Hi nairalanders...


My ex and I got seperated about a month ago and now she's clamourin for a reunion...weird right?



The story behind all these is that she was dating another guy despite our relationship...when I found out,it hit me bad cos I never expected it.t confronted her then she said I wasn't committed to the relationship(cos of my very busy schedule).I tried to make her understand but she insisted on a breakup.the breakup hit me bad that even my mom noticed and asked if I was sick.I eventually recovered and bounced back thanks to my friends who helped out big time

I realised now that things are changing,I don't get broke easily anymore,my body is changing(cos I eat well now )and I've become cheerful now...The largest coincidence in my story is that her current "boo"is a friend to another friend of mine.he got my pin and we started chatting up and we became close sha that if he has problems with her.I sometimes tell him what to do


Now she's having big time problems with him after like just a month(or even more!) Of dating him...on wednesday she pinged me and claimed that she misses me and that we should make up,I immediately said NO,but she's been disturbing me



I love this girl die but I've noticed things have changed(esp the size of my wallet)since she left and I've been doing better,and I don't wanna be a villian to her "boo" hu is my guy....should I go back to her and continue the relationship or keep living a free life without her?


Help needed


Thanks

Cc lalasticlala,rocktation,farano

Sleep ooooo

Its too late to advise u broda..
Let's wait till 2moro mawning pls

There are too many to choose from. And we've to start letting them pay for their mistakes.

Abeg go meet witch and wizards wey dey do meeting 4 nyt.....
U no no say na midnight we dey??
Okay sha, my advice b dis....
Send me her phone number, I go help u out

Op has been loving the wrong person...she'z d night in ur day....dnt go bk to her else u go eat d face of ur freind and dhat ur wallet dhat has swollen might dry lyk sahara desert...simply tell her u aint interested anymore...i want to go and sleep sneh

Pls, jst let her go..she isn't worth it. Once bitten twice shy.

I guess the sex with her was good.

to move forward is life, to move backward is death, now its in ur hand to choose

dulux07:
Pls, jst let her go..she isn't worth it. Once bitten twice shy.

guy u wicked o

falconey:
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Said it well!

Some of you just come up online n spit gibberish or any foul thing dat crosses ur mind. The op said things and expected a contribution that wud b beneficial. If u have no advice and nothing beneficial to say ,,then go and sleep like you want to . Its not a must for you to comment.

@Op like someone said earlier, u already told her NO ,what else do you want?? U wanna go back and tell her yes??
No offense but truth be told most of these OPs already know d answer/advice they are asking for. They r just fishing for comments dat wud help douse their conscience, to allow them piclk d wrong choice and feel good about it.

I so much love that part about your wallet. Hehehehehehe.... Guy, if a gurl is constantly making you broke, then I think you need a rethink or for quick solution you need that spray delux07 posted above

Op, if your head says 'NO' and your heart says 'YES', please go with your because it's safer to have a headache than a heart attack. #Bewise.

Once a cheater, always a cheater!

Don't do it

No

Which guaranty is dere dat she won't cheat on u again, maybe d other guy is not taking care of her financially, nd wat r u still doing with her pin, it means u still crave for her

Dating a woman dat always makes u go broke is not good at all, a good gf should help you plan ur finances, not drain u

Well it's ur choice if you want to go back to her

But don't come back here and create a thread dat reads

I FORGAVE HER AFTER CHEATING ON ME NOW SHE HAS LEFT ME FOR SOMEONE ELSE.... AGAIN

you can accept her back if only she can show you a receipt that guarantees the lawd have removed/uninstalled her old personality and installed a new one that values morals and updated faithfulness if not move the fk on because it's probably not going to work so why waste the time you can invest in a fresh freaky chick? unless she's the bomb in bed and you want to tap that puna some more which is very understandable but after you've drilled the much you want then bounce Nigga because most times it doesn't work out.

she wants to use both of you, maybe she will switch back to the other guy later if you accept her now, bros over hoes you need to discuss with her current guy who's now your friend and tell him about her offer. Both of you are messing with a whoree, she's just a little whoree so why the fk would you want anything Real with her? maybe you two should play her game and dismiss her if you want to be harsh / treat her like a bitchh she is tell her yes invite her over yansh her and invite his current bf who will come in with another friend of his and tell her that he's friend needs to be fked too.
#StayAwayFromWhores

Nuellah02:
Op, if your head says 'NO' and your heart says 'YES', please go with your because it's safer to have a headache than a heart attack. #Bewise.

