jalether:

GAME PLAYING ARE FOR IMMATURE HIGH SCHOOL GIRLS, a grown woman/lady

shouldnt indulge in this BS women call hard to get, you are old enough to go for

what you want in life, if you are attracted to a guy, why hide your feelings, women need

to stop playing the innocent role, THE COLD TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS, WHETHER YOU PLAY HARD TO GET OR NOT

WHAT WILL BE, WILL BE. IF THE GUY LOOSES INTEREST ALONG THE LINE OR JUST HAS THE AGENDA OF HAVING SEX WITH

YOU,HE IS STILL GONNA DUMP YOU ANYWAYS, so is the game worth playing afterall

Guy say it louder.I have witnessed it time and time again where after the so called hard to get the girl is still dumped quicker that hot charcoal.

Stillwater still dey lie to herself  

This una games sef. Some do it so they can maximise the dates the man takes them out for or some other pathetic reason like not wanting to seem ''easy'' .

They don't know a philandering man has a lot of patience and is best suited to navigate through these games because he has had a lot of practice.

I see some of those chics who played hard to get in college . . . i know who has the last laugh now.

Stillwater play well o . . . you can even keep score if you wish.

^^^

jalether:

GAME PLAYING ARE FOR IMMATURE HIGH SCHOOL GIRLS, a grown woman/lady

shouldnt indulge in this BS women call hard to get, you are old enough to go for

what you want in life, if you are attracted to a guy, why hide your feelings, women need

to stop playing the innocent role, THE COLD TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS, WHETHER YOU PLAY HARD TO GET OR NOT

WHAT WILL BE, WILL BE. IF THE GUY LOOSES INTEREST ALONG THE LINE OR JUST HAS THE AGENDA OF HAVING SEX WITH

YOU,HE IS STILL GONNA DUMP YOU ANYWAYS, so is the game worth playing afterall

It goes both ways. Only puerile men lack the PATIENCE to wait (more like high school boys with itching testosterone). These immature characters have been exhibited here already.

women should focus more on their personality, a woman who brings open mind and great personality to the

table (personality in terms of honesty, sense of humour, respectful, somewhat submissive) has a far greater chance

of kidnapping my hearth n am sure the same goes for majority of guys THAN A FAKE BABE WHO PLAYS HARD TO GET N

HAS A DISGUSTING PERSONALITY. men are gonna play the game along of course, (if you wanna catch a monkey behave

like one) but the question is WILL PLAYING HARD TO GET YIELD A LONG TERM BENEFIT therefore make men love you, stay

faithful , attend to your needs and ultimately stick around

Hmmmm, I can't speak for all women, so here it goes. I know when a guy wants more from me. It's pretty obvious most of the time. "I'll think about it" was for secondary school. If i'm not interested I let him know, if I am interested I won't let him GO.

Well anyway sha, as much as such games cause many women to grow old, bitter and husbandless, many men also still fall for the forming game and continue to chase after the shakara women even with all the heavy playing hard to get, it goes both ways

You either win, or you lose, life is cruel

davidylan:

I see some of those chics who played hard to get in college . . . i know who has the last laugh now.

Stillwater play well o . . . you can even keep score if you wish.

Rotflmao!

4 Play:

Stillwater still dey lie to herself  

This una games sef. Some do it so they can maximise the dates the man takes them out for or some other pathetic reason like not wanting to seem ''easy'' .

They don't know a philandering man has a lot of patience and is best suited to navigate through these games because he has had a lot of practice.

Gerraway.

jalether:

women should focus more on their personality, a woman who brings open mind and great personality to the

table (personality in terms of honesty, sense of humour, respectful, somewhat submissive) has a far greater chance

with me n am sure with any man THAN A FAKE BABE WHO PLAYS HARD TO GET N HAS A DISGUSTING PERSONALITY. men are gonna

play the game along of course, if you wanna catch a monkey behave like one but the question is WILL PLAYING HARD TO

GET YIELD A LONG LASTING BENEFIT

Sharrap there are fake babes out there who don't play hard to get.

stillwater:

It goes both ways. Only puerile men lack the PATIENCE to wait (more like high school boys with itching testosterone). These immature characters have been exhibited here already.

Look at this naif. I have already told this story before on NL, a friend of mine waited 2 years while his girl was playing all the games in the world for the simple reason he had many other booty calls.

Your games are best suited for players. You will learn eventually. A young IyaKadijat in the making.  

Badriyyah:

Hmmmm, I can't speak for all women, so here it goes. I know when a guy wants more from me. It's pretty obvious most of the time. "I'll think about it" was for secondary school. If i'm not interested I let him know, if I am interested I won't let him GO.

Period!Gbam!

Badriyyah:

Hmmmm, I can't speak for all women, so here it goes. I know when a guy wants more from me. It's pretty obvious most of the time. "I'll think about it" was for secondary school. If i'm not interested I let him know, if I am interested I won't let him GO.

