Guys, can you marry a girl that was single or gang raped.

U see say peeps dey fia to reply! B.T.W xpect a lot of hypocritical responses! As for moi. . . I dey come. . .

what a person did or had done to them in their past is irrelevant to me, i wasnt there and so therefore cannot judge her on that,  this person is a crime victim and therefore shouldnt be judge on what some mofo did to her.
if you want to judge someone by how many dikc she had in her past then you best be ready for surprises or look for 15yr old virgins.
what is important to me is what she does from the day we start being together as a couple (and a clean std check)

on her wedding night, a prostitute, who shag no less than 10men per night for the last 10yrs, can be a virgin again, bleed to proove it and be tight as a teenager.

@ Topic: My take on this is quite simple. The individual in question has to realize that rape (physical penetration without the consent of the victim) is not limited to physical hurt alone, there’s the emotional trauma that goes with it. Both parties should be mindful of this before they take the bold step. Counselling helps, also, a great deal of understanding is required on the part of the guy. I’ve seen a case where newlyweds were shedding uncontrollable tears on their wedding day, peeps even joined in thinking its tears of joy not knowing they’ve undergone the ordeal (rape) weeks prior to their wedding. As it turned out, the couple couldn’t handle it and the marriage as we chat is no more. I’ve also witnessed a similar case in which the union seems to be waxing stronger. Its not all gloom but rather how we deal with it.

My point is, be well prepared before venturing into such.

@MrbrownJay

you are always realistic wif some of ur points

respect 4 dat

i think it will be unfair to visit the consequences of someone past on that person especially when the person is not the author of that past. simply put, a lady that has been raped has been traumatized enof, she doesnt nid stigmatization or discrimination. especially not in the area of love

why not ? was it any of her fault ?

~ Yep! ~

Yes ofcourse! as long as there is true love and the lady in question is not infected in any way.

I don't see anything wrong with marrying a rape victim but i would need to know that she has dealt with the issue (yes i know that would stay with her for life) and she is ready to put that behind her

Iyama

Someone that has been mentally and physically abused? Tufia Kwa! She should go and look for her rapist to marry her! How can such a thing be a mother to my kids

She was foolish enough to get raped, so she should stick with the shame and search for her one true love who coincidentally is her rapist and she might be lucky to be carrying the pregnancy of the rapist!

Sometimes i dont know why i am so blessed that i dont have a female sista The sh**t women go through sha!

Ewwwww!

jack tweed:

Iyama

Someone that has been mentally and physically abused? Tufia Kwa! She should go and look for her rapist to marry her! How can such a thing be a mother to my kids

She was foolish enough to get raped, so she should stick with the shame and search for her one true love who coincidentally is her rapist and she might be lucky to be carrying the pregnancy of the rapist!

Sometimes i dont know why i am so blessed that i dont have a female sista The sh**t women go through sha!

Ewwwww!

Your post just reeks of ignorance and self righteousness.
I wonder what you would do, if armed robbers came to your home and raped your 'smart' wife in the presence of your smart ass, while you fan them like a human air conditioner? They might even sodomize you as well, if they feel your wife doesn't have enough orifices to go round.

biina:

Your post just reeks of ignorance and self righteousness.
I wonder what you would do, if armed robbers came to your home and raped your 'smart' wife in the presence of your smart ass, while you fan them like a human air conditioner? They might even sodomize you as well, if they feel your wife doesn't have enough orifices to go round.

Of course, the marriage is over! What am i doing with a woman that has been raped? What do i stand to gain from her except shame, embarassment and humilation. I dont need that kind of drama in my life or feminine waste around me anymore. After a week of feeling blue, the process of separation leading to a divorce starts immediately and i look for another rape free chick.

Now that wasnt so hard to grasp. . .Was it?

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jack tweed:

Of course, the marriage is over! What am i doing with a woman that has been raped? What do i stand to gain from her except shame, embarassment and humilation. I dont need that kind of drama in my life or feminine waste around me anymore. After a week of feeling blue, the process of separation leading to a divorce starts immediately and i look for another rape free chick.

