tartar9:
xtians are best answering boyfriend/girlfriend relationship problems.parisbookaddict over to you.

parisbookaddict:


How mmany times already today
Stop mentioning my moniker so frequently. .. esp for no reason.. u are an uncultured individual. . Keep off.

johnydon22:
[b]People with Gods and religions always live with fear and guilt of what the religions says they should do, they tend to subject themselves to such psychological prison that they end up not living the way they really wanted.

Anyway you and your girl friend really have some serious issues.

- (1)She broke up with you to get back to her ex then came back to you after she must broke up with her ex, speaks tons of the kind of girl she is.

-(2) You felt guilty over romance, i wonder why cus i really didn't see where you mentioned chopping off anybody's head in the process.

- (3)You don't love her just wants sex at the same afraid to do it..

You have a bit of a problem up stairs because Since you don't love her but LIE to convince her you do in order to get sex of which you can't even do says a lot of your hypocritical moral basis.

LYING the last i checked is as much a sin as SEX in christiandom, how come you feel guilt and fear over sex but not over lying?

Or you choose which sin to feel guilty over?

I think you need to re-evaluate your moral ground, Since you don't love her and still cant have sex simply tell her and save her the stress.

Stop raising childish issues where there is none.. [/b]

johnydon22:
People with Gods and religions always live with fear and guilt of what the religions says they should do, they tend to subject themselves to such psychological prison that they end up not living the way they really wanted.

Zizaboni:
Moderator, abeg help me put this for front page.... Mr seun abeg front page

Pls help me nairalanders, I have a big problem.... In details......

There was a lady I dated back in my ND days, we later broke up despite my great love for her... As in i sacrificed so much for this lady.... We broke up in January Cox she said she wanted a break.... But to my surprise that she went back to her ex boyfriend.... Later this year in September, she msg me that she stil love me. But before dt time, we have had a lot of disputes, insulted each other Cox I was hurt..... She said she wanted me back and she is ready to face anytin with me... She said this time, she has come to stay forever... I tod her that I am not interested and we insulted each other again.... 3 days ago, she msg me that she wana come 'n see me.. I agreed, she came yesterday, we reconciled, she askd for me back and I said Yes.. We shud try the relationship again... We had romance session but no sex.. Bcox we dnt want too...... She is now all over me..... But I am a kinda person that fears God, Weneva I commit a little sin, my conscience will never leave me unless I repent from it... I cudnt go to fellowship bcoz I just finished romancing a lady who is not my wife..... Till now, my mind isn't settled conscience is still panel beating me just bcox of 10 or 20 mins romance... Actually am not a Virgin, the first time I had sex in 2012, I hated myself, broke up with that lady Cox my mind neva rested.. Even till now, weneva I remember it, it saddens my heart...... But this lady, actually I tot she was a Virgin Cox we met in church but wen she told me her past, my hand fall. She has had uncountable sex with her first boifrnd that disvirgined her... Same with the second boifrnd, am the only one that hasn't had any tin like sex with her..... Shud I just tell her that am not interested in a reasonable way or keep pretending to love her and keep romancing till we have sexual intercourse till I later break her heart and keep getting bothered by my conscience... Cox I fear God so much... She wants me to b lying that I love her but within me, I no I dnt.. Only infatuation and aim of getting sex.... But am not ready for sex Cox I fear the Almighty... Pls advise me.... Pls front page Cox I am depressed right now.. Shud I continue dating and sinning or tell her the truth....... Christians and Muslims around the world, help me... Thanks

Mindfulness:


I don't. I do whatever I want. Some people here claim I have no conscience.