Rejection is a terrible feeling that traumatizes a victim and makes him/her reflect on the past with so much sadness and pain. Some situations that trigger feelings of rejection include:

- queries at your workplace
- loss of a job
- inability to get a job
- break up in relationship
- infidelity
- non-acceptance of marriage proposal

It is always not too easy to cope with some of these situations as it sometimes leaves the victim devastated, in pain and emotional torment. Rejection often affects a victim’s psychological state as the person tends to complain about such disappointments too often to whoever cares to listen. Feelings of rejection can also trigger a violent behaviour from the victim. Such a victim becomes irrational and confrontation. Occasionally, such people tend to behave as if they have lost a grip on life and see themselves in much despair. Lets us examine some critical signs of rejection

- the victim may be unable to sleep, think properly, concentrate, remember things
- he/she may be unable to talk calmly
- victim may be nervous
- desire to run away or commit suicide
- loss of appetite
- anxiety about anything or everything

A lot of people go through diverse and disappointing experiences. We tend to brood over terrible moments of rejection and pain without actually sitting down to think of ways to get it off our minds. A lot of people resort to addiction and demeaning lifestyles to get some sorts of experience off their memory.

We need to spend more time with activities and people that make us happy. Having a bad day is one terrible thing I hate to experience and so do most of my friends. However, one must be prepared with the right attitude to face everyday. We must make sure we resolve issues from past relationships and experiences and seek a more enduring peace from within as this only makes us happier and at peace with other people.

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