I've been coming to NL for a long time now but I just opened an an account here not quite long ago.Pls,I need your advice(no insults,pls).I'll try to make it brief,so pls take things easy on me:We fell in love about 2yrs and 10months ago when I had admission into a higher institution,although he wasn't my first love but I can say he really got my heart that I don't want him to go.I had gotten into various relationships when I got out of secondary school(had no bf in secondary sch.),but I was just a player,playing with the hearts of those guys(not intentional),because I realised that most of them were after sex,I dumped them after testing the levels at which they can control their body,I made them reach climax through kissing and romancing and leave them high,then I'll break the relationship.Infact,I've been in a day-relationship.when I met him at my first year,first semester,I was having 3 guys already and he became the 4th,but I later left the other guys for him.And since then,I've always found it difficult to accept any other man.He is a handsome and nice guy.He later disvirgined me after about 6months of dating(can't explain how).he alwAys tell me that he loves me but whenever I introduce him to someone,they will tell me that he looks like a player,that he is more handsome to be true(I wasn't attracted by his looks cos we started dating before we met).Although,I've never caught him with a girl but whenever I checked his bbm,it always give me a doubt,I tried every possible method to catch him but he always appear to be clean.When I graduated,I do travel down to his place without telling him and funny enough,I always meet my stuffs the exact way it was,even up to my undies*.But,I still don't know if I can trust him.I'm sorry for the long and boring story,but please understand my plight,I don't have friends,I don't keep female friends,and. I can't open up to my male friends.Pls,help me,I really need to know if I can rely on him fully.(He might also be here)

Sometimes I ask myself wat do girls really want..

this is one very confused op with a very confused story line. I smell confusion all over this thread.

Trust is meant for God alone because he deserves it. Every other person has to earn it.
Proverbs 20:6 Most men will proclaim every one his own goodness: but a faithful man who can find?

TemihSmart:
I've been coming to NL for a long time now but I just opened an an account here not quite long ago.Pls,I need your advice(no insults,pls).I'll try to make it brief,so pls take things easy on me:We fell in love about 2yrs and 10months ago when I had admission into a higher institution,although he wasn't my first love but I can say he really got my heart that I don't want him to go.I had gotten into various relationships when I got out of secondary school(had no bf in secondary sch.),but I was just a player,playing with the hearts of those guys(not intentional),because I realised that most of them were after sex,I dumped them after testing the levels at which they can control their body,I made them reach climax through kissing and romancing and leave them high,then I'll break the relationship.Infact,I've been in a day-relationship.when I met him at my first year,first semester,I was having 3 guys already and he became the 4th,but I later left the other guys for him.And since then,I've always found it difficult to accept any other man.He is a handsome and nice guy.He later disvirgined me after about 6months of dating(can't explain how).he alwAys tell me that he loves me but whenever I introduce him to someone,they will tell me that he looks like a player,that he is more handsome to be true(I wasn't attracted by his looks cos we started dating before we met).Although,I've never caught him with a girl but whenever I checked his bbm,it always give me a doubt,I tried every possible method to catch him but he always appear to be clean.When I graduated,I do travel down to his place without telling him and funny enough,I always meet my stuffs the exact way it was,even up to my undies*.But,I still don't know if I can trust him.I'm sorry for the long and boring story,but please understand my plight,I don't have friends,I don't keep female friends,and. I can't open up to my male friends.Pls,help me,I really need to know if I can rely on him fully.(He might also b
e here)

I understand wat u want to kn....YOUR FRIENDS ARE FOOLS....looks and dressing isn't the heart....my advice for u is that for u to get a good output u must as well give a good input...guys can hav sex qith thousands gals bt still hav a wife material amongst them...U must risk so many and be prayerful....never force urself on any man....lk engage me,i need ur key,can we meet ur parents ?don't. beg for these things

Women problem too plenty jor


U r suspecting of wat u r guilty of
Na ur conscience dey do u so

masterchi:
this is one very confused op with a very confused story line. I smell confusion all over this thread.

. It's not that I don't love him,I really do love him,I feel I can't live without him.That's why I'm confused so that I won't be dumped,but he always tell me not to worry

Ok ... Only God know the ingredient wey he use for Women Body.. U sha wan catch am abi ?? He will surprise U one day

Can someone tell me the problem we should be treating on this thread

Abeg stop disturbing yourself miss,better have that doubt so you wunt be totally disappointed if something comes up,trust is good tho,only if u are sure its both ways,there is a saying that if its too good to be true,then its probably is ....

Hmmm, this one hits closer to home.

OP, can I ask something? Have you ever thought of or actually went ahead & broke things off with him based on these unfounded fears, just so you can be "free" from all the inner turmoil?

