Over the years I have gotten to discover that men
with vision are always attracted to classy and
intellectual ladies. If most of your attributes are in
correlation with this article, you are probably a lady
but if you don't share at least 50% of the attributes
been mentioned in the article, you might want to
work on yourself.
Well, here are some useful tips on been a classy
lady:




1) Association: This is the very first step in been a
lady. This is where power of association comes in.
When you fix yourself in the midst of people with
attributes you desire, it makes it easier and faster for
you achieve your desired goal. At first you might
seem intimidated hanging out with them but if you
really want to learn from them, you might as well
want to stick around them. It is totally not a crime
to hang out with people better/classy than you are.
Hanging out with older and mature friends lifts you
up as you will want to do everything right to be on
a platonic level with them.



2) Read regularly: As we all know, reading edifies
the mind. Reading regularly improves knowledge
of things, people and your environment. When you
read regularly you can raise good and intellectual
conversations anywhere and anytime. When you
have an idea of every other thing, you really can't
be deceived or lost in a conversation. Great books
enhance your manner and etiquette. Equip yourself
with mentors and read their books regularly. Books
from the likes of Joyce Meyer and so on.



3) Be nice: Well, some people always think saucy
girls are classy? Not at all. Classy ladies are always
one of the nicest citizens in any country. Classy
ladies are always ready to help people at all times.


4) Speak good English: Speak good English, avoid
the use of slangs and creoles. Avoid profanity and
swear words, be articulate while speaking.Avoid
mumbling and be confident while speaking.


5) Don't be needy: Classy ladies don't get needy
and clingy. They are smart, creative, innovative and
hardworking. They don't depend on any man for
resources. They get the best their money can afford
at that certain time.


6) Be Elegant & Reasonable: Be reasonable to
everybody regardless of the situation. Be calm,
collected and elegant at all time. Be familiar with
many but friends with few. Treat everyone equally.
Be attentive to as many as you can. Don't criticize,
scrutinize or over-analyze people. It's not cool to
shout at any time at all. Make people comfortable
with you, be a good listener and consigliore. People
should crave your company. There might be times
people will piss you off, look for the best possible
time to confront them and politely tell them how
you feel about what they did. "Elegance is the only
beauty that doesn't fade". Audrey Hepburn


7) Avoid gossiping: Classy ladies avoid gossiping
and people who gossip. Well, i am not saying you
don't talk to people who gossip but there should be
a limit in the way you associate with them. Classy
ladies don't say anything bad about people no
matter what the case might be.


Social Media: As we all know we are in the age
where most people make use of the social platforms
such as facebook, twitter, instagram and so on. A
classy lady manages her social network wisely. She
won't put up unclad photos of herself at any point.
She would not curse online or indulge in a social
media fight. She follows the right set of people. She
understands the line between her private life and
her social media post. Her tags are decent and also
portrays class.



9) Avoid bad habits: There are a lot of bad habits a
classy lady should not even try talk less of doing.
Avoid smoking but if you are going to smoke,
do it do it in public.
Do not fart in public places, excuse yourself
and do that in a toilet.
If you are going to drink, do it wisely and
avoid strong liquor. If you have low tolerance
for alcohol, then don't drink at all. Make sure
you have a limit.
Don't chew gum indecently.
Don't belch in public. If you are going to yawn,
then decently cover your mouth.
No matter how emotional or how "in love'" you
are with a guy, don't kiss in public. It is not a
decent thing to do.
Don't pick your nose in public.
If you need to use a public toilet to take a
dump or a leak, turn on the tap while doing
this. This way funny sounds can be minimized.


10) Always keep a good posture: If you are going
to sit, stand, walk or sleep; you should do it with
class. I am sure there are videos online that could
show you clips of the proper positions/posture for
all these. When you up on your own, you should try
this postures out.


11) Etiquette: Always exhibit the proper etiquette
for different occasions.



12) Makeup Choices: Always wear the
right make
up at the right time. Understand color combinations
so you don't look like a masquerade, know when to
wear makeup. A classy ladies makeup is never too
loud.


13) Be hygienic: Be neat at all time. Shower
regularly and properly depending on the weather
condition and stress you go through in a day. If you
are going out for a party, always have an extra
dress. Comb your hair regularly. Use good body
spray and also wear neat clothes. You don't want to
be caught unawares looking scruffy or dirty.


14) Be Healthy: Eat healthy food that could give or
keep a nice body shape. Don't eat late night meals.
Have a routine exercise. If you are overweight,
exercise even harder.


15) Be Prayerful: Ladies with vision have a
personal relationship with God because he author &
sustainer of our soul.

Nice thread

Good one

am classy and I know it

7) Avoid gossiping: Classy ladies avoid gossiping
and people who gossip. Well, i am not saying you
don't talk to people who gossip but there should be
a limit in the way you associate with them. Classy
ladies don't say anything bad about people no
matter what the case might be


there is a higher chance of you finding 5million naira in ur trash than finding a woman who doesn't gossip