Hello Nairalanders.

Whats am about to share here is a personal experience, of which i have been keeping to myself for a very long time.i was convice to divulge it after reading a similar a similar story here on this forum, so i see no harm or any implication if i can open it up to gain advice from nairalanders.

Since 2004 after i was introduced to sweetness of having a behind door affair with the opposite sex, i have always find it difficult to keep my joystick away from anything under the skirt, although i stop doing oloshos since 2008, but ever since then i have been jumping from one Tiv girl to ebira to hausa,yoruba, i will run out of word if i decide to count, even far away in Niger republic and Ghana their girls are not left out, one day while trying to remember some of those have slept with i was able to remember about 47 excluding the oloshos, even though thats not the accurate numbers just those i could remember, am dying i dont wanna do this anymore, it seems some forces have hijacked this and turn it upside down for me, am a very agile young Nigerian who is aiming big in life, bt with this going on am afraid , i dont know what will happen in the future, i dont want to continue my life like this, all the money have earned in my life, huge part of it is been wasted on fornication, pls help me out.

OP, the first step to getting healing is admitting you have a problem. Since you already admitted to having one, the next step would be to pray to God for help. You'll be amazed at the kinds of things God can and does help people with. This message may seem churchy to you, but try it out and see. Wish you well.

Thats d main problem, after avin dis sex i alway feel guilty and sober and i always make vows never to do it again bt after i receive bank alert, d rest na story

Godmother:
OP, the first step to getting healing is admitting you have a problem. Since you already admitted to having one, the next step would be to pray to God for help. You'll be amazed at the kinds of things God can and does help people with. This message may seem churchy to you, but try it out and see. Wish you well.

honeywealth75:
Thats d main problem, after avin dis sex i alway feel guilty and sober and i always make vows never to do it again bt after i receive bank alert, d rest na story

Which is why I suggested praying about it cos this is an addiction and you can't break addictions by mere self-will. It takes a lot to do so.

Am sorrry mate..

Buh this your case is strong!!!

47 mamis..excluding ashawoss..damn!!!!



Only prayers can work in this situation

U can joun d seminary.

Mogbe!!!

like someone said prayer...


and trust me you ll surely stop if you re convinced of death when next you fornicate **
YOU LACK THE MOTIVATION TO ABSTAIN... keep busy with things of God.

all the best.

Dis is a very serious situation

Op if you continue dis way u will end up ruining ur life, nd before you know d damage dat u r doing to urself it will be too late

Don't u have goals?

Don't you have things u want to achieve?

Sit down and think of wat u want out of life, if it is to straff every MARY, ANN ND JANE den go ahead, den if it's not, den u better set ur priorities right

Nd dere is no forces behind dis attitude of urs

U r just an addict