hI peeps, i was in a tight situation about 4 weeks now and i have not spoken to my Gf since then cos of wat hapund, the news is that she neva borthered calling me to find out why i have not called her or how am i doing. is this right or am i the one at fault?

guyz say it as it is pls. no missing words!

Did you guys have a misunderstanding b4 then? how often do you guys speak? are you sure she is into you the way u're into heR?

nope we did not, we were just fine. we speak everyday. for her being into me, i cant say yes or no cos humanbeing can pretend.

u know most times i wonda y she behavs like a baby.

she how old?

she is 34 yrs dis year.

Oscar J:

she is 34 yrs dis year.

You look so respectable in your picture. I wonder how you can post your private affairs on NL!

OH okay, she a grown azz woman, ummm, dunno --- she might have some "other things" going on with her. But i am not tryna help u conclude though. y'all been together for a long tym? r u older than her? since u been talking to her, hows her reaction been towards you? those minute things might count a lot to determine wassup with the whole situation.

michelin89:

You look so respectable in your picture. I wonder how you can post your private affairs on NL!

LOL --- Girl, havnt u even seen worse? dunno how peeps chop liver to put their whole lives on net -- me i go dey fear say if the "someone" i am talking about reads it nko, i'll prolly be smoked, lol

dae:

LOL --- Girl, havnt u even seen worse? dunno how peeps chop liver to put their whole lives on net -- me i go dey fear say if the "someone" i am talking about reads it nko, i'll prolly be smoked, lol

As long the person is a youngie or a teenager, no problem. But it gets really difficult when the poster is a full grown adult. How can you possibly help?

Oh well, Goodluck to 'em all. We all have ups and downs in life. _{*I wish there were no problems in life*}

iice:

Call her and ask why she didnt call. Don't know why una like stress

simples

thanK you Dae, no she is older by a year. we have been togeda 4 a year nw. i have spoken to her couple of times in the past and she keeps hiding under the umbrella that she is a WOMAN. i dont get it.

Michie, i needed to do so cos i just cant get it, maybe i am wrong so i want to know. my qtion is why will some one u claim to have a relationship with, not call you to find out y u ve not called or seen them? cos it takes two to tangle like they say.

i was in a fix n i was tight, couldnt call cos of wat hapund n she knows abt it and she did still refuse to call to find out hw far with me n my challenge as at then, all i got was calls from my relatives outside the country blaming me n saying al sought without finding out my own part of the story, not until i made it clear to them that they all soft pedal.

Oscar i think we R definitly in the same shoes.
like really, itz what i'm going tru. but i dont really care, since i do most of the calling
i see no reason Y she should not atleast call me and tell me wat see feels or think if she still wants me .
So wat am saying is if she truly wants u she would call and break the ice, if she does'nt call could mean she
does'nt want you and dont know how to tell you.
itz dat simple. Move on before itz too late.

@post

no.its not ok.u got 2call else . . maybe expect the worse

Nope - There's no problem. You're both good. In fact, you could keep waiting for each other's calls till death do you both part!!!

@poster
I think u av Ego problem (dat most of u African guys av) nd y are u complaining of her not callin u.Break the stupid silence by callin her and its settled.

tonia2000:

@poster
I think u av Ego problem (dat most of u African guys av) nd y are u complaining of her not callin u.Break the stupid silence by callin her and its settled.

Thanks.

lady bam:

@post

no.its not ok.u got 2call else . . maybe expect the worse

yee! LAdy Bam dont make it seem like something really terrible will hapun, the worst dat can hapun is she goes away.

or wat u think?

, honestly u should tell her how you feel.

If you feel she's not giving you enough attention, tell her

If you feel neglected, tell her

Holding it in doesnt fare well, eventually it WILL show

Oscar J:

yee! LAdy Bam dont make it seem like something really terrible will hapun, the worst dat can hapun is she goes away.

or wat u think?

ok. if u say so. den so so . . . . . .

haba i dont think u should ask if it is o k or not.well iwill not blame u actually it happen like that attimes it has ever happened 2 me so i think wateva i say is 4rm a little xperience,sha it not proper that u av not called her cos courtsey demandes that n apart 4rm that to fulfill all righteosness.level all ground with herand settle the squall and neva give in to the bitter pill of defeat.good luck, also let her know how u feel the past days u av not been communicating.