Now that wasnt so hard to grasp. . .Was it?

u're such a fool,

jack tweed:

Of course, the marriage is over! What am i doing with a woman that has been raped? What do i stand to gain from her except shame, embarassment and humilation. I dont need that kind of drama in my life or feminine waste around me anymore. After a week of feeling blue, the process of separation leading to a divorce starts immediately and i look for another rape free chick.

Now that wasnt so hard to grasp. . .Was it?

The fact is that you failed as a man, in that you were too cowardly to defend her (and even got raped yourself). Borrowing your words, there is also nothing for her to gain from a masculine waste like your self.

Now that wasnt so hard to grasp. . .Was it?

@jack tweed: You re typical black man,,,I will marry a rape victim as long as she is not the cause of the rape.what do I want to do with a rape free woman who cannot capture my dreams and goals in life except that she has not been raped?I will simply give her to jack tweed  to marry!
  Check the link below and tell how you feel after reading the story there?This just just happened 2days ago.A mother and three of her daughters were raped by armed robbers right in there house!

  https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-265278.0.html

MRbrownJAY:

what a person did or had done to them in their past is irrelevant to me, i wasnt there and so therefore cannot judge her on that, this person is a crime victim and therefore shouldnt be judge on what some mofo did to her.
if you want to judge someone by how many dikc she had in her past then you best be ready for surprises or look for 15yr old virgins.
what is important to me is what she does from the day we start being together as a couple (and a clean std check)

on her wedding night, a prostitute, who shag no less than 10men per night for the last 10yrs, can be a virgin again, bleed to proove it and be tight as a teenager.

Thanks for this piece of advice, you are beginning to understand what life is all about!!! who made us the Judge

As long as the girl doesn't contract any disease after the sex, I believe she is still my princess. But if she happens contract any disease, then I will become an unhappy prince because we can not shear our love the way we want( guys you know what I mean).

Even if I move on in life, I will always give her my attention. I think that is what she need most.

jack tweed:

Iyama

Someone that has been mentally and physically abused? Tufia Kwa! She should go and look for her rapist to marry her! How can such a thing be a mother to my kids

She was foolish enough to get raped, so she should stick with the shame and search for her one true love who coincidentally is her rapist and she might be lucky to be carrying the pregnancy of the rapist!

Sometimes i dont know why i am so blessed that i dont have a female sista The sh**t women go through sha!

Ewwwww!

No wonder people don't believe in true love. You won't know how nice it is to have a sister and you will never know.

jack tweed:

Iyama

Someone that has been mentally and physically abused? Tufia Kwa! She should go and look for her rapist to marry her! How can such a thing be a mother to my kids

She was foolish enough to get raped, so she should stick with the shame and search for her one true love who coincidentally is her rapist and she might be lucky to be carrying the pregnancy of the rapist!

Sometimes i dont know why i am so blessed that i dont have a female sista The sh**t women go through sha!

Ewwwww!

i hope you are seriously joking if not this thing you wrote here is seriously disgusting

jack tweed:

Iyama

Someone that has been mentally and physically abused? Tufia Kwa! She should go and look for her rapist to marry her! How can such a thing be a mother to my kids

She was foolish enough to get raped, so she should stick with the shame and search for her one true love who coincidentally is her rapist and she might be lucky to be carrying the pregnancy of the rapist!

Sometimes i dont know why i am so blessed that i dont have a female sista The sh**t women go through sha!

Ewwwww!

u may have out ran having sisters, but i pray God blesses you wid a female child, and that . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
hey,comon,dis is so not a good comment to make. watch ur tongue man ! !

Stats shows that one out of three babes have been forcefully laid, either privately or in front of others.

How do you disciminate for the one you know is raped? Some carry the scar and walk around quietly.

@ jack tweed, you will disown ya daughter if she is raped?

Are they no longer human beings again?

know wat it entails n be emotionally n physically ready for it. . . .

@jack tweed. Try and be humane. What if your sister is raped? Be civilised and sympathetic for once.

@billyfrank, jack tweed was unfortunate enough not to have sisters, she will not have wives and sister inlaws, not even female nephews, mother inlaws. He may end up having seven daughters for all his luck!

billyfranc:

@jack tweed.What if your sister is raped? Be civilised and sympathetic for once.

he says he dose'nt have any. ! so he definitely wont care?

