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| Romance by Dynamic3(f): 3:22pm On May 12, 2009 |
I moved from Nigeria to the states to school and my boyfriend is in Nigeria. We've been together for a year now and it seems like he has started changing. The other day he asked me if he could sleep with other girls, no feelings attached. After sleeping with them, he said he will not have feelings for them. The reason he asked me that is because he said he has been keeping himself ever since I left and it has been hard. I didn't know what to tell him when he asked me and now I'm very upset with him. What do you suggest? |
| Re: Romance by dani1luv: 2:35pm On May 14, 2009 |
Sorry Moved to Romance Sec. |
| Re: Romance by spikedcylinder: 2:49pm On May 14, 2009 |
How old are you both? How long are you guys going to be apart for? |
| Re: Romance by Dynamic3(f): 4:09pm On May 14, 2009 |
I'm 19 he's 24. Why? |
| Re: Romance by spikedcylinder: 4:22pm On May 14, 2009 |
For people your age, it'll be pretty difficult to maintain a long distance relationship. Thats why. |
| Re: Romance by Ejadamen(f): 5:11pm On May 14, 2009 |
@ Dynamic3, To be blunt and honest, i don't think that relationship is going anywhere. How can a man sleep with other girls and say that no feelings will be attached. Sure, men (and women) can sleep with other people with no strings attached but even so one day he will jam one girl that will make him feel something. After all he has to be physically attracted to a girl before he sleeps with her, is that not a feeling? Like spike said, you are young, you have your whole life ahead of you. Focus on what is important and don't let one naija guy take you for a ride. Would he like it if you start sleeping with other guys? |
| Re: Romance by Czarskit(m): 7:01pm On May 14, 2009 |
~ Sex without any strings attached? I wonda wat dat'll b lyk. ~ |
| Re: Romance by justwise(m): 8:40pm On May 14, 2009 |
Dynamic3: |
| Re: Romance by lolarde(f): 6:25am On May 15, 2009 |
honest answer is to take ur mind off it. not sayin u shld start seeing other guys o! but on this particular guy 4get it. cos i am quite sure he has started sleeping with someone else b4 asking you. |
| Re: Romance by opsydudu(m): 6:31am On May 15, 2009 |
sex w/o one string attached is possible. @poster give him the chance to shag those girls, the experience gained might be an added advantage at some point in the future. at 19 you shld be bothered with your studies and not one boyfriend that want to unleash his potentials on girls/ |
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