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Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by abhosts(m): 1:37am On May 19, 2009 |
It seems some people do not even read a whole thread before posting. This Guy has been exposed as a fictional writer. Please ignore him. It is amazing that most of these agnostic folks have no moral compass themselves, yet they love to judge others. |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by Nignog: 3:50am On May 19, 2009 |
C2H5OH: Waht is a muguleta? |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by Builder: 7:46am On May 19, 2009 |
@ poster, i wish i had know u before now, maybe u can help me pay for my house or even sponsor family thru school. Omo i beg fashi the babe or else she go chop u like ofio |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by JJYOU: 8:42am On May 19, 2009 |
ThiefOfHearts: $osisi:haha my dear sister remember " the fool says there is no God". it is always funny to see confused souls answer to their name. may God have mercy. TOH, thanks for this well done. |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by Ekwere(m): 8:47am On May 19, 2009 |
Builder: Hello Poster, Please dont let the comments of some selfish members here to derail u helping this poor gal if indeed she is in school. God might have used u as her helper and in a way He(God) is blessing u so very much. Dont look at 2 years remaining,continue to do ur best and God in heaven would never disappoint u and let me tell u something, u r not a mugu or mumu. I wonder when Nigerians have thrown their heart of helping others to the wind and MUST u sleep with a gal before u stop being a MUGU or MUMU, please let us change and be our brothers keeper. God bless u real good.Amen |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by MaxiMax1(m): 9:04am On May 19, 2009 |
Poster: What should I do Maximax: Tell her that you want to get married to her, then you will know wether she's the serious type. If she says not now, you know i am in school! Tell her you would like to meet her parents. Then if she still insists on not condescending then be prepared to look elsewhere |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by Ekwere(m): 9:08am On May 19, 2009 |
Maxi-Max: Maxi-maxi, u r very right and this wud sure bring up the truth,thank u for this insight. |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by nnemak(m): 9:29am On May 19, 2009 |
Admin or moderator delete this BIG STORI, This guy is full of plenty lie and blasphemy. This post is not worth it DELETE. LIE plenty from the beginning. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by jchick(f): 9:51am On May 19, 2009 |
@ poster, Permit me to give my opinion. I would say that the only problem you have is with yourself, once you can define what your motive for helping is (you gotta be really honest with yourself) and you are sure you've not led her to believe you want her, then i believe it's okay to tell her the truth. Be certain that you cannot feel guilty for choosing to stop now, you've tried for her and don't have to break your neck to please her. I sincerely believe she takes you for a fool 'cos' why will she still keep coming back not just for herself but her family. I don't think that's fair |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by Iranoladun(f): 9:55am On May 19, 2009 |
@ Poster You said the girl has finished her medical degree. What is she doing presently? ![]() Why was it difficult for you in two whole year to ask your friend or any of your relations that you trust to visit the school, the family home of the girl to confirm her identity and her story especially since you have never seen her before (until last November)? ![]() ![]() ![]() What happen in November when you met her? Did you verify all her stories? Why would a medicine graduate finds it difficult to pay N7500 WAEC fees of her younger brother? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Like someone said the story does not add up; there are gaps that you need to fill. Please answer all the question I put above. ![]() |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by kshow1(m): 10:25am On May 19, 2009 |
Hhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm GOD DEY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by swing4real(m): 10:40am On May 19, 2009 |
I don´t see anything wrong in assisting some one who needs help.Dude if you have the fund and you can help, then go ahead and help her but on the other hand if you cannot then tell her the truth, that as much as you would love to help her achieve her dream you cannot because of your financial situation.Remember we all need someone to climb to that ladder call success.When you help people don´t court or measure, unless u are doing it with the hope of getting something back which in my own view is not a good idea. |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by manmustwac(m): 11:14am On May 19, 2009 |
TO ALL U GUYS WHO THINK I MADE UP THIS STORY THIS WAS OUR LASTEST ONLINE CHAT ifeyinwa obianigwe: i came on line just to let you know that am really tires of life, manythings has happen to me and things are stil happening, all i need is for you to help me pay this fees so tht i wil register these exams and buy food for my self and my siblings, am tired of life ifeyinwa obianigwe: please help me ifeyinwa obianigwe: am beeging u BUZZ!!! manmustwack: how many times do i have to say no ifeyinwa obianigwe: am here ifeyinwa obianigwe: help me manmustwack: AM SICK AND TIRED OF YOU ifeyinwa obianigwe: u called yesterday nite ifeyinwa obianigwe: i ant beg u again manmustwack: I HAVE MY OWN PEPLE THAT NEED MONEY ifeyinwa obianigwe: i know ifeyinwa obianigwe: i will nt beg u again ifeyinwa obianigwe: why are u doing this to me ifeyinwa obianigwe: pls help me manmustwack: YOU KEEP SAYING THAT manmustwack: WHY SHOULD I BELIEVE U? ifeyinwa obianigwe: i sear i wil nt bother u again ifeyinwa obianigwe: by july we will h enough to eat n drink manmustwack: NA SO U DEY TALK ifeyinwa obianigwe: foood will be plentiful ifeyinwa obianigwe: i wont bother u ifeyinwa obianigwe: i swear manmustwack: I EVEN PUT YOUR STORY IN NIRALAND ifeyinwa obianigwe: is good manmustwack: I NO GET 20 KAY TO DASH U OK ifeyinwa obianigwe: i need help ifeyinwa obianigwe: frank ifeyinwa obianigwe: please ifeyinwa obianigwe: my hope please ifeyinwa obianigwe: frank please help me manmustwack: IFY I DON TIRE AM NOT EVEN WORKING NOW I NO GET MOMNEY ifeyinwa obianigwe: frank ifeyinwa obianigwe: abeg ifeyinwa obianigwe: dnt do this to me ifeyinwa obianigwe: u are hurting me ifeyinwa obianigwe: by fustration me manmustwack: FIRST OF ALL U SAID TILL I SHOULD HELP U TILL U FINISH YOUR MEDICINE COURSE manmustwack: NOW U WANT ME TO HELP YOUR FAMILY ifeyinwa obianigwe: nt my family ifeyinwa obianigwe: u are nt helping them in shool ifeyinwa obianigwe: is nt wat i mean manmustwack: U WANT ME TO PAY YOUR BROS WAEC FEES ABI? ifeyinwa obianigwe: yes and my food manmustwack: MANY PPL GO TALK SAY U B 419 manmustwack: AND THAT AM A MUGU ifeyinwa obianigwe: as how ifeyinwa obianigwe: why do u call me that manmustwack: I DIDN'T CALL U MUGU READ WHAT I SAID PROPERLY ifeyinwa obianigwe: am nt a 419 and i cant take u as mugu but u are just trying to change someone life ifeyinwa obianigwe: tht wat u are doing ifeyinwa obianigwe: ok ifeyinwa obianigwe: and i pray u will understnd ifeyinwa obianigwe: is nt as u are puting it ifeyinwa obianigwe: but i need help that alll manmustwack: I WILL PRAY FOR YOU THEN ifeyinwa obianigwe: i dnt need pray now cos am at the point of death ifeyinwa obianigwe: i need help n solution to my problem manmustwack: YOUR NOT SERIOUS manmustwack: GOD WON'T ALLOW U TOO DIE ifeyinwa obianigwe: am telling u the truth ifeyinwa obianigwe: u ifeyinwa obianigwe: if i stopcalling u now , maybe i hv died of thinking and hunger BUZZ!!! manmustwack: AM SERIOUSLY FED UP WITH YOU ifeyinwa obianigwe: i know \ manmustwack: AND AT THE SAME TIME I FEEL SORRY FOR YOU ifeyinwa obianigwe: pls help me ifeyinwa obianigwe: am kneeling down b4 u ifeyinwa obianigwe: the people i borrow money are on my neck now manmustwack: I POST YOUR STORY IN NAIRALAND AND MOST OF DEM ARE SAYING U B 419 manmustwack: SO IF I DON'T SENT U DOH HOW U GO SETTLE DEM? ifeyinwa obianigwe: i dnt know dear ifeyinwa obianigwe: tht why am confuse manmustwack: AM GOING NOW IFY ifeyinwa obianigwe: frank dnt go ifeyinwa obianigwe: am crying to u ifeyinwa obianigwe: dnt go manmustwack: AND AM GONNA POST OUR CONVERSATION IN NAIRALAND ifeyinwa obianigwe: yes ifeyinwa obianigwe: is ok ifeyinwa obianigwe: i only need help manmustwack: I'LL CALL U LATER ifeyinwa obianigwe: tht allll ifeyinwa obianigwe: wen wil u call me manmustwack: SOON ifeyinwa obianigwe: time manmustwack: WITHIN THE HOUR ifeyinwa obianigwe: thnks so much ifeyinwa obianigwe: u are sending it abi ifeyinwa obianigwe: God will bless u ifeyinwa obianigwe: watever u desire will come to u manmustwack: I WISH HE BLESS U INSTEAD ifeyinwa obianigwe: it is well with u manmustwack: BYE ifeyinwa obianigwe: we wil bless u 2 ifeyinwa obianigwe: pls help me ifeyinwa obianigwe: i will expecting ur call BUZZ!!! manmustwack: OK ifeyinwa obianigwe: am very happy now BUZZ!!! ifeyinwa obianigwe: frank manmustwack: YES ifeyinwa obianigwe: frank u mean u send my name at nairaland ifeyinwa obianigwe: am just viewing it now manmustwack: EVERYTHING IS THERE ifeyinwa obianigwe: i tauught u are kiding ifeyinwa obianigwe: oh my god ifeyinwa obianigwe: it is serious manmustwack: AM TIRED OF YOU I KEEP TELLING U |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by yuppydon(m): 11:21am On May 19, 2009 |
Guy, Its high time to cut off, You dont need to say a word just cut the communication. U said u have not met her before, who says she is not a guy pretending to be a girl. Please wake up. Once beaten twice shy i have also been there before. ![]() |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by yuppydon(m): 11:28am On May 19, 2009 |
I just read ur chat conversation with the Unidentified fellow. the person sounds like a guy and he is a desperate 419, and he is just out to rip u of ur cash. if u send more money to her/him, then u are super MUGU, dont say u have not been warned. |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by Iranoladun(f): 11:34am On May 19, 2009 |
After reading your on-line chat with the girl I still refer you to My earlier post, please answer those questions! Iranoladun: |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by Nignog: 11:41am On May 19, 2009 |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by kciyo18: 11:44am On May 19, 2009 |
I think dt girl is a scam, hw r u sure, dt she readin medicine or that she is in a skool, if u r truly nija then u shld shine ur eyes nd dnt b naive. |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by agabaI23(m): 12:01pm On May 19, 2009 |
Well the girl's English na wa for a medical student. |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by touchmeder: 12:07pm On May 19, 2009 |
Amazing! |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by spikedcylinder: 12:42pm On May 19, 2009 |
Na wa o! See free money. Somebody should come and give me too money na. ![]() |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by Nobody: 12:45pm On May 19, 2009 |
The only issue is whether her stories are true, not whether you should go on helping at all. I feel you should just send someone to the school she claims she is in to find out if things are exactly as she said. if true, you can keep helping or explain why you need to stop. But it smells like another low level yahoo scam to me!!!! |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by bblacky(f): 1:00pm On May 19, 2009 |
Na waoooooooo, guy i think u can stop dat if u wish to stp it, yea, its in ur court. simply tell her its over n mean it. abeg i no fit waste my time over this post |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by jumbochi: 1:11pm On May 19, 2009 |
uy, you know that several thing can happen in the internet, suppose she is not a girl? maybe a fellow guy was using you as a magga. but all the same you were trying to obey the law of the bible which say you should help each other, but same bible still ask you to be prudent in every thing you are doing. it's not wise that you will carry unseen bein throughout her study in the higher institution, why did she got fed up in lagos to quit hutzling? she look like a lazy girl. to cut it short it not easy to study medicine in 9ja, now that she is in school she cant be able to establish new business, since she wasn't doing it before getting admission. if you stop sponsoring her and she drop out from school if truely she is a student, that mean your effort is in vain. but withdraw yourself till you come back to 9ja and see her face to face, then you will be able to know her value. |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by abhosts(m): 1:44pm On May 19, 2009 |