You guys dont get it?

A rape victim is just as bad as the rapist. They are both disgusting. You cant stand both of them. They are irritating to the core and you need be someone that has to get away from both of them fast!

Whether i have 30 girls as children and 44 wives, once they have been raped, they no longer become a part of the family, because i cant stand them and there is no need to be moralistic and sympathetic. They were foolish enough to get raped and thats their wahala. I dont even know he difference between rape and prostitution? Maybe the rapists should be dropping some spare change after they have had their fun but the end product is that they are all disgusting to be around with.

Then again, how will i know Dont have a sister, not close one bit with my female cousins, i dont give a damn about the lifestyle of my exes or worry about such emotional crap about them, so it doesnt bother me and i dont see how it will affect me.

Yes i remember i once had this chick that i was this close to dating and before you knew it, she started telling me about her almost "rape incident" in University and how she was lucky to survive it. The moment i heard the synopsis of the story, i knew we would never go out for nothing. All of a sudden, she looked so ugly, revolting and disgusting to me. Imagine someone pukes bile and blood on you, ewwww!! thats how i imagined her from that day. Immediately i stopped calling and walked out of her life. I was glad i dated a rape free chick afterwards!!!

Men follow my advise and dont fall for the dregs of the society aka the raped ones. Go for the clean fresh non raped chicks. Your lives will be much happier!

@jack tweed. You dont have to be that heartless! Since you don't have sisters, what if your mum was raped? Will you deny her, walk out on her? Will she be so disgusting to you? Will you cut her off because she was raped? Guy, try and be humane, realistic and not egocentric! You sound like a lad! Sit down and think!

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jack tweed:

You guys dont get it?

A rape victim is just as bad as the rapist. They are both disgusting. You cant stand both of them. They are irritating to the core and you need be someone that has to get away from both of them fast!

Whether i have 30 girls as children and 44 wives, once they have been raped, they no longer become a part of the family, because i cant stand them and there is no need to be moralistic and sympathetic. They were foolish enough to get raped and thats their wahala. I dont even know he difference between rape and prostitution? Maybe the rapists should be dropping some spare change after they have had their fun but the end product is that they are all disgusting to be around with.

Then again, how will i know Dont have a sister, not close one bit with my female cousins, i dont give a damn about the lifestyle of my exes or worry about such emotional crap about them, so it doesnt bother me and i dont see how it will affect me.

Yes i remember i once had this chick that i was this close to dating and before you knew it, she started telling me about her almost "rape incident" in University and how she was lucky to survive it. The moment i heard the synopsis of the story, i knew we would never go out for nothing. All of a sudden, she looked so ugly, revolting and disgusting to me. Imagine someone pukes bile and blood on you, ewwww!! thats how i imagined her from that day. Immediately i stopped calling and walked out of her life. I was glad i dated a rape free chick afterwards!!!

Men follow my advise and dont fall for the dregs of the society aka the raped ones. Go for the clean fresh non raped chicks. Your lives will be much happier!    

@jack tweed. You dont have to sound like that. Wives are raped by their husbands, kids both boys and girls are raped by their housegirls and houseboys. How are you sure that the girl you are dating now is not a rape victim. How can you tell that you are not a product of rape. Its possible your mum did not want it that night and your dad raped her. Man grow up.
The difference between rape and lovemaking is that rape is a parasitic relationship while lovemaking is a mutual relationship

obviously u dont know wat love means one of it xteristics is it keeps record of wrongs and it covers up, systems may be rite and if u are u wouldnt want to be treated like a plague so be nice

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@jack tweed. You dont have to sound like that. Wives are raped by their husbands, kids both boys and girls are raped by their housegirls and houseboys. How are you sure that the girl you are dating now is not a rape victim. How can you tell that you are not a product of rape. Its possible your mum did not want it that night and your dad raped her. Man grow up.
The difference between rape and lovemaking is that rape is a parasitic relationship while lovemaking is a mutual relationship

spot on

@jack daniels or wat

are you gay?

Jack tweeters or whatever, you dont know the meaning of rape. Get you dictionary fast.