I have a problem wit my dad, he doesnt trust my mum nor to give her some breathin space. Anywhere she goes even at work he complains she goes after men. Which i believe its nt true. Pls fellow members wat do i do to save my home.

Sit ur father down and talk 2 him, man 2 man.ask him, if he has proof 2 back his claim.

really there is no need for this heart to heart talk. ur father is not a child that u start giving advice. if you re bold enough u should lash out seriously on him (with respect) i do that to my father. this is the only way to make him understand that you re not begging him to change but rather telling him directly that he is destroying his own family. Kappish.

I hav sat him down on so many times bt he remains adamant bou it

Hmmm. . , its a wonder that your mom is still with him all these years. . . Even after you grow bush hair at your bla bla area, he still dont trust her all these years. . . Thats odd ooo. .

Kentr0:

I hav sat him down on so many times bt he remains adamant bou it

Y would a normal man accused his wife of infidelity?i ask again,does he have proof?perhaps,there's more 2 this.

Maybe your father is the one chasing after women!

~ U & ur mum shld gang up and beat ur old man OR tell ur dad to contact 'Cheaters' to prove his 'claims'. ~

Czarskit:

~ U & ur mum shld gang up and beat ur old man OR tell ur dad to contact 'Cheaters' to prove his 'claims'. ~

LMAO!!!

Make sure they wear black pantyhose over their head ooo

Lol

beat the friggin hell outta him.

know we would if mine tries such with my mom after everything she's done for us

let them be, they will settle their problems themselve. just pray that God's love shud interven in ur family

I don’t think talking to your father would be a good idea. Since he’s your dad, he might not really take your advice seriously.

What I would suggest is that you look for an elderly man in your family or a religious person (Pastor or Imam) depending on your religion. Pour out your heart to that person and am sure that you would achieve results.

Good luck and send my regards to your mum.

i think the best thing for you to do is accuse him, and tell him you saw him, he'll get aggressive and tell him that's how your mum's feeling when he accuses her.

there something they are not telling u.

And what would that be?

Kentr0:

I have a problem wit my dad, he doesnt trust my mum nor to give her some breathin space. Anywhere she goes even at work he complains she goes after men. Which i believe its nt true. Pls fellow members wat do i do to save my home.

am not saying ur mum is a cheat but maybe u should take a dispassionate look at his claims.
and no violence pls, they had been at it even b4 u were born (maybe)

izeek:

there something they are not telling u.

this makes a lot of sense

@crazy,
men dont just start suspecting thier wives,
he must have heard or seen something he cant tell his kids.

To me i believe ur family need a serious prayer from one of the leading pastor in our nation nigeria.

Do you know if they are still doing it? if they are, ask your mum to have heart to heart talk with him during the act.
Men are usually the best listeners when being f.cked.

Talking to him might lead to you bruising his ego or perhaps disrespecting him which in-turn equates to you sinning.
Asking outsiders to come talk to him means you are probably putting family issues on the open (talk of town/street/church/mosque, reputation damage and most importantly further alienate them)

Best solution for me is to ask you mum to keep talking to him. Communication is key in any relationship.

Tell your Dad on his feelings else, he will drive your Mom into open hands of other man.