Hear! Hear!

stillwater:

It goes both ways. Only puerile men lack the PATIENCE to wait (more like high school boys with itching testosterone). These immature characters have been exhibited here already.

that's BS . . . men who have a goal don't have all the time in the world waiting while you "make up your mind". Believe it or not, men now have numerous options . . . asking you out is because he picked you out of a whole bunch and not because you were the only person available at that time.

At a certain stage i expect you to know what you want in a man . . . if you dont want me simply say so . . . its faster than making me wait ages while women far better than you pass me by. Save the games for your little boys playing "adult".

4 Play:

Look at this naif. I have already told this story before on NL, a friend of mine waited 2 years while his girl was playing all the games in the world for the simple reason he had many other booty calls.

Your games are best suited for players. You will learn eventually. A young IyaKadijat in the making.  

Even i can see that.

2 years. who waits that long?  why would she make him wait that long. Obviously he wasnt that into him. You're friend;s a slowpoke 4Play. Why blame the girl

Badriyyah:

Hmmmm, I can't speak for all women, so here it goes. I know when a guy wants more from me. It's pretty obvious most of the time. "I'll think about it" was for secondary school. If i'm not interested I let him know, if I am interested I won't let him GO.

Couldn't have said it better.

Does anyone know how old Stillwater is?

4 Play:

Look at this naif. I have already told this story before on NL, a friend of mine waited 2 years while his girl was playing all the games in the world for the simple reason he had many other booty calls.

Your games are best suited for players. You will learn eventually. A young IyaKadijat in the making.  

For 2yrs? Your illustration has no substance to me. It doesn't take that long for my mind to be made up.

davidylan:

Hear! Hear!

that's BS . . . men who have a goal don't have all the time in the world waiting while you "make up your mind". Believe it or not, men now have numerous options . . . asking you out is because he picked you out of a whole bunch and not because you were the only person available at that time.

At a certain stage i expect you to know what you want in a man . . . if you dont want me simply say so . . . its faster than making me wait ages while women far better than you pass me by. Save the games for your little boys playing "adult".

Who ever said anything about keeping a man waiting for ages, huh?

stillwater:

For 2yrs? Your illustration has no substance to me. It doesn't take that long for my mind to be made up.

I used it to show that your point about patience is irrelevant because even the coldest and most calculating of men can wait for a very long time.

ThiefOfHearts:

2 years. who waits that long?  why would she make him wait that long. Obviously he wasnt that into him. You're friend;s a slowpoke 4Play. Why blame the girl

Not blaming the girl. The waiting game can be counter-productive because even players can wait forever. Don't you have suitors who have been chasing you for years?

stillwater:

Who ever said anything about keeping a man waiting for ages, huh?

I'm not sure you understand yourself.

davidylan:

I'm not sure you understand yourself.

I do. Ages? I don't need an extended period of time to make up my mind. Emphasis on extended.

stillwater:

I do. Ages? I don't need an extended period of time to make up my mind.

Make up your mind wetin, you are wasting time trying to create an impression for your man. Silly little games.

4 Play:

I used it to show that your point about patience is irrelevant because even the coldest and most calculating of men can wait for a very long time.

Even though the coldest can use it to his advantage, patience should NOT be a missing virtue in real men, period.

stillwater:

I do. Ages? I don't need an extended period of time to make up my mind. Emphasis on extended.

How long do you need? Where you not aware right from the moment he came on to you that he would most likely ask you out?

No

stillwater:

Even though the coldest can use it to his advantage, patience should NOT be a missing virtue in real men, period.

Most of you have no idea what a "real man" is like . . . you simply use words carelessly.

davidylan:

How long do you need? Where you not aware right from the moment he came on to you that he would most likely ask you out?

A day.

4 Play:

Make up your mind wetin, you are wasting time trying to create an impression for your man. Silly little games.

It's called analysing the situation not silly games, leave me o jare.

you sef stilly you too dey talk.If they wanna believe it's all a game then whateverrr jare


we all know you are waiting on Chad Kruger anyway

Guys read things way too much. When you approach me, I assume you just want to talk to me, so I smile. I am probably not paying attention to what you're saying but hey, I'm not going to be rude and make it obvious. I laugh when you laugh and say oh that's funny. I'm not thinking maybe you want to date me or even talk to me the next day.

Badriyyah:

Hmmmm, I can't speak for all women, so here it goes. I know when a guy wants more from me. It's pretty obvious most of the time. "I'll think about it" was for secondary school. If i'm not interested I let him know, if I am interested I won't let him GO.

thats the way it should be instead of all the pretence

stillwater:

A day.

It's called analysing the situation not silly games, leave me o jare.

Using big grammar to xplain what is essentially an immature approach to male advances wont help you here.

davidylan:

Most of you have no idea what a "real man" is like . . . you simply use words carelessly.

Excuse me! If you lack patience fly out of my life.

ThiefOfHearts:

you sef stilly you too dey talk.If they wanna believe it's all a game then whateverrr jare


we all know you are waiting on Chad Kruger anyway

Rotflmao!!!! Oh Chad . . .

My point is women should not make apologies the way they deem it fit to act in situations like this.