It might not be a made-up story per se- I have a friend back then in University who always claimed that her mum is a health worker that she works in an hospital, only for me to visit her one day and discover that her Mum actually sells Drinks and snacks there. . I was like na health worker be dis. The OP just want to upgrade his profession that's why he claimed being an health worker. .

PunkyVeer:


I didn't want to comment because he claims to be a "health worker" but doesn't even know the difference between copulation & reproduction. If he can't keep it 100, why bother? I feel it's a made-up story anyway, so...meh.

madridguy:
TRUE LOVE IS WHEN YOUR PARTNER GET HIV AND YOU STILL LOVE HER.

@ OP, YOU CLAIMED TO BE A HEALTH WORKER AND YOU STILL NEED AN ADVISE ON THIS ISSUE ? IN FELA VOICE : YOU BE SEWEGBE HEALTH WORKER

Na Real Sewegbe Health Worker.

lifenajeje:
Hmmmm. Shows people are still ignorant about HIV.

Op Don't be surprise if a test is conducted using a determinant kit its you who would come out with a positive result.. Symptoms of different illness are alike so she may not be positive until a determine kit reveals so.

For the general house ...we have discordant ( one of the partner is living with HIV) and corcondant ( both partners are living with the virus). In both senarios there are millions of people happily married allover the world.

Don't abandon your love one cause of HIV else u would loose something special.


Marriage is a thing of the mind its either you are ready or not... If u can't marry someone that is positive you let the person know the truth and keep on being friends with the person. There are lots of issues that would make one not to settle down with their partner and they bring up other excuses.

What most people don't know is that there are lots of virgins who are living with the virus as I type this.. These are innocent children who were infected from birth with the virus before the emergence of PMTCT(Prevention of Mother To Child Transfer) presently people ignorantly still give birth to positive children who would grow up and get married.... What am trying to say is you could end up marrying a virgin but don't know he or she is positive with HIV..

SEX is not the only means which HIV is transmitted.. How many guys on nairaland have personal hair clippers .. How many ladies use their own hair pin.. Forget those crap about sterilising equipment..using lighters to burn clippers..clinically it's only bleach that can kill the virus..but as humans we can't drink bleach.....

Op even if that lady turns out positive u abandon her and she commences treatment someone better than you will know her value and keep her.

We all have different problems in life ...what u don't know about seek advice from the right channel always.

So in other word, he should marry an HIV+ person ? Anyone can be positive and we should not discriminate but I won't advise you to marry an infected person.

Ewu or Eghu..... Choose one......

PunkyVeer:


I'm not superstitious. I only believe in fate. Besides, saying otherwise still won't make me live forever. We all
gonna die & I don't fear my demise.

Suit yourself, my dear.
Good morning.

Fmartin:
Hmm... My girl friend is HIV/AIDS positive and we are into relationship not up to a month.

Though we have never had any coitus. She loves me soo much as do i.


It has not being confirmed in any of the laboratory that she is HIV/AIDS positive. But a reliable source close to her affirm to me that she is a victim. Yes! I would have Carried out a test for her but if she refuses the test, my relationship with her will be retarded. Because i will conclude that she is really HIV/AIDS positive.

Actually i don't want her to feel as being stigmatize if she realizes I know about her predicament and at same time not being close to her as before. Am a health worker, and I have also seen series of HIV/AIDS signs and symptoms on her.

Please nairalanders, I need your solemn advice. (advices..hehe) should I try and conduct a test for her or just quit the relationship?

And if am to quit the relationship, how do I convince her? Love y'all.

Go and do ur test too. But make her happy b4 u think of sending her away

ok na ....Now watch me whip whip.. watch me nae nae...

Kennydoc:


Suit yourself, my dear.
Good morning.

Since u can't ask her to test, sleep with her without a condom, then after 3months go n test ursef to confirm. ..

brother it may be a try play between her and that her girl friend you claim that knows her status, just to see what will be your reaction if you hear such thing about her, just to know if you truly love her as you always tell her. so i suggest that you should not run away on something you have not found the truth, but try and test on her when she is sleeping since your a health care tanks.

run for ur life bro

Fmartin:
Hmm... My girl friend is HIV/AIDS positive and we are into relationship not up to a month.

Though we have never had any coitus. She loves me soo much as do i.


It has not being confirmed in any of the laboratory that she is HIV/AIDS positive. But a reliable source close to her affirm to me that she is a victim. Yes! I would have Carried out a test for her but if she refuses the test, my relationship with her will be retarded. Because i will conclude that she is really HIV/AIDS positive.

Actually i don't want her to feel as being stigmatize if she realizes I know about her predicament and at same time not being close to her as before. Am a health worker, and I have also seen series of HIV/AIDS signs and symptoms on her.

Please nairalanders, I need your solemn advice. (advices..hehe) should I try and conduct a test for her or just quit the relationship?

And if am to quit the relationship, how do I convince her? Love y'all.

If you have not slept With her just tell her because you are a health Work, you will like both of you to do a test together, so that your relationship will not have any Old back. Don't tell her you know or that someone told you, just tell her u do test with everyone you date. If she refuses then she's a wicked person and you have no need to stay with her, she will infect you. You life is more important than Love, you will love someone else next month.

Fmartin:
Hmm... My girl friend is HIV/AIDS positive and we are into relationship not up to a month.

Though we have never had any coitus. She loves me soo much as do i.


It has not being confirmed in any of the laboratory that she is HIV/AIDS positive. But a reliable source close to her affirm to me that she is a victim. Yes! I would have Carried out a test for her but if she refuses the test, my relationship with her will be retarded. Because i will conclude that she is really HIV/AIDS positive.

