I have been dating this lady for 6years now,and believe me she is a complete woman in d sense dat she is every man's dream,she as her own weakness,but her weakness nd her strength makes me love her the more,I need advice and suggestion from my 2nd family(NAIRALANDERS),this lady she is from abia,@olokoro;d mum doesn't lik me cos am from edo state,d dad is just neutral,nd hapens to b d only legitimate child,she as a step brother.today or tomorw I want to suprise her by proposing to her,my family loves her nd my friends,pls I need your advice on what to do concerning the mother.I stay around dopemu in lagos,I don't know which of the hotels I'll use for the proposal.tnx

U need permision and advice frm nairalanders befor marryin abi? U don enta one chance

Must you propose in a hotel...Give the mum a shocker, propose in front of family members

Mek it simpl, organize a causual gt 2geda among una fam n friend n pop n qestn. No rehearsals, make it natural. Of cos jazz in d bkgrnd. NO MORE QUESTNS, HAPPY PROPOSAL DAY

malawi14:
I have been dating this lady for 6years now,and believe me she is a complete woman in d sense dat she is every man's dream,she as her own weakness,but her weakness nd her strength makes me love her the more,I need advice and suggestion from my 2nd family(NAIRALANDERS),this lady she is from abia,@olokoro;d mum doesn't lik me cos am from edo state,d dad is just neutral,nd hapens to b d only legitimate child,she as a step brother.today or tomorw I want to suprise her by proposing to her,my family loves her nd my friends,pls I need your advice on what to do concerning the mother.I stay around dopemu in lagos,I don't know which of the hotels I'll use for the proposal.tnx

OK lover boy.

Her mum doesn't like you will be a big challenges you will be facing because it will be better if her dad doesn't like you instead of her mum because we children are used to our mum than our dad.


You have dated her for 6years, therefore if marriage will not follow your proposal immediately, forget proposing to her dude. Don't waste more of her time.

Must you copy what others are doing ? Why can't you just propose to her in a simple way instead of hotel or you wan show her say you are romantic? Those stuffs doesn't mean you are OK?

What happened to going to propose to her in her house in front of her mum that doesn't like you?

She will know you can enter the Lion's den for her sake if you do this.


Meanwhile, I hope when you are married, you will not come here to ask us where her hole is.

bellong:
What happened to going to propose to her in her house in front of her mum that doesn't like you?
She will know you can enter the Lion's den for her sake if you do this.
Meanwhile, I hope when you are married, you will not come here to ask us where her hole is.

Obara Jisos! *sprinkles holy water*

Nice one bruv... i'm about to propose to my gurl (Possibly this month) but I keep getting goose bumps... sometimes I get scared when I look at marriages that started smoothly a ended badly, I get scared when I see how women change (good to bad), I got scared when a friend told me how diligent, faithful a hardworking his chick was before they got married and now the reverse is the case.
Yes I love my gurl, is she the one I would love to spend the rest of my life with : Yes, but a man gat to do what a man gat to do.....
I wish u well bruv but above all, hope u have prayed about it cus a woman can either make u or break u...

Discuss with her dad then organize a small gathering without telling her.... Let her dad call her to come over for some thing urgent, then surprise.... Pop the question


I hope she says yes

Tnx for all your advice nd criticism,d parents r based somewere in anambra nd d mum according to my fiancee as been meeting pastors to pray so dat my fiancee won't marry me,so I asked y?she said edo is far from abia dat what if she is old dat I'll keep taking my wife to my vllage

Am thinking of proposing to her before meeting the parents,cos by nxt wik sat both parents wil be in lagos for her cousin'swedding.no doubth I'll b there,nd I'll use d opportunity to meet them,I pray de like me,my fiancee use to say d dad is not d problem but the mum,dat if she sees me she will eye me from up to toe,dat she won't see anytin good in me,bt she says she is bent on marrying me no mata wat anybody says.

malawi14:
Am thinking of proposing to her before meeting the parents,cos by nxt wik sat both parents wil be in lagos for her cousin'swedding.no doubth I'll b there,nd I'll use d opportunity to meet them,I pray de like me,my fiancee use to say d dad is not d problem but the mum,dat if she sees me she will eye me from up to toe,dat she won't see anytin good in me,bt she says she is bent on marrying me no mata wat anybody says.

I think you should meet them first before proposing. Just a casual dad/mum, meet my friend kinda thing. I don't think the first time your girl's parents will be seeing you should be when you are already engaged.

Build up your relationship with them first and not slam them with official marriage talk when they don't even know a thing about you.

