My wife is a loving woman that she does all she is suppose to do in the house in terms of chores. But the only problem is that she loves smoking. will it affect her from having children. i have tried to stop her but she keeps telling me she will stop with time. i smoke myself(maybe thats y she is finding it difficult to stop). what do i do? I love her more than life itself and i wont like anthing to happen to her. Advice pls

hentee:

My wife is a loving woman that she does all she is suppose to do in the house in terms of chores. But the only problem is that she loves smoking. will it affect her from having children. i have tried to stop her but she keeps telling me she will stop with time. i smoke myself(maybe thats y she is finding it difficult to stop). what do i do? I love her more than life itself and i wont like anthing to happen to her. Advice pls

Your looking for a solution when the solution lies within you. . .stop smoking yourself then you can take it from there!

Nonesense!! Smokers a liable to die young. Am sure both of are young. Carry on, you may go at the same time.
My advice: You quit smoking and that will challenge her. How do you expect her to stop smoking when you just bought one for yourself.
U dey funny o.

hentee:

My wife is a loving woman that she does all she is suppose to do in the house in terms of chores. But the only problem is that she loves smoking. will it affect her from having children. i have tried to stop her but she keeps telling me she will stop with time. i smoke myself(maybe thats y she is finding it difficult to stop). what do i do? I love her more than life itself and i wont like anthing to happen to her. Advice pls

Double standard, lead the way. u are both in the same mess, challenge her by stopping.

@Poster,
Your Health is also at Stake here so Lead By Example, Quit Smoking!

come one guys. the man is very respectful and loving. what u do is stone him to death?

now my broda, smoking is very bad especially for women who are considering pregnancy. have a serious conversation with your wife. consider chewing tobacco and other products that help. the benefits are great: your mouths wont smell like ash trays anymore. kissing will be more enjoyable. and you might live a little longer.

peace

though i know its not easy for one to quit smoking that does not mean its impossible.by the way you sounded,i can tell that you really love your wife but that is not going to help matters.so what you have to do as some had advised,quit smoking so that you can assist her to do same.at this point, dont think of yourselves other than your unborn babies

You marry her did U not

I bet she was a smoker before the wedding so why do u think she will quit after the wedding.

Smoking is not a character trait as most would like us believe. It's a habit that we pick up for an array of reasons - peer pressure and parental example are the best known. I'm sure she is a lovely woman and you are a great man, but you as a smoker simply cannot ask her to quit without quitting yourself. And using pregnancy as an excuse won't cut it either. Your smoking will affect the children just as much as hers will. In fact if she does quit and you continue, then your smoking would affect the children and her. So the choice is yours as well as hers.

@poster she's following your footstep

hentee:
will it affect her from having children. i have tried to stop her but she keeps telling me she will stop with time. i smoke myself(maybe thats y she is finding it difficult to stop). what do i do? I love her more than life itself and i wont like anthing to happen to her. Advice pls

here lies your answer
it might not just stop her from having kid but also stop you from raising them
how on earth do u expect her to stop when u wont
if you love her like you say, u'll quit & it'll be easier cos u have each other