Love is not for faint hearted. Fall in love with your head so you won't feel this way

Sadly this is how Nigerian girls feel about guys that disvirgin them Confused & the feeling that they can't live without them.


Tomorrow this lady will marry another innocent man and start cheating on her ex (the playboy virgin slayer).



I must marry a virgin by fire by thunder

PunkyVeer:
Hmmm, this one hits closer to home.
OP, can I ask something? Have you ever thought of or actually went ahead & broke things off with him based on these unfounded fears, just so you can be "free" from all the inner turmoil?

. I tried it and he came back

No op, dnt trust him. its better u trust me.

Acidosis:
Sadly this is how Nigerian girls feel about guys that disvirgin them Confused & the feeling that they can't live without them.


Tomorrow this lady will marry another innocent man and start cheating on her ex (the playboy virgin slayer).



I must marry a virgin by fire by thunder

. You think I didn't leave him b'cos of that,I had tried to leave even before we had it,I just couldn't.It's like there is strong bond that doesn't give us the chance to be apart

[quote author=jamex93 post=38957825]Women problem too plenty jor



U r suspecting of wat u r guilty of

Na ur conscience dey do u so [/ I don't leave guys for no reason,I know what I want and the way I want it

TemihSmart:
. You think I didn't leave him b'cos of that,I had tried to leave even before we had it,I just couldn't.It's like there is strong bond that doesn't give us the chance to be apart

Try "it" with someone else, and the bond will quench (or reduce). It works like magic

QatarPlayboy:
No op, dnt trust him. its better u trust me.

No op, dnt trust him. its better u trust me.

Ok,..nw let me be serious nd giv u a little secret abt secretive guys. a guy who knws his way wud date more dan a babe at a time without him been caught. hv done dat so many times b4(nw repented,..lolz). dated 3 babes at a time for abt 1yr nd nor knew til i told dem myself after d relationship with dem had ended nd dey were like wat?. nt even a bbm or whatsapp chat on my phone any of dem saw nt to talk of receiving a suspecting calls. nw dis is my advice, never u trust a niggah until dat moment he say yes i do to u at d altar. though we guys re stil far better nd more loyal dan ladies sha.

Oyind17:

see dis fine girl o. dey here dey tag me, wont u advice ur fellow lady dt craves for help?

hottest babe ever hw far na?

I'm sorry that I didn't add this earlier,I have a posture of a man and I play football,my attitude is "tomboyish",I've moved with a lot of guys and I know how it is,I know cool,nice guys can be dangerous.And also,bad guys can turn out good

@OP
why are you feeling insecure??..

QatarPlayboy:

see dis fine girl o. dey here dey tag me, wont u advice ur fellow lady dt craves for help?

hottest babe ever hw far na?

Ofure, I no know watin to tell her

bu lu?

Oyind17:
Ofure, I no know watin to tell her

try tel her anytin jare. good or bad all na advice.
btw,.hv u replied my mail?

TemihSmart:
. I tried it and he came back

I knew it.

QatarPlayboy:
bu lu?
try tel her anytin jare. good or bad all na advice.
btw,.hv u replied my mail?

Nope, come on fb

Cutehector:
Sometimes I ask myself wat do girls really want..

Hommie I swear u beat me to dat question

QatarPlayboy:
No op, dnt trust him. its better u trust me.

Ok,..nw let me be serious nd giv u a little secret abt secretive guys. a guy who knws his way wud date more dan a babe at a time without him been caught. hv done dat so many times b4(nw repented,..lolz). dated 3 babes at a time for abt 1yr nd nor knew til i told dem myself after d relationship with dem had ended nd dey were like wat?. nt even a bbm or whatsapp chat on my phone any of dem saw nt to talk of receiving a suspecting calls. nw dis is my advice, never u trust a niggah until dat moment he say yes i do to u at d altar. though we guys re stil far better nd more loyal dan ladies sha.

na so my girl friend dey wan catch .Me ..hehehe..me sef dey leave my fone with am..single call no go enter..check BBM,check whatsapp .. ..we don't chase women so much,but we have side chicks who we call once in a blue moon..

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Ok na so dem dey talk to cover up

Oyind17:
Nope, come on fb

Ok sweet. i wud b there in d nxt minute.

drmikeadams:
na so my girl friend dey wan catch .Me ..hehehe..me sef dey leave my fone with am..single call no go enter..check BBM,check whatsapp .. ..we don't chase women so much,but we have side chicks who we call once in a blue moon..

My bro i dey tel u. abeg mk we leave am like dt jor mk ladies nor come knw all our tricks. lolz

btw,.. hw ya way na?