*contemplating*

seemz U're used to bin broke since u jst can't let go & concentrate of self development & upgrade

I beg let her be. when u easily go broke again, she might say u r Nt that commited. that is another way of saying u r a broke nigga

Crazy bitc.h that should be taught life lessons cos she's seemingly a glutton, an Oloju kokoro.

You really need to fukc whatever affection you've for this babe first bro and put on your brutality coat cos what I have in mind you do for her requires that.

Why not tell your nigga, her current boo about this development so he knows what kinda girl she is?


Why not reach a compromise with this guy that you both turn this bit.ch to your dumpshit?

Fukc her to oblivion then take images and motion pictures of her and upload her nudes on the internet to advertise to us all the latest w.hore in town?

She deserves those and more my nigga. Her career must to be destroyed once and for all before she breaks every good heart that could come her way.

Save the world bro! Save the world of an heartless bitch!

memyselfndi:
Which guaranty is dere dat she won't cheat on u again, maybe d other guy is not taking care of her financially, nd wat r u still doing with her pin, it means u still crave for her

Dating a woman dat always makes u go broke is not good at all, a good gf should help you plan ur finances, not drain u

Well it's ur choice if you want to go back to her

But don't come back here and create a thread dat reads

I FORGAVE HER AFTER CHEATING ON ME NOW SHE HAS LEFT ME FOR SOMEONE ELSE.... AGAIN

@bold, u get sense!
Today is sunday, I go bring plenty jollof rice for u...

Cc: mayorjosh what are u still doing with her pin? How are we sure u aren't even the one pestering her u both should make up...

pinceprinz:
Crazy bitc.h that should be taught life lessons cos she's seemingly a glutton, an Oloju kokoro.

You really need to fukc whatever affection you've for this babe first bro and put on your brutality coat cos what I have in mind you do for her requires that.

Why not tell your nigga, her current boo about this development so he knows what kinda girl she is?


Why not reach a compromise with this guy that you both turn this bit.ch to your dumpshit?

Fukc her to oblivion then take images and motion pictures of her and upload her nudes on the internet to advertise to us all the latest w.hore in town?

She deserves those and more my nigga. Her career must to be destroyed once and for all before she breaks every good heart that could come her way if not.

Save the world bro! Save the world of an heartless bitch!

My brother u are on point except for the bold, that one na wickedness o! Let the op just forget about her and move on with his life. But me think the op is still very much in love with the b!tch, that was the why he befriended the b!tch present boo, just to get current info about the b!tch. The op way no pure...

johnson232:

My brother u are on point except for the bold, that one na wickedness o! Let the op just forget about her and move on with his life. But me think the op is still very much in love with the b!tch, that was the why he befriended the b!tch present boo, just to get current info about the b!tch. The op way no pure...

She's evil too my man, let's teach her some lessons , Tit for tat.

johnson232:

@bold, u get sense!
Today is sunday, I go bring plenty jollof rice for u...

Cc: mayorjosh what are u still doing with her pin? How are we sure u aren't even the one pestering her u both should make up...

U better bring dat jollof rice or else

Better to be alone bro. Especially since ur wallet is doing better now

Stick 2 ur no

As usual, 99.9% of guys wld say "op collect puni n mv on" or "op do not accept her" wyl d remaining 0.1% wld wld be more reasonable... Op u alone knw all dt went down in dt r/ship, so d decision mkin is in ur hands@ d end of d day....All i hv 2 say 2 u is ds "In lyf, evryfn isn't black n Wyt...Der r also grey areas( be flexible),so reevaluate d situation n follow ur heart(fnz may or may not work out in d long run...Woteva d outcm,u'll hv no regrets l8r on)