Hi guys, i have been following this following for close to a year now as a guest and i like the way issues are trashed here, but most times the insults are just too humiliating, guess in every community you will have kids who are immature in reasoning and communication.
I didnt want to bring this here at first but on a second thought what a heck, i got nothing to loose, the wise ones here will still make sense while the immature will show there fooly by their reactions..
The problems is i lost my boyfriend somtime around march and have fought to get over the pain his demise gave me.
But his twin brother is asking me out now, and his serious about it, they are identical and he exhibits same mannerisms with him..
Looking at him bring back memories and open old wounds.
I love my late bf so deeply at times i weep at night, that seeing this guy is becoming unbearable and traumatic.
What must i do? Give him a chance? Am afraid i might still cling to the ghost of my late bf which my psych will create in him and not love him as a diffrent person.

Try moving on I feel for you dear

Mabi mi ni Jamb question
But i think you've answered a bit of ur question, can you Love him for him? Cuz you'll only be loving your Ex bf,seeing he has same face n manners as him.

The line you are asking to cross is very thin but shall be full of regrets. Pls just move on! Besides this is awkward sef. It's like saying "a lady getting married to the brother of her late husband". . . .Hope you see

Never start what you can't finish.

My fiver advice

Ohboi......babe....pack ya shoe put for ya head.........I knw you knw wat I mean