . . , it does wonders. dont compare ur marriage to any one's, cos all that glitters aint gold. go on ur kneels and pray. |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by prittigrrr(f): 8:54pm On Apr 30, 2009 |
Real talk from the lst 2 posters! |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by AmAlone: 9:48pm On Apr 30, 2009 |
Actually, I had being thinking about this for years with doubts, but today I feel more certain that it is going to be the best of all time. I was thinking about opening a program, or lets say a school, or an Institutions. . . whatever. . . . It main aim is to get women to understand what 'MARRAIGE' is unlike other this one will be in reality! what do you think ![]() Women are to join this program, or lets say school, or this Institutions immediately after they grajuated and they are to be my WIFE!! for the next 4 yrs just to understand what 'MARRAIGE' Is all about. Am sure with this there will be nothing like divorce in or anymore of this topics |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by spoilt(f): 11:32pm On Apr 30, 2009 |
Who are these women? ![]() |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by sosisi(f): 2:55am On May 01, 2009 |
spoilt: I started to read the first post and the thing started giving me headaches. The story is too complicated for my liking. I have other things to worry about Infact I burnt my whole pot of kpomo tonight ![]() ![]() ![]() and I can't get the smell out of the house that is my biggest worry right now not all this baby mama drama |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by OgidiBoy(m): 3:03am On May 01, 2009 |
$osisi: No wonder white people would say "there goes the neighborhood" when black folks move in. Just imagine how disgusting burned kpomo would smell like. With all the money you and Doc make, you people should be eating stakes every night not KPOMO. ![]() ![]() |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by bintab(f): 5:18am On May 01, 2009 |
Leilah:I am very suprised you could help your friend this much ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by bintab(f): 7:32am On May 01, 2009 |
Leilah:Abegi ,see leila heping her friend,Leila, Leila, leilaaaaaaa heeeeeelp your self first. |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by JJYOU: 9:35am On May 01, 2009 |
Insert Quote bintab:leilah na physician wey no dey chop her medicine. she is becoming funny. $osisi:you dey chop kpomo when your brother dey increase the population right left and center. i go chop my own next week prenty prenty plus some fish and ogbolo soup. envy no one my sister. |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by Hauwa1: 9:47am On May 01, 2009 |
JJYOU, what kind of insect repellant are you taking with you? I need help with a real good one. Osisi, kpomo smell when burnt is ewwww ![]() Naija man sowing wild oats everywhere eh ![]() |
Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by Nobody: 9:57am On May 01, 2009 |
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Re: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by JJYOU: 10:07am On May 01, 2009 |
we use paludrine. the mrs is allergic to something in it so she takes an injection that works for 21 days and puriton or puriton not sure correct spelling of that. sister nwando, over to you. we start the paludrine 3 days before we move and our GP says another 3 days when we come. i have to admit i dont use it when i go on my own |
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