Our instincts hardly lie to us. You could be crazily in love with your bae but without inner peace. You suspect everything about her. On the contrary, you find inner peace with that side chic (slightly side chic lol) but your not obviously in love with her.

Romancelanders, love or trust? Which one comes first in starting a stable relationship?

LOVE. because in love, there is trust

I disagree with your theory

Diddyydiva:
LOVE. because in love, there is trust

Trust leads to love imo.

parrygee:
I disagree with your theory

I agree with my theory . love conquers all

PunkyVeer:
Trust leads to love imo.

Not all you trust,you love.

PunkyVeer:
Trust leads to love imo.

Not necessarily, trust leads to respect and honor not love. Atleast not the kind of love we see in relationships....

Diddyydiva:
LOVE. because in love, there is trust

Not really in the society we now live in.

TRUST is the foundation of Love

To me it's Love....you can love someone without having to trust them. For me my level of trust in you is totally independent of your actions: in other words, If I love you then I trust you and trusting you is loving you.

Fact! But can trust sustain a relationship?

Diddyydiva:
Not all you trust,you love.

Diddyydiva:
Not all you trust,you love.

Maybe in YOUR way. I can't allow myself to love someone I don't trust. Trust must be established 1st, before I let go & love.

Guy trust oo... If you find yourself loving her while you don't truly trust her then that is lust driving you to her.

Love covers all. when dias love trust will set in automatically. but dia cannot trust someone if u dont love d person.

kossyablaze:
TRUST is the foundation of Love

Then it's not love.

PunkyVeer:


Maybe in YOUR way. I can't allow myself to love someone I don't trust. Trust must be established 1st, before I let go & love.

You dont choose who to love. it just happens.

joseph1832:
Not necessarily, trust leads to respect and honor not love. Atleast not the kind of love we see in relationships....

Not really in the society we now live in.

No, no, no. Step outside of yourself for a minute & realise that not all of us follow things in some cookie cutter order. Trust then love, FOR ME.

Mods pls move dis thread to NL highway

Any rshp devoid of peace is no rshp @ all

parrygee:
Fact! But can trust sustain a relationship?

thats why i said love.

Diddyydiva:
You dont choose who to love. it just happens.

But you don't just love without the person actually meeting some of your requirements & the most important of those for me is trust.

joseph1832:
Not necessarily, trust leads to respect and honor not love. Atleast not the kind of love we see in relationships....

Not really in the society we now live in.

When in love,you build trust

Love cnt sustain a rshp. It's a feelin dat can vanish any time

Diddyydiva:
thats why i said love.

They Need Each Other To Function

kossyablaze:
TRUST is the foundation of Love

No, LOVE is the foundation of trust. If you LOVE someone sincerely, then u trust the person. You cant trust someone b4 u love but u can on love to trust

xpac01:
Guy trust oo... If you find yourself loving her while you don't truly trust her then that is lust driving you to her.

A Lady I love lied to me even about her name. She was surprised my love for her remain unchanged after telling me her true name.

"You still love and trust me" she asked

"My love and trust in you dear" I said, "Is not dependent on your action but on me" "I love you because I chose to and that is unchangeable." And that, my brother changed her understanding of love.

I think the problem is on our mindset on love. If we love as an unconditional unmerited thing then everything we changed. Maybe then we will see Love is not dependent on trust but trust on Love.

parrygee:
Love cnt sustain a rshp. It's a feelin dat can vanish any time

Stop mixing love with infatuation dude.

Love and trust are mutually exclusive

mascot87:


No, LOVE is the foundation of trust. If you LOVE someone sincerely, then u trust the person. You cant trust someone b4 u love but u can on love to trust

parrygee:
Love cnt sustain a rshp. It's a feelin dat can vanish any time

Not at all. Love remain unchanged till eternity.

PunkyVeer:


No, no, no. Step outside of yourself for a minute & realise that not all of us follow things in some coockie cutter order. Trust then love, FOR ME.

Yes yes and yes, I guess that's why we see the number of hearts being broken by the day increase out of proportion.

You see threads spring up day after day saying: I love him but he broke my heart, I paid for his school fees and he left me for a younger girl, I loved him after he slept with me he said he can't date me, bla bla bla....

Before you trust someone, that person must have given you reason(s) for you to trust them, I mean trust is an encompassing word, its very ambiguous and frankly, its a luxury nobody should be able to avoid in this present world that we live in.

PunkyVeer:


No, no, no. Step outside of yourself for a minute & realise that not all of us follow things in some cookie cutter order. Trust then love, FOR ME.

Dear you need to change that mindset.

Diddyydiva:
When in love,you build trust

And when you trust, you blind love.

PunkyVeer:


But you don't just love without the person actually meeting some of your requirements & the most important of those for me is trust.

When you love,you love everything about the person.love can only be tested by distrust but can never be ruined.