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Okay guys, I cant really say when the whole friends with benefits trend started but its been around for a while. To those who don’t know what we talking about; Friends with benefit is simply a no strings attached, no emotion involved casual sexual relationship between two friends.

For the guys, friends with benefits can be a fun experience but for the girls, its a different ball game. Here are some things ladies don’t understand about being a guys friend with benefit

GUY’S TALK

I know guys are used to saying ‘we don’t gossip’ but that’s a big lie. Whether we accept it or not, guys tend to gossip and talk, although not about make up or fashion but about ladies.

So being a guys friend with benefit simply means that you will often be his main subject when he wants to brag about his sexual victories or tell his friends how much of a free giver you are.

YOU LOSE YOUR VALUE IN HIS EYES

This may sound cocky but its actually very true, although friends with benefit may be a harmless fun experience but the more the guys keeps enjoying the benefit without any responsibilities, the more you become a mere sexual thing for his pleasures.

EMOTIONS ARE LIKELY TO GET INVOLVED

This is actually coming from experience, its nearly impossible to be friends with benefit for over a year without growing emotional attachment to the person, although emotional attachment are great but if the foundation was no strings attached sexual encounters then it will never end well when emotions get involved.

WHEN HE GETS BORED OF YOUR BENEFIT, HE WILL MOVE ON TO THE NEXT CHICK

No matter how good you are in bed, there will surely come a time when he gets bored of your services and moves on to the friend he could benefit from, so your no string attached fun would end up leaving you feeling used and dumped.

Ladies are those who messes it up most of the time

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