pearlyme:
Thank you..i love my boyfriend so much but I can't help this feeling of gratitude I have toward this man, I feel so bad

4everGrand:


Self deceit of the highest grade. What is it that ur bf isn't doin that u'd want him to do more of? Tell him abeg.
But the truth is all wat u getting from this man, ur bf tho u 'love' him cannot afford it now.
This is one of the many materialistic girls around, yes. Leave ur bf and go with this man abeg; quit behaving as if u dont know what u doing.

Cutehector:
I dey wait make I hamma first..


Den I"l come for estharfabian..

agabaI23:
The feeling of gratitude will disappear when those stuff are no more.

When I was in primary school, a teacher told us a story of a girl who fell in love with one suitor because he gave her family ice fish gifts very often. The lady in question loved ice fish and was like "if this man could give us ice fish this often, she would never lack it when she is married to him" When she got married to him, the man stopped buy fish and the marriage ended.

Is it possible that you are yet to sleep with this nice man?
If you are sleeping with him already, you are paying back in kind. Trust me you will start hating him when he moves on to another girl.

tpiah11:


you are bagging a phd yet you are still wowed by some little attention you received from somebody.

ok.

anyway, nothing new.


http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article2757559/Woman-dropped-Cambridge-PhD-enter-polygamous-marriage-Muslim-businessman-two-wives.html

tpiah11:
ma'am, this is why women should try to get husband before over educating themselves.


you are now tripping over the thought of dating a married man as if you are afraid single men wont date you.

and for all one knows, the man might just be a free giver to all and sundry, while you are there feeling funky.

pearlyme:
maybe it's d way I put it, all my trying to pass across is that there are still nice people out there, I don't love him, it's just suprising.

sinaj:
You avin a soft spot coz he iz helping u financially

And the Man has a Family oo
!!
Sinaj tell me again that Money can't buy Love

Estharfabian:
When Hector is too cute to Love wrongly....""

pearlyme:
I rarely even see him, just once in a blue moon n I can't and will never sleep with him. Trust me most of what he offers, I don't even take cos I feel it will just be greed to take it plus my restrictions come more from the fact that I don't hv to give back so y always take.

4everGrand:


With my response to you, I actually tot u would lash out at me. If I may ask, who dont u love? Well that's a rhetorical question.

Remember, nothing goes for nothing esp when it concerns male-female liaison. Except u think u can spread all for this 'good man' and move on, which I won't advice. If u serious about ur bf, leave dis 'good man'.

Good man has turned good bf to gawkster, choi, bf pele o.

pearlyme:
the fascination comes from the fact that there are still genuinely nice people out there.

agabaI23:
Good, you are becoming more attractive because you refuse his gifts and to him you are playing hard to get. He will increase his pressure and you will fall for him more like you are already doing.

Know what you want and go for it.

pearlyme:
Thank you..i love my boyfriend so much but I can't help this feeling of gratitude I have toward this man, I feel so bad

Slimzjoe:


And the Man has a Family oo
!!
Sinaj tell me again that Money can't buy Love

pearlyme:
It's not about the money, it's just surprising that there are still a few good men out there.