Advice needed plssssss.


There was a lady ( virgin), her name is tolulope, she is a good Christian and also a pastor daughter. This lady made promise to God that she would marry any man or guy that deflower her and she would never do any abortion.

There is a guy named john, he is a worker in the Church which happened to be the lady daddy's church for good three years. To cut the story short, this lady (tolulope) fell in love with brother john (the church worker), along the line, after some series of prayers and introduction, they got married and she got pregnant for brother john.
After six month of pregnancy, brother john called sister tolu and revealed to her that his name is not john but taofeek ( a typical Muslim to the5 core), now they have gotten married with each other (with six month pregnancy), brother john (now taofeek) said he is going to buy Muslim properties ( hijab and so on ) for sister tolu his wife, and said that sister tolulope must convert to Muslim.
Sister tolu is not interested in becoming Muslim, having promised God not to do abortion or marry another man except the one that deflower her, sister tolulope Is not ready to go back from his promised.

What would be your advice for sister tolulope? should she convert to Muslim and continue marrying him or what she should do?
Pls advice her

Brother john must be crazy...

why is sister toluope asking us for advice?

after all, she made the vow to God. he didn't warn her before hand that the brother was deceving her nah. so, she should go back to him for advice or dump him for allah.

what kind of abortion is she trying to do at six months?

as per marrying who deflowered you, that's not always an option, she should move on from that. Besides, she's already married.

her choices are either convert like he said (although of course he will still marry other Muslim wives) or refuse.

I think somewhere in the Koran says a man cant force his wife to convert, not so? She should look for that verse or an alfa who can explain it to him.

Oga Taofeek, wetin na?

She made Promise and NOT a covenant.


Promises can be broken.....

And of all christian guys, she fell for a Muslim?

I mean their girls will not stup this low for our christian brothers........

They hardly convert to Christianity. And yet most christians fall for them and even convert to Islam

mod pls help to move this to FP to help a sister

[quote author=CharlyNick post=40017908]She made Promise and NOT a covenant.

Promises can be broken.....
And of all christian guys, she fell for a Muslim?
they guy was a good Christian when they got married ( a worker in the church)

Teempakguy:
why is sister toluope asking us for advice?

after all, she made the vow to God. he didn't warn her before hand that the brother was deceving her nah. so, she should go back to him for advice or dump him for allah.

are u saying she should convert to muslim?

THERE IS NOTHING AS BLINDING AS PASSION
the foundation of their marriage has been on deception..that why everything need guidiance from God before venturing into it no matter the passion involved. both families need to get involved and before there can be lasting solution

olamidarsenal:


are u saying she should convert to muslim?

i'm saying she should go and meet God for a solution.

WONDERS!...

. story story...someone is just thinking whether it's possible .. no way a core Muslim would work in a church!

I smell Nollywood

olamidarsenal:
Advice needed plssssss.
There was a lady ( virgin), her name is tolulope, she is a good Christian and also a pastor daughter. This lady made promise to God that she would marry any man or guy that deflower her and she would never do any abortion.
There is a guy named john, he is a worker in the Church which happened to be the lady daddy's church for good three years. To cut the story short, this lady (tolulope) fell in love with brother john (the church worker), along the line, after some series of prayers and introduction, they got married and she got pregnant for brother john.
After six month of pregnancy, brother john called sister tolu and revealed to her that his name is not john but taofeek ( a typical Muslim to the5 core), now they have gotten married with each other (with six month pregnancy), brother john (now taofeek) said he is going to buy Muslim properties ( hijab and so on ) for sister tolu his wife, and said that sister tolulope must convert to Muslim.
Sister tolu is not interested in becoming Muslim, having promised God not to do abortion or marry another man except the one that deflower her, sister tolulope Is not ready to go back from his promised.
What would be your advice for sister tolulope? should she convert to Muslim and continue marrying him or what she should do?
Pls advice her

Twisted story
This story has been embellished
A Muslim will never beguile another all in the name of religion
I have heard of instances where Christians do that......
Abeg this is a hoax

Diz is seriux matter, but promises ar made to b broken...na promise not covenant..

If you believe this story you can believe anything..

This story Is fake.
For one, A true Muslim will neither force any lady into conversion nor deceive her into marriage. Whatever foundation that union is based is already wrong and it's bound to collapse in the face of any Islamic Injunctions.
Secondly, getting a lady pregnant before all marital rites is something a true Muslim will never do. ..and if that happens, he would be humbled with true repentance, seeking the face of God for commiting such great sins.
Abortion is not an option - its illegal, sinful and risky. The lady in question is at the liberty of delivering her child, since the guy is not denying the responsibility, and face her new life. She can seek for forgiveness for the 'promise' she made to herself.
Anything short of this, she can live the rest of her life with a deceitful Brother John. But she should never think she is leaving with a Muslim, because, A TRUE MUSLIM WILL NEVER INVOLVE IN DECEIT.