Never say never. The mum might actually end up liking you. Just be yourself when you do meet her. Don't try to 'over do'. Be courteous and respectful. You will be fine.

Phema:


I think you should meet them first before proposing. Just a casual dad/mum, meet my friend kinda thing. I don't think the first time your girl's parents will be seeing you should be when you are already engaged.

Build up your relationship with them first and not slam them with official marriage talk when they don't even know a thing about you.

Never say never. The mum might actually end up liking you. Just be yourself when you do meet her. Don't try to 'over do'. Be courteous and respectful. You will be fine.

Tnx for d advice.......

malawi14:
Tnx for all your advice nd criticism,d parents r based somewere in anambra nd d mum according to my fiancee as been meeting pastors to pray so dat my fiancee won't marry me,so I asked y?she said edo is far from abia dat what if she is old dat I'll keep taking my wife to my vllage

Jeez sorry you MIL to be is local and has a local mentality.

I think your girl's mum might not want her daughter to marry from a different tribe, some lbos can be very tribalistic.

Phema:




Obara Jisos! *sprinkles holy water*

Receive fire...

You better close your eyes before pepper enters..

malawi14:
Tnx for all your advice nd criticism,d parents r based somewere in anambra nd d mum according to my fiancee as been meeting pastors to pray so dat my fiancee won't marry me,so I asked y?she said edo is far from abia dat what if she is old dat I'll keep taking my wife to my vllage

God has done it for me

Wow,my brain is tabular rasa now.dnt have any suggestiön..concerning the mum,once she sees that u hv proposed she will have to choice than to accept you..pls notify us oh on the wedding date..me sef na umuahia bt neva go olokoro bfore.

malawi14:
I have been dating this lady for 6years now,and believe me she is a complete woman in d sense dat she is every man's dream,she as her own weakness,but her weakness nd her strength makes me love her the more,I need advice and suggestion from my 2nd family(NAIRALANDERS),this lady she is from abia,@olokoro;d mum doesn't lik me cos am from edo state,d dad is just neutral,nd hapens to b d only legitimate child,she as a step brother.today or tomorw I want to suprise her by proposing to her,my family loves her nd my friends,pls I need your advice on what to do concerning the mother.I stay around dopemu in lagos,I don't know which of the hotels I'll use for the proposal.tnx

bellong:
What happened to going to propose to her in her house in front of her mum that doesn't like you?

She will know you can enter the Lion's den for her sake if you do this.


Meanwhile, I hope when you are married, you will not come here to ask us where her hole is.

Im Lost o!
I be old school
Is hotel the new propsal method?

Op you better go and find a way of getting mama to your side first. What does she like? Get closer to the mama and find a way of getting her to your side.
Forget nollywood proposal for now . . those are for Gov daughter marrying obas son & its the parents that even "matchmaked" & "matchmooked" the kids in the first instance.

This is sambisia forest . . .focus on subduing the "opposition" first. leave feferity for later.
My 2 kobo advise

Tnx I realy appreciate u guyz,I knew I could alws count on u guyz,as it is now ill kip on updating u guyz on this issue.pls put me nd my wife to b in prayers.

She said YES

malawi14:
She said YES

Where did you finally propose to her then

...

Well I dint even hint her,I tuk her to my friends house,I dint even hint my friends too all of a sudden I stod up,everybody was jst stiring @me nd I told dem how she as bin wonderful,how I can't stay witout her,how my world wud be complete witout her,want to grow old nd have wonderful kids wit her.den I knealth dwn nd propose...................I was shaking nd I stirred tru her eyez,nd asked her will u marry ME?nd she said YES!I was so happy

Happy for both of you. I wish you both long life and harmony

But razor blade is N10 nah

bellong:
What happened to going to propose to her in her house in front of her mum that doesn't like you?

She will know you can enter the Lion's den for her sake if you do this.


Meanwhile, I hope when you are married, you will not come here to ask us where her hole is.

**her hole is** oga bellong that's really you typing the gods must be on vacation. lol

taryour:


**her hole is** oga bellong that's really you typing the gods must be on vacation. lol

It is impersonation...

Islie:


Where did you finally propose to her then

loool..

taryour:


**her hole is** oga bellong that's really you typing the gods must be on vacation. lol

Hahaha the barawo gods are in Rio swimming in Moët filled tub.

Bellong ooh

Finally we r getting married,you all are invited,nd thank God for me

malawi14:
Finally we r getting married,you all are invited,nd thank God for me

Congrats. And it ended in praises

Congrats dearie