handie:
My cousin sis came home from school today(2days earlier than she normally does) and she looked worried and depressed. After a whole lotta inquiries and arm twisting, she opened up to me that some days back, she visited a male friend, one thing led to another and they were rolling on d bed. She SAID after undressing, dude promised to abide by Her no sex rule #JustRomance. A while later, she said she felt a sharp pain on her vagina after which she pushed him off only to discover blood on the sheets. She said after d incident, she got to Her room, checked her hymen and discovered that it was gone. Now, she made me understand that there was no form of penetration past the hymen stage. Now, she's depressed that her virginity has been lost soo cheaply. Well, I told her that the presence/absence of an hymen doesn't determine the virginity status of a female. I wanna console her some more but I dunno if it's possible that a hymen be broken without some part of d penis going in. I don't wanna deceive her into a false sense of being a virgin when d truth is she ain't nor do I wanna advice her as a non virgin and she actually turns out to still be one. So, my E-family, my question is,
[b] Is it really possible that the hymen be broken and no vaginal penetration?[/b
2.[b] Does this mean she really ain't no longer a virgin?[/b Matured advice kindly needed as I ensure she's in d right state of mind to return to campus on Monday.

agarawu23:
@bolded, tell me more

handie:
ogbeni more of what? Na me e happen to? Abi I go dey ask am of how them kiss, touch body?

agarawu23:
I was just confused how someone will lost her virginity just like that when hymen isn't tissue paper

misspicy:
well i'd have helped buh am still a virgin....op tell your cousin pele for me o

BlackrulesDworld:
Too much trash on romance section this days.

handie:
Mmmm. Virgin? Abeg lying no fit u Jare

handie:
well, what can I say? D story she told me is, they were nude, dude was romancing her, told Her to let him use his rod to rub over her punny and promised no penetration only to feel a sharp pain there which made her push him away

handie:
too much weed in ur system my man

agarawu23:
I doubt if a 'one click' can break the code, maybe the hymen has been visited before

misspicy:
na u sabi that one o

handie:
Well, maybe. Me haven't tried breaking that code before. So, me really can't say.

handie:
oya give expert advice Jor

misspicy:
well i'd have helped buh am still a virgin ....op tell your cousin pele for me o

Harbosede02:
U and dis ur cousin must be really close

handie:
well, what can I say? D story she told me is, they were nude, dude was romancing her, told Her to let him use his rod to rub over her punny and promised no penetration only to feel a sharp pain there which made her push him away

handie:
well, what can I say? D story she told me is, they were nude, dude was romancing her, told Her to let him use his rod to rub over her punny and promised no penetration only to feel a sharp pain there which made her push him away

commitcrime:
Bros!
Na mumu question u ask elders so ooo
Once d hymen is off
There no other way to prove female virginity.

handie:
My cousin sis came home from school today(2days earlier than she normally does) and she looked worried and depressed. After a whole lotta inquiries and arm twisting, she opened up to me that some days back, she visited a male friend, one thing led to another and they were rolling on d bed. She SAID after undressing, dude promised to abide by Her no sex rule #JustRomance. A while later, she said she felt a sharp pain on her vagina after which she pushed him off only to discover blood on the sheets. She said after d incident, she got to Her room, checked her hymen and discovered that it was gone. Now, she made me understand that there was no form of penetration past the hymen stage. Now, she's depressed that her virginity has been lost soo cheaply. Well, I told her that the presence/absence of an hymen doesn't determine the virginity status of a female. I wanna console her some more but I dunno if it's possible that a hymen be broken without some part of d penis going in. I don't wanna deceive her into a false sense of being a virgin when d truth is she ain't nor do I wanna advice her as a non virgin and she actually turns out to still be one. So, my E-family, my question is,
Is it really possible that the hymen be broken and no vaginal penetration?
2. Does this mean she really ain't no longer a virgin?. Matured advice kindly needed as I ensure she's in d right state of mind to return to campus on Monday.

chymystique:
She was definitely penetrated well even if they didnt ve sex for blood to ve come out.. I dont believe her whole story though. Some people get disvirgined like that. Am sorry her hymen is broken