If such a person is truly a medical student, may God help our educational system. |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by pek(m): 1:49pm On May 19, 2009 |
sorry to say this, but i feel you are a fool. you av fallen for antics of a girl who needs money. those cock and bull story about mum and dad is normal story in getting a guy. |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by pek(m): 1:56pm On May 19, 2009 |
i just read your conversation with her and i must say you are a big time mugu. sorry, no offence.those words dont belong to a medical student and i av this suspicion that it is big time 419. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by frank317: 2:11pm On May 19, 2009 |
Guy, why exactly did you start giving her mony in the first place? how did she get to convince you? cheiiii my guy don fall in love. What was your motive? you cant tell me its pity. you said u you helped her get a job? what happened? did your friend confirm that it was a girl? i mean u should have gotten information about the girl you are sending momey and getting job for from your friend? i mean ur friend should have told you the type of girl u were dealing with. I am sorry u dont really sound wise. so if you need sharp guys like me to help u get the necessary information should you should have gotten, send me at least 100dollars let me use it to make important calls on ur behalf |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by Meldrick(m): 3:08pm On May 19, 2009 |
With that chat I read, I must confess the the lady or guy who has decided to adopt a pseudonym to defraud you is a crook. A lady who doesn't bother whether you put the conversation involving you both on Nairaland. He or she is a crook. If truly, she is a lady, she has no dignity. She is self - centered and an agent who has been sent to ruin your finance. How will a reasonable human being ask some one she has never met to train the younger brother after he has trained her. If you are still thinking of not offending her you are in trouble. I hope you did not send your picture to her, make e no be say dem dey call your name from one pot for her village. Guy run to church now immediately you finish reading this mail. |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by Pepeye(f): 4:09pm On May 19, 2009 |
A very clear case of 419, albeit she doesn’t have money but can afford coming online and shedding crocodile tears of not having any money and taking u on a merry go round Doesn’t sound like a med student and most likely not a female Sorry u fell for this |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by ifyalways(f): 4:55pm On May 19, 2009 |
@Poster,ur posting some chat here does not necessarily mean what u have said its for real. . . you can easily make up chat lines these dayz. @Post,na una sabi. |
Re: How Can I Say No To This Babe Without Offending Her by comechop(m): 4:59pm On May 19, 2009 |
HAHAHAHAHA HAHAHAHAH AHHAHAHAHA HAHAHAHAHAH I must say, this is one of the funniest threads in nairaland hahaha I've been laughing since I came here and I dey work. And now, seeing this conversation, the laugh don double sef hahahahaha hahahha ahahahaha OP, are you making this up? If you are, you get time, but it is still soo FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUNYY!! And if it is real, man it is good to help pple, but I feel that there shld be an extent to it. Your aim shld be to support her, and dude, from the conversation, she sounds like a leech. If you want to say no, then BLOCK her ID from your Yahoo thingy, and just delete her and any other communications with her, simple. You have played a HUGE part already, now it seems like a burden, and dude you dont need extra burden in your life. But I gotta admit, IT IS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO FUNNNNNNNNNNNNYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY BUHAHAHAHA |
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