Cutehector:
U r d one dat needs help. Ur rules on dating r so stiff. Please try nd loosing up. Its not a do or die thing.

dharay99:

Niqerian men ds, Niqerian men dah†,
See if i e-slap yhu fr0m here...Network
qo run commo† f0r ur simcard...m†cheeeeew.!

donTbone:

Ashanti0522:
Well first of all let's just say that one day I coincidentally stumbled across nairaland while searching for " dating a Nigerian man" . And every since then I've been attached to this website .... Mainly , due to the high number of Nigerian men here

Anyways, I'm a strong hearted woman who looks at relationships through a different lense, than that of everyone else . in my eyes Everything in a relationship should be 50/50 , whether it's me paying for a movie ticket and my other half paying for dinner or me working hard on my own , so that way im not fully dependent on my partner... And The only thing that I require of my partner is for him to show his admiration and appreciation when it's due ... That's not hard to do at all but it seems like most Nigerians I come across have a hard time doing that.

Some of them constantly have a smile on their face, making them seem very suspicious. Some think that taking me on one night dates to the movies is gonna get them some sex ( NEVER ) rolls eyes ... and some are just plain hypocrites who NEVER stand by their word . like ughh it' ERKS my soul because I know theres good Nigerians out there , but they're hard to come by lol it's like finding a needle in a haystack its like most of them are so use to deceitful women that they can't see when a good one is in front of them ..

Help ??

liquidmetall:
Help you for what?

Your ist thread is to bash nigerian men,

Moniker created October 4th

Ashanti0522:


Why do you feel so offended ?? Mmm

gab264:
Op like seriously?? are u askin for a help now.
Or u just table some characters u want in (nairaland guys) just to drive in our attention.
Anyway u ave gotten mine though.
So since I don't have ur ideal character am better off

dharay99:

dah iz bcuz dah† load of crap
yhu pos†ed up der is senseless.

donTbone:

A man that will settle down with you wont ever agree to split all into 50|50 with you!
Men love to see they are the one in charge of the expenses, to take you out, pay the bills,
house and cater for you. Mind you, that doesn't mean you don't have a role to play in the
bills payment.

As for the cheating and sex stuffs, not all men does that. As you've mentioned, there are
still some faithful ones out there.

My advice....if you eventually see your Mr Right, don't wait to share 50|50 with him. All he needs
is your care and your respect!

#peaceOut

Ashanti0522:


Load of crap ? .. So if I lied it would have been more fascinating ??

Ashanti0522:


Never to bash a Nigerian man or men I should say ... Why would I bash them if I want one ? Lol wouldnt make sense

dharay99:

yhu'r already lyinq ohk,
No need addinq more.

Vinshu:
Op, I agree with you to an extent. It's the background and environment that influenced 69% of Nigerian men which makes it seem like all are the same.

But you cannot generalise as there are much better Nigerian men are out there.

Taking you on a date and expecting sex is because most ladies made it seem that way. If 80% Nigerian females had same sense as you do, they won't expect it. So blame the environment not the Men.

So op loosing up.

Vinshu:
Op, I agree with you to an extent. It's the background and environment that influenced 69% of Nigerian men which makes it seem like all are the same.

But you cannot generalise as there are much better Nigerian men are out there.

Taking you on a date and expecting sex is because most ladies made it seem that way. If 80% Nigerian females had same sense as you do, they won't expect it. So blame the environment not the Men.

So op loosing up.

STFUareyouGod:
and who is Stevie?

Ashanti0522:


Nah u haven't heard my character and I was giving off traits of some Nigerian men who have a bad character and I know all of them aren't like that .. In terms of help ?? Are you the one to help me on my journey of finding one ? Are you the one ? Or are you just here to criticize me ??

Ashanti0522:


thanks. ..

STFUareyouGod:

Vinshu:


I would leave it to your imagination

prettythicksme:
Hey babe ,show me ur curve since u b female! **flaunt it if u garrit!

STFUareyouGod:



(((((((((((((((((( is that curve enough

liquidmetall:





Ok you want one?
Why are you in need of a nigerian man ?

And where are you from

And what happened to the men from your own country?