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Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by olanajim(m): 11:44am On Apr 26, 2009
I am always an advocate of loving with head. I am also aware that some people are so fanatical about love that they will do anything to keeep that love. Once a while, you find people do foolish things just to show they love the other person. i strongly believe that everyone must know the limit of such foolishness if it must ever be tried.

Yesterday, a friend of mine told me a depressing story which \i want to share so that people out there will nt fall victim of this kind stupidity again.

There is a guy and gal who are madly in love. Both are undergrad at one of the famous University in the country. They do things that are out of this world and were deemed technically inseperable. The live together, eat together and are always found together. . .

Then for reason I can't understand, the story changed and they parted. Not long afterward, the guys stared showing other guys a recorded videos of their past sexual exploits. All of which had the girl in animalistic position mourning like a bitch. She was naked. But the guy was smart as he didnt filmed his own face. he only filmed the lady's face and their acts.

Now every Tom and jrry is copying the clip on their mobile as a part of their mobile content! I didnt know the girl but I found out that she live very far from Lagos (probably not aware that her nude picture is in circulation).

I just want to use this medium to appeal to ladies to be careful in allowing any man film their nude body whether partially of fully. That man may someday become your enemy and will make you regret fr the rest of your life. No matter how strong is love, it must come with a measure of modesty and respect.

I hope this help someone out there!
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by Fiona0007: 11:48am On Apr 26, 2009
This is shocking! How can anyone do this to someone they once loved? This guy is lowest of the low.
Be ware of this ladies.
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by detopshot(m): 12:18pm On Apr 26, 2009
I blame d gal at d same time i pity her 4such negative xposure,
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by Nobody: 1:02pm On Apr 26, 2009
i think most wise people out there knows that there is a thin lin between love and hate and therefore you should never consent to have your face on naked picture or videos. i dont condemn taking the pic/vid but be wise to get your identity hidden.
there are millions of pictures/videos of people that didnt allow for it to be put in front of the whole world but i guess some still believe that love is blind. I hope that it is an eye opener to all the people in love out there willing to do ANYTHING.
if it isnt a warning sign to people then so be it when they become an online porn sensation.
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by ladybam(f): 1:59pm On Apr 26, 2009
some peoples behaviour can just make you scream, I HATE MEN!!

but thank God for creating sane men, even in the mist of the rest . . . . . . .
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by Czarskit(m): 2:08pm On Apr 26, 2009
~ Hmmn ~ Funny enuff, I saw a similar vid a few days baq. It's gross! ~
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by agabaI23(m): 2:12pm On Apr 26, 2009
This is the worst kind of betrayal. I will never even wish my enemy this kinda of misfortune. Poor her!
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by Nobody: 2:17pm On Apr 26, 2009
Have you asked to find out why they broke up? A man doesn't get crazy all of a sudden.
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by surface(f): 2:20pm On Apr 26, 2009
Dats wicked,poor girl cry
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by Igwe9(m): 2:27pm On Apr 26, 2009
quite pathetic sad and shocking shocked shocked
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by ladybam(f): 2:29pm On Apr 26, 2009
michelin89:

Have you asked to find out why they broke up? A man doesn't get crazy all of a sudden.

yeah. but dat extent was way too far!
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by olanajim(m): 2:54pm On Apr 26, 2009
@michelin,
Does it really matter? Whatever the reason for their breakup should never have been the excuse for that action. Let me tell you, hers is not the first one i will hear. A lot of juck vids are circulating right now. Most of them taken in the privacy of the victims homes.

My point of the psot is, love or no love, NVER let a man or woma film you naked. It may boorang someday, We all should be concern. we mus not wait tilll someone close to us fll victim before be look beyond the surface. . . That lady can be anybody's sister. I am sure her family will be disappointed to see such vid in public.
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by Nobody: 3:05pm On Apr 26, 2009
olanajim:

@michelin,
Does it really matter? Whatever the reason for their breakup should never have been the excuse for that action. Let me tell you, hers is not the first one i will hear. A lot of juck vids are circulating right now. Most of them taken in the privacy of the victims homes.

My point of the psot is, love or no love, NVER let a man or woma film you naked. It may boorang someday, We all should be concern. we mus not wait tilll someone close to us fll victim before be look beyond the surface. . . That lady can be anybody's sister. I am sure her family will be disappointed to see such vid in public.

It does to an extent.
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by maray(f): 3:37pm On Apr 26, 2009
Too bad,i pity d poor girl sad
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by olanajim(m): 3:39pm On Apr 26, 2009
Well, I wouldn't know. I dont Know the guy personally, my my friend did. i also dont know the lady either. she is obviously back to her home-town after graduating.
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by Nautillus(m): 3:40pm On Apr 26, 2009
I don't buy this story abeg . . .there are tons of videos of this nature flying around cellphones. . . .why build a sensasional story around any randomly selected one?
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by maray(f): 3:42pm On Apr 26, 2009
Dats why am afraid of home based guys,they can be so wicked.Lord have mercy lipsrsealed
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by whitesturd(f): 3:46pm On Apr 26, 2009
May God punish dt guy wherever he is for this act of stupidity and immaturity.i pity the poor girl but no matter how deeply in love i am sha i wd neva allow a man to film my unclothedness.dis is truly a lesson to ladies.all de guys dt do this kind of thing,may God cut off thir dicks one by one.nonsense angry angry sad sad
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by maray(f): 3:48pm On Apr 26, 2009
Amen in jesus name lipsrsealed
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by olanajim(m): 3:52pm On Apr 26, 2009
Nautilus you dont need to. Until you find someone you know on it. remember anita Hogan? Is she lso a fake one?