Actually i don't want her to feel as being stigmatize if she realizes I know about her predicament and at same time not being close to her as before. Am a health worker, and I have also seen series of HIV/AIDS signs and symptoms on her.

Please nairalanders, I need your solemn advice. (advices..hehe) should I try and conduct a test for her or just quit the relationship?

And if am to quit the relationship, how do I convince her? Love y'all.

After sleeping around, she wan put everything for your head. Run for your life bro!!

tony4life58:


Hepatitis B is more dangerous than HIV because it is more infectious and often the chronic carrier will finally come down with cancer of the liver after about 20years at most. It has no treatment if the body doesn't clear it on it own. Most likely the children will be exposed too.
You said your friend has been vaccinated, i won't tell the outcome here

Thanks for the swift reply bro....I've sent u a pm , please let's chat there.

Love what?My brother, flee for your dear live cos if it happens in the other way round she will not give it a second thought to leave you in the lurch.Girls/woman that are unfaithful and not dependable

Love can be amazing.....

Don't dump her until you will seems to have your own hiv. Common sense you no get

Fmartin:
Hmm... My girl friend is HIV/AIDS positive and we are into relationship not up to a month.

Though we have never had any coitus. She loves me soo much as do i.


It has not being confirmed in any of the laboratory that she is HIV/AIDS positive. But a reliable source close to her affirm to me that she is a victim. Yes! I would have Carried out a test for her but if she refuses the test, my relationship with her will be retarded. Because i will conclude that she is really HIV/AIDS positive.

Actually i don't want her to feel as being stigmatize if she realizes I know about her predicament and at same time not being close to her as before. Am a health worker, and I have also seen series of HIV/AIDS signs and symptoms on her.

Please nairalanders, I need your solemn advice. (advices..hehe) should I try and conduct a test for her or just quit the relationship?

And if am to quit the relationship, how do I convince her? Love y'all.

and what are the signs?

other illnesses mimic the symptoms.

which in particular are you talking abt

Go and run a test on her if she test positive and you still love her encourage her to go for ART drugs by doing that you will not be infected by the virus and you people can still hve children that's not infected by the virus

Did u say you are a Health worker? I really doubt it.

PunkyVeer:


Meh is like a shrug or whatever

yeah i know... i use it too. it is a like an absent minded, DONT CARE IF UR HAIR IS ON FIRE version of whatever. just asked cos this is d 1st time i seen someone using that word.

naijathings:


yeah i know... i use it too. it is a like an absent minded, DONT CARE IF UR HAIR IS ON FIRE version of whatever. just asked cos this is d 1st time i seen someone using that word.

Oh ok

rigarmortis:


and what are the signs?

other illnesses mimic the symptoms.

which in particular are you talking abt

allergic reaction from anti-retroviral drugs eg headache on evry intake of new dose and dizziness

vislabraye:


What do you mean that it has not be confirmed in a lab that she's HIV/AIDS positive ?
Has she ever gone for a test ?
I'll advise you two go for so that you guys status will be known. Avoid sex. No use konji as excuse O. Your life is important. Btw, how well do you know her

she was my school mate and she is still in skul coz she is my junior

abeg wetin be the singns and sympthoms wey you see OP wey make you conclude she had aids... We dey wait before we go tell you anything..Onye ashi muo.. Dey buga people with your imagination

kilokeys:
Be wise bro..

Tell her u were diagnosed with a fat lump in ur brain..
Start to dey do like madman
Piss for body
Form epilepsy

So she go dump u.. Its better that way.

Cos if u do anyhow.. She fit Carry knife chuuk herself and chuuk u.. E don be be that o

_{Edit: this post gave me my 20,000th like.. Erhmm it feels good}

LMAO!!! EASY OO BROS HAHAHAHAHAHA. YOU NA EXTRAORDINARY STRATEGIST OO . SEE FORMAT

Am not sure HIV is such a big deal nowadays.

But if she's a slooot...

Love is blind no be wen ya babe carry HIV. guy you need TB Joshua to deliver you from mumurity....

[Clears throat) In tuface voice, Young man be careful to think it twice, before you choose to continue with such risk, so u don't see a blessing in disguise, sorry did I say blessing.

Fmartin:
Hmm... My girl friend is HIV/AIDS positive and we are into relationship not up to a month.

Though we have never had any coitus. She loves me soo much as do i.


It has not being confirmed in any of the laboratory that she is HIV/AIDS positive. But a reliable source close to her affirm to me that she is a victim. Yes! I would have Carried out a test for her but if she refuses the test, my relationship with her will be retarded. Because i will conclude that she is really HIV/AIDS positive.

Actually i don't want her to feel as being stigmatize if she realizes I know about her predicament and at same time not being close to her as before. Am a health worker, and I have also seen series of HIV/AIDS signs and symptoms on her.

Please nairalanders, I need your solemn advice. (advices..hehe) should I try and conduct a test for her or just quit the relationship?

And if am to quit the relationship, how do I convince her? Love y'all.

Advice, have sex with her and go for test

So in other word, he should marry an HIV+ person ? Anyone can be positive and we should not discriminate but I won't advise you to marry an infected person.[/quote]

Yes if he can live with it
No if he can't live it it....if u read my post well u will see where I talked about discordant couples..meaning one of the partner has the virus and the other does not have and there are millions of them allover the world blessed with HIV negative children.

Its better to marry someone who is positive and living with HIV , accessing treatment and takes the treatment seriously than other chronic illness I don't want to mention.

HIV NO DEY KILL.

one word..run!