Oliviaarims:
Is it really up to us to decide whom to love?... Once we make up our mind to love a particular person,does it just happen? Does love develop from our conscious efforts to fall in love?
I've always believed love isn't just a matter of choice. I feel it's largely dependent on certain standards we create consciously or which are inherent in our subconscious...It is only then that choice can perhaps be relevant. Let's take 4 instance a girl who's always never liked a man who's dirty,vulgar, shallow minded,short,boisterous,with a thick accent,etc and then she happens to meet somebody who possesses some or all of these characteristics she despises so much. Will it be possible for her to fall in love with him just by making a choice to?
What's ur personal belief on this? Do u think love is solely predicated on choice? Or that it's beyond our power- it happens whether or not we want it to without respect for culture,race,religion,etc? Or that it's a combination of certain laid down consciLet's learn and compare beliefs...









#Philosopher Quëën#

gab264:
Appie sundie Op

ronald4lif:
There's no such thing as love. Perhaps, that didn't come out right. I meant 'real' love doesn't exist. If it does there won't be any predispose choices and standards even before we meet the person.

I mean if a person says they can't date a white, Igbo/Yoruba or Muslim/Christian they've subconsciously agree and vetoed that these people are outlawed. Likewise an uneducated fellow who has vowed never to date someone without a formal education.

What this means is that no matter how lovable an uneducated these people considered as 'outlawed' are, they would never be appealing to such people. Thus, love is a choice and doesn't exist. It's a game of convenience.

Mzdivacious:
real love exists.dont be sadistic

ronald4lif:


You didn't say anything logical and if anyone is expressing sadism it should be your dumb brain that couldn't string together a constructive counter and factual rebuttal.

ronald4lif:
There's no such thing as love. Perhaps, that didn't come out right. I meant 'real' love doesn't exist. If it does there won't be any predispose choices and standards even before we meet the person.

I mean if a person says they can't date a white, Igbo/Yoruba or Muslim/Christian they've subconsciously agreed and vetoed that these people are outlawed. Likewise an uneducated fellow who has vowed never to date someone without a formal education.

What this means is that no matter how lovable an uneducated a person(s) is, they're considered as 'outlawed' , they would never be appealing to such people. Thus, love is a choice and doesn't exist. It's a game of convenience.

ronald4lif:


You didn't say anything logical and if anyone is expressing sadism it should be your dumb brain that couldn't string together a constructive counter and factual rebuttal.

iAmCharis:
Ogbeni, you kon dey vex these days oo.

ronald4lif:


You didn't say anything logical and if anyone is expressing sadism it should be your dumb brain that couldn't string together a constructive counter and factual rebuttal.

ronald4lif:


You didn't say anything logical and if anyone is expressing sadism it should be your dumb brain that couldn't string together a constructive counter and factual rebuttal.

OlufemiWhit:
No mind dat small gal jawe....i don't think she understands what she read

Mzdivacious:
smh dont make assumptions pleease i understand what i read,i however only picked out d part he said love/real love doesnt exist

zicoraads:

Mzdivacious:
lool my boooo.longest time.goan sleep

zicoraads:

Hmmm
Bet I can't sleep. What happened to your ?
I can't reach you. And I have been trying...and I miss U too

Mzdivacious:
awww..my phone spoilt.i cant bbm or anything!u wont believe the phone i come on nl from atm.im embarassed to say.

Oliviaarims:
Is it really up to us to decide whom to love?... Once we make up our mind to love a particular person,does it just happen? Does love develop from our conscious efforts to fall in love?
I've always believed love isn't just a matter of choice. I feel it's largely dependent on certain standards we create consciously or which are inherent in our subconscious...It is only then that choice can perhaps be relevant. Let's take 4 instance a girl who's always never liked a man who's dirty,vulgar, shallow minded,short,boisterous,with a thick accent,etc and then she happens to meet somebody who possesses some or all of these characteristics she despises so much. Will it be possible for her to fall in love with him just by making a choice to?
What's ur personal belief on this? Do u think love is solely predicated on choice? Or that it's beyond our power- it happens whether or not we want it to without respect for culture,race,religion,etc? Or that it's a combination of certain laid down conscious or unconscious standards coupled with a decision to love? Or perhaps, u believe something entirely different from the aforementioned categories....Let's learn and compare beliefs...









#Philosopher Quëën#