Anyway it wasnt for me to find out what happen underground but fo me to let guys out there know that it is not right to risk such thing.

Maray,

Home based? what do you mean? most of the pictures that are flying around are from abroad. Are those also homebased? It is only recently that naija content are coiming in. You know you can easily diferentiate a real one from a fake one? if take by phone, you will know instantly through it quality and the unsteady hands that was filming it.

I rest my case on this topic. It is not the type I enjoy discussing.
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by Dammyray(m): 4:03pm On Apr 26, 2009
Na waoo its sad to hear but the guy na world greatest mumuooo i hate am die
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by yme1(f): 4:17pm On Apr 26, 2009
oh my God i think am gonna drop dead
goshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh that was so heartless of the guy
i mean this is sooooooooooooo unexplainable
infact this is soooooooooooo inhuman
it is sooooo outrageous
the truth is i dont know what to say,it is sooooo wicked of the guy
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by ladybam(f): 4:21pm On Apr 26, 2009
God! i cant believe people can be dis mean . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by Nobody: 4:24pm On Apr 26, 2009
@ yme

oh my God i think am gonna drop dead
goshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh that was so heartless of the guy
i mean this is sooooooooooooo unexplainable
infact this is soooooooooooo inhuman
it is sooooo outrageous
the truth is i dont know what to say,it is sooooo wicked of the guy

YOU NEVER HALLA!!! I will Like you to hit your head on the Desk! That's preferable  grin  THE DID HAS BEEN DONE!  grin



I have seen  alot of Videos like that,   grin Nice to watch thou!! seeing another naija shakara girls pussy! hahaha! waoh!!! No be today!  grin

For a guy to do that kind of shit, her ex,  thats too bad cry . He's absolutely insane!

But some Guyz are wicked oo!!  Wanderers shall never End cheesy

Ladies una don hear am?? Make una open una 2 ears down! make una no Let guy film una oo because of 1 stupid Love!!!

BEWARE OF DANGER MEN!!!  grin

BEWARE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! END TIME!!!!!!!!!! grin     grin      grin     cheesy
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by Dammyray(m): 4:28pm On Apr 26, 2009
Am also lost of words on this issue so human being can be like this after you both shared things all together ogaooo
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by MaiSuya(m): 5:17pm On Apr 26, 2009
As sad and shocking as this story is, I also find it somewhat funny. I hear of couples filming themselves while making love. . .why on earth would they want to do that? home made porn?   shocked shocked

My heart goes to the poor lady. I also suspect the guy may have been a crook all along; otherwise, why would he obscure his face, but allow that of the girl to be shown? If it was for their personal enjoyment, then both their faces should have appeared.

The guy had a hidden agenda all along . . .I have also heard of instances where hidden camera may be used on an unsuspecting lady, this might have been the case here. . .cuz I find it hard to believe why any responsible lady would allow herself to be filmed naked by BOYFRIEND (he's not even ur hussy)!!!!

To reiterate the earlier plea of OP: LADIES SHINE UR EYES!!!  grin
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by Lax75(m): 10:20pm On Apr 26, 2009
It's a VERY cold cold world out there. To think that someone who was like your best friend would go to such an extent to destroy you by messing up your image. I don't care how the break up took place, this sort of thing is very uncalled for. Obviously for the guy to only film her face during their "sessions" meant that he himself had his reservations. What a snake!!!
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by tpiah: 10:35pm On Apr 26, 2009
I hope the girl isnt planning on marrying a Nigerian.

she better find someone who when the video gets sent to his cell phone, wont get hypertension.
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by Nobody: 11:22pm On Apr 26, 2009
Lax75:

It's a VERY cold cold world out there. To think that someone who was like your best friend would go to such an extent to destroy you by messing up your image. I don't care how the break up took place, this sort of thing is very uncalled for. Obviously for the guy to only film her face during their "sessions" meant that he himself had his reservations. What a snake!!!



Echoes" very, very cold world". What a pity! This is enough to kill the girl.
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by dean2725: 12:18am On Apr 27, 2009
wooooooooooo!!!!

what?

am out of here lipsrsealed lipsrsealed embarassed embarassed
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by Kunbee: 12:48am On Apr 27, 2009
Wow, this is d 1st time i will hear about a love connection enuf of such vids out there shameless peeps and idiotic guy and why in hell will u allow ur bf or anyone film ur sexcapade dat is disgusting
Re: Don't Fall A Victim Of This, Ladies by Oxone(m): 2:44am On Apr 27, 2009
that was wicked. anyone who can do that can kill angry angry angry
have seen several videos like that though
wonder what makes them do it

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