Nairalanders pls advice me on this one, I am so so stuck and short of words. My friend has been so excited to show me his fiancee, and has continously talked about her, like twas all that mattered. He severally invited me to come assess her,  I just not been able to. Finally, we were able to connect at Shoprite - me, my girl, him and his fiancee. My God, what did I see? Gbenga is a cute, cool, fine banker by all standard, so I expected somtin to match this, but ,  I cant even understand it, a much senior colleague in thesame office, 7yrs older, and he is so into the whole thing like a drugged child.It all doesnt add up. I hope he is correct.

Juju does wonders lol, there's nothing u can really do about it considering the fact that he is "into her like a drugged child" LOL, just call his attention and tease him and be like, does he really like the person, well depends on how y'all get along. Some people take offence when a truth is said. But really, this is not ur biznezz, so just be careful.

beauty is in the eyes of the beholder

one man's meat another man's poison

no be me talk am o o

dae:

Juju does wonders lol, there's nothing u can really do about it considering the fact that he is "into her like a drugged child" LOL, just call his attention and tease him and be like, does he really like the person, well depends on how y'all get along. Some people take offence when a truth is said. But really, this is not ur biznezz, so just be careful.

You can't go wrong with this advice

My God, what did I see? Gbenga is a cute, cool, fine banker by all standard, so I expected somtin to match this, but , I cant even understand it, a much senior colleague in thesame office, 7yrs older, not good looking, and he is so into the whole thing like a drugged child. I was startled, dumbfounded, short of expression, how did this happen? pls guys help me, how can I talk to him? I just dont know how to put it. Maybe I am wrong tho, but it all doesnt add up. I hope he is correct.

you nor go leave them. how do you know she is not a good woman? does your friend act like he is under some kind of influence? then let his family help him there. you cant love him more than his family. keep praying for him if you care so much if its fake with time it will fall apart.

i dont get the problem here

Gbenga is either in love or trying to get a promotion.

Either way, its his business.

~ m. y. b ~

pray for Gbenga but dont push it. you can only do so much.

aint nufin u can do about it. unless u want ur friend 2despise u 4d rest of his life. so . . . . . . . . . fi le

y me:

beauty is in the eyes of the beholder

but there are some 'general beholding'

@biina
please expantiate on your "general beholding"

Girls and jazz. . . I hear the latest one is called conomi or something like that

Guys just need to watch their runs.

y me:

@biina
please expantiate on your "general beholding"

There are some very good looking people that, while some might disagree with the opinion of most that they are the best looking person they have ever seen, all will agree that they are good looking.
Similar argument can be made for the other end of the spectrum.

and how is it ur biznez if the girl aint cute. i mean seriously ?/

if Gbenga likes them ugly wats ur own?

follypimpi:

Is she Kemistry Bintifull or OBJ Beautifull U never can saymayb she can work it both in kitchen and bed

E be like say u like Kemistry secretly . . . . dont lie

follypimpi:


Of course not,my darling queen Moyo is fine enuff for me.

Lmao . . . .Boy u havent been doing ur job properly
agaba has been chasing moyo up n down n u are here

What is it with NL and ugliness today?

@Poster

Whatever rocks Gbenga's world jare.Wonder why you are the one complaining on his behalf sef

kay_pumpin:

What is it with NL and ugliness today?

Today u say??
This has been going on since 4ever

follypimpi:


Well i do it so well she's catch me if u can em,They do the chasing I do the real JOB,gedd it??

tope2000:

Today u say??
This has been going on since 4ever

Oh yeah?

Guess this part of the world thread is uglified then.

Yep u rite, I will only laff bout it to him, not gonna put it to his face, just joke and confirm how serious he myt be about it, and if he is hell bent on forging ahead, walahi I will be his best man. All I can do now is pray 4 God to take control of it all.

He loves her, she treats him well, they are both happy,

What exactly is the problem again?

let him be, afterall he dint make ur choice for you.
when they eventually settle down and live together, u wont be there to tell if he made the righ choice or not.