l think what l hate most is over demanding. it dose not mean that a lady should not demand but the manner and way she dose it. secondly l dont think l will like a lady that dosent regard education.

i dislike ladies with an attitude, a lady that is ready to turn every discussion to a verbal tussle i dislike ladies that don't carry a smile on their face i dislike ladies that are hasty in their conclusion over every issue

Wow, I love it when a man speaks his mind. Most often they just remain silent and keep the things they dislike to themselves where as women are more often apt to talk about it.

Speak on, men; speak on!

guys na wa 4 una o!
any way its a free world dis reply goes to remedy who said he discovered the babe wore dirty undies its d same guys dat say dey dont like cheap girls .Girls, come to think of it; guys are the cheapest things on earth they go about sleepin with any mary, maria and mimi dat comes their way! who is cheaper btw guys n ladies? [color=#000099][/color]

I dislike girls that always think that whenever she is with a guy that the next thing in the guy's mind is SEX. Too bad, not even when she wants the guy to make the first move

what i hate most in a lady is pride,which leads to disrespect later on if eventually she becomes a wife....

Another thing that pisses me off in a lady is when she dresses odd and enjoys the looks from guys even when the look is out of pity.

newbie here  , hate is a bit of a strong word for me, i prefer 'dislike'. 

The following are the things i dislike:

Women who are rude and frown anytime a man walks up to them (please Ladies not everyman who comes up to you wants to 'toast' you and even if i did, not with that frown on your face and the rude attitude, it will cost you nothing to be polite)

Women who expect men to worship the ground they walk on (you maybe daddy's princess at home but you're now a grown up woman behave like one)

Women who are insecure and 'over demanding' (just because we are a couple doesn't mean we have to be together ALL THE TIME)

Women who are inconsiderate and expects the man to cater to their every need (i'm looking for a partner who can 'add' value to my life not someone who 'subtracts' and thinks i'm an ATM machine)

Women who slander their man to others, if you don't like the way he behaves then don't stay in a relationship with him.

Women who can't communicate what they want, (men are not mind readers) if you want something ask for it

Women who expect guys to always pick up the tab everytime they go out (i don't mind paying but please make an attempt once in a while)

Women who just lie there like a 'log of wood' without providing 'feedback' (guys i'm sure u know what i mean )

Women who play 'too hard to get' and try to play mind games

Women who don't show appreciation or say 'Thank you' when a man takes them out on a date or buys them a gift

Now I truly understand the joke about Ijebumen!
You harsh oh! meanwhilw, what does this mean? Abeg break am down.

ijebuman:

newbie here , hate is a bit of a strong word for me, i prefer 'dislike'.
Women who just lie there like a 'log of wood' without providing 'feedback' (guys i'm sure u know what i mean )

meanwhile, welcome Ijebuman! I'm sure you'll have a lotta fun here going by this post!

@Fabian
Methinks he meant "guys need a feedback from the ladies so we'll know if we were able to maintain solid customer satisfaction whenver the bed transaction take place."

But really most ladies are guilty of that 'financial crime'. They just expect u to do all the spending. I dislike such. At least make effort. I am not Buying You. We r supposed to be partners. Haba!!!

Ok oh! We hear ya! More power to you!

thks for the welcome post fabian. I'm not harsh o  i just say it as i see it.  Just as women have certain expectations from men, we too expect something in return.  Anyway there's nothing like the perfect man or woman, we're all 'works in progress'

layi:

@Fabian
Methinks he meant "guys need a feedback from the ladies so we'll know if we were able to maintain solid customer satisfaction whenver the bed transaction take place."

But really most ladies are guilty of that 'financial crime'. They just expect u to do all the spending. I dislike such. At least make effort. I am not Buying You. We r supposed to be partners. Haba!!!

thks Layi, couldn't explain it better

Alright! You and Layi are brovas abi?

Yep. we are the Big Brovas reppin ijebuland. Omo Ijebu remi waaa..

But sincerely fabian, are men supposed to do all d spending. U no think say na too much work abi una want make we go steal?

4 what? men aren't supposed to do all the spending oh! So what does the woman use her own money for then? No fair!

Thanx my sweet sister.

well, i am not from ijebu and where i come from women dont spend money on men.

Ah? Where are you from?

Am from kaydee. da will never be sharia state in the north!

Meaning kaduna abi? nothing wrong with spending on your man, infact everything right in it!

layi:

Yep. we are the Big Brovas reppin ijebuland. Omo Ijebu remi waaa..

But sincerely fabian, are men supposed to do all d spending. U no think say na too much work abi una want make we go steal?

thanks my bros  

alheri:

well, i am not from ijebu and where i come from women don't spend money on men.

Nobody said women should spend money on men, what i said was that if a man takes a woman out on a date the woman should at least make an attempt to pay, the man should refuse of course   but he'll respect her for it.

No! he need'nt refuse. There's nothing wrong with allowing her pay for some things!

fabian:

No! he need'nt refuse. There's nothing wrong with allowing her pay for some things!

you're right, it obviously depends on the circumstances, i'll probably refuse (but appreciate the fact she offered) if it was the first few dates, later on I won't mind if she pays once in a while

And then later you won't mind if she picks up all the bills abi? You men are just great! 

fabian:

And then later you won't mind if she picks up all the bills abi? You men are just great!

sebi na una say 'what a man can do a woman can do better..'

Na who be una? What a man can do, a woman can do as well....

I,m guessing this forum was posted by a bloke of course. Guys av just been rattling away as if they are Gods gift to d world. Pls boys u all av ur probs too. I'm a chic and i'm gonna say things that piss me off in guys

1. Guys that cheat cos every guy does it.
2. Guys that are cheap.
3. Egoistic guys that think they r da bomb
4. Those that gossip like women and of course don't av a mind of their own.


And for those dat say chics talk yep agreed but boys yarn well. And also to seun u're talking bout girls losing virginity in a cheap way. May God save u. How do u know when a chic does that or av u experienced it. I've been on a forum which u started on premarital sex and u were not down with and now u r here again talking bout "virginity". Hope there is nothing sha?

Don't take it too personal. There's a thread for the ladies to say their mind too; this thread is strictly for the guys ...

Who says every guy cheats?

most guys in here r like "i dun like women who are controllin' or rude" well, this is the only way to get y'all to do stuff right. my male friends r always like "'i feel sorry for your future husband" they think i'm controllin' i tell them i'm not. all i want is to be treated the same. my husband needs to stay home sometimes when i'm out havin' fun wit' my friends. men think they're the only pple who wanna have fun. we just need to stay home n cook n clean. while they drink beer and watch football . in future, i dun wanna be above my husband. i just wanna be equal to him.

Behind every good man is a woman... kicking his butt. - 'Titus'

Thanks Rihanna u see my point.

FOD:

Don't take it too personal. There's a thread for the ladies to say their mind too; this thread is strictly for the guys ...

Who says every guy cheats?

Ain't but can't stand all d attacks on ma gender. And point of correction i chose d thread to speak ma mind. Evry guy cheats. R u diff?

prettyH:

Ain't but can't stand all d attacks on ma gender. And point of correction i chose d thread to speak ma mind. Evry guy cheats. R u diff?

No matter what u've gone through or seen, I still feel it's not rite to hold on to that. I won't answer you question 'cos it won't change who I am.