I usually laugh when I see a lady leaving her husband because he "cheated" on her. Truth is I don't think men cheat. I know that a man can marry more than one wife and if he slept with you before he got married to you, he can sleep with another woman too before he marries her. It's not cheating. You can argue!

Anyway, to the matter at hand. This lady thought church men, guys who claim to be good, are the best but she just learned her lessons the hard way. Ladies, if you have a man that you have been with for more than 9 months and he has not hurt you, stay with him. Many out there are really not nice.

Read the shocking revelations from this lady...

The guy whose picture I attached came to me sometime early this year asking for a loan. He said his mother had cancer and was on admission at UCH, Ibadan. He said his father died in 2013 of the same disease. ‎He said since his father's death and his mum's illness, he has been the one taking care of his sisters. He said he needed the money to offset some medical bills.

I told him I was going to take the money from my daughter's account & he promised to pay back by June ending. Fast forward to ‎May. He invited me to his house & when I got there, he raped me.

When June ended & he didn't pay back my loan, I sent an SMS to him in July & he told me never to ask him for the money again or else he would play my sex tape to my Pastors & church members. I just want ladies out there to know that not all church brothers are true Christians.

Below is our message trail:
Bamidele 20/04/15 18:31
Should I send my account number

Me 20/04/15 18:32
Please do

Bamidele 20/04/15 18:45
00017 Bamidele (edited)
Me 20/04/15 18:46
Cool. Tomorrow

Me 21/04/15 07:28
Uncle, e karo. Please don't forget to pay back in 3 months o. I took it from my daughter's account.

Me 21/04/15 11:19
Done. Acknowledge please.‎

Me 07/07/15 19:15
Gd evening. These are my bank details: Whenever you are buoyant enough to pay back the money I lent u. Thanks & God bless u.

Me 10/07/15 15:48
Good day. I sent u an sms on Tuesday which u have not acknowledged. I want to be sure u received it though it's showing delivered here. Do acknowledge. Thanks.

Bamidele 10/07/15 16:25
I didn't borrow any money from you! I told you I was broke and you did help. You can check my text on that.

Me 10/07/15 16:54
Really! Please pay back my money. Don't recall giving you money. Please respect urself Bamidele.

Me 10/07/15 16:59
You lie, you beat & now you want to add fraud to your list of vices. I expect you to refund my money by end of this month. You don't to experience my wrath.

Bamidele 10/07/15 17:01
I have my record straight, so am waiting for you

Me 10/07/15 17:06
I'm not as violent & unruly as u. U fight anywhere... As long as u hold on to my money, heaven will remain shut against u. Just wait & watch. I ll so amaze u.

Bamidele 12/07/15 20:23
Please fight back, you gave me money and not borrow, I have the text messages here.

Me 12/07/15 20:28
Good. Just watch. what good have u ever done to me to deserve it? No need for words....

Bamidele 12/07/15 20:52
Hahhaha

Bamidele 14/07/15 21:475
Please don't send me any message again on this! Do your worst, I have our sex video or what do you think I did. I will play it for‎ your church members. Do you think you can threaten me?

‎Bamidele 14/07/15 21:54
Don't worry your pastor will call you to watch it! Am well prepared for you, had long left the church you know me with and PD is well carried along.
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- NOTED:
One thing want to bring out of this story is that, it doesn't look like the Bamidele guy rap*d this lady. If he rap*d her he can't be confident to bring out their tape because in it she will be screaming and begging him to stop while he would be struggling to penetrate her.

Also, the lady failed to release their initial chat where Bamidele asked her for the money so as to show and prove if indeed he merely asked her for financial assistance or to actually borrow him money.

It could be a case of lovers whose secret affair has crashed, hence she want her money back from him.
#FakeLove

See more at: http://www.gistmelove..com/2015/10/big-girl-cries-man-i-met-in-church.html

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He raped you

Did he tie ur hands and lock the door or did he drug you??...you did not bother wen the rapin was goin on cos u were enjoyin it lyk kilode...now u're here tellin us he raped u......cum to ma house lemme console you......maybe wen m true....buhari would judge us.......rubbish

If he truly rape you....you should've told him to let ya pastor see the video ni cos its RAPE ....but u're scared cos u F**KIN OPENED YA F**KIN LEGS......u con cum here dey spit trash..Nlanders be lyk ppl wey dey carry mark for face baa

She-diot

Gerrout.....NEXT!!!!!!!!!

#sips Weed

Eh eh

Desperation is a very bad thing. Poor lady.
1. She hoped that he would marry her if she helped him. It was very bad of her to assume something like that.
2. I think she wanted to start blackmailing him so the dude had to act fast by telling her he had a compromising video of them.
3. Cunning man die, cunning man bury am.
Moral:
when asking for help from people, make sure u ask about the price you have to pay for the help, cuz it could be very costly. Some people are actually looking to slave you by offering you 'help'. Better still if its money, pay back as soon as possible to free yourself.

the kyn K-leg wey diz Tori get eh.....

where the beginning of the convo?

and how e come turn to rape again?

the man brain don turn ni?

him go willingly show evidence of himself raping a girl and risk imprisonment or worse- getting lynched to death.

all in the name of blackmail......


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