Gossiping is a Common Habit Amongst Women, It’s like a Disease in the Heart of a Woman, It Has Its Addictive Effect and If not Controlled It Can Lead One into Series of Problems, The Question Now Is Why Do Women Gossip?



1. TO FEEL AMONG



Some Women Gossip So They Can Fit In With Other Women. In Many Ways, It's A Way of Showing That You Have Trust in the Woman You're Confiding In, Because You're Sort Of Sharing a Secret.



2. AN INHERITED TRAIT



Gossip Can Be A Learned Trait. Think About It: Every TV Show Or Movie You See Where There Are Women Friends, They Gossip About Someone. We Heard Our Moms Do It With Her Friends, We Heard Our Friends' Moms Do It, We Heard The Older Kids Do It.


So Sometimes Gossip Isn't Coming From A Mean Or Nasty Place, Although It Can Still Hurt Others If You Aren't Careful. And Sometimes, Hard As It Is To Actually Admit, Gossip May Be Necessary.



3. VALIDATION



Sometimes, Gossip Acts As A Validation For Your Feelings. It Can Prove Your Point Of View Somehow, because you’re Able to Discuss Someone Who Rubs You the Wrong Way, Or Whom You Feel Has Done You Dirty in Some Way. You're Not Necessarily Gossip to Be Mean, But Again, To Get Perspective, To Be Soothed and Told That It’s Okay to Be Hurt by What Someone Did.


4. PROCESSING EXPERIENCES

One Of The Reasons A Woman May Gossip Is Because It Helps Her Process Her Own Experiences. For Instance, A Woman May Gossip With Her Girlfriend And Not Feel Like She Is Gossiping At All. Rather, She Might Just Be Trying To Dissect And Understand Her Own Experience. She might need perspective on a matter and, if it involves someone else, it can simply be construed as gossiping.

Op... I'm sure, You are talking from experience

op what do you think you did right now?

Op justifying herself.

Women are too complicated... They have a million and one reasons to.

Q. Why do men gossip?

A. It mixes well with alcohol and we don't remember what we talked about the next day.

Asking why women gossip is just like asking why men have ego's...

Because of an advanced extra software installed in their mouth by Jah