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9 by obiorathesubtle: 6:58pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
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Re: 9 by Nobody: 7:12pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
MoRAL LeSSON to The Ladies Out There:- Don't Get into A Relationship If You don't wanna have sex...Platonic Relationship doesn't exist!!! Hold The cookie tight... These Niggaz Ain't Loyal.... 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 9 by Nobody: 7:14pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
op permit to say dah yu are sick......so u wanna dump ur girl cos she doesn't want s*x....and u wanna go for a girl dah will give yu s*x abi?? So when u are done with her....with the hope of marrying a virgin u would go bck to ur real gf and start saying its the devils work.....mummu 2 Likes |
Re: 9 by obiorathesubtle: 7:16pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
Estharfabian:*muah* Thank you, on behalf of the Ladies Now answer my questions |
Re: 9 by obiorathesubtle: 7:18pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
Re: 9 by beautifullll1(f): 7:19pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
Let her catch you with the other girl.... Done deal!!!!!! |
Re: 9 by Nobody: 7:19pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
obiorathesubtle:Uh...Well, If you're willing to leave her for this "Booty-call" Chick...Then, Go for it! Just know You just left A Diamond... Tips for the breakUp----Tell her You've Got Aids Or something...she'd even be the one to break up Witcha...: 1 Like |
Re: 9 by obiorathesubtle: 7:20pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
Harbosede02:uhhh, basically, yes Hey, don't be bitter okay. That's just how the world works |
Re: 9 by hariorh: 7:22pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
Estharfabian: I'm currently in one. Almost a year now. So? |
Re: 9 by obiorathesubtle: 7:23pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
beautifullll1:hmmm. That sounds painful, but in the absence of something less sullen, I'll keep this in mind *greatful* |
Re: 9 by obiorathesubtle: 7:25pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
Estharfabian:that one got me alright. Come take your bear hug for meaningful contribution. Keep this up and you might get a kiss (O.o) Diamond? You barely know her. You sound like a feminist! |
Re: 9 by obiorathesubtle: 7:27pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
hariorh:hmmm. Let's see how it turns out in 5 months time 1 Like |
Re: 9 by hariorh: 7:31pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
obiorathesubtle: Point 1 and 7 are contradictory. You can't have both in this ur story. 4. You actually cheated (agreement or not. unless ur gf was with u and happily watching while u were banging the side chic). 6. The side chic is a ho. Knowing fully well u have a relationship and still having sex with u. (better don't start a relationship with this one or u will regret it in future) Bros, simply say you just want advice on how to break up. No need bringing up the sex issue. BTW she can't overreact as you didn't touch her cookie. If she does, call the cops. |
Re: 9 by hariorh: 7:32pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
obiorathesubtle: I ll make a mental note my brother |
Re: 9 by Nobody: 7:32pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
obiorathesubtle:really....eating ur cake and having it back huh?? |
Re: 9 by obiorathesubtle: 7:33pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
Harbosede02:uh. That'll be perfect huh? |
Re: 9 by Nobody: 7:33pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
hariorh:Almost?not even up to A Year? Let's see if you'd survive two years Without "Cheating".... The Op got tayad...You would too, Unless You've got some serious Libido issues... 1 Like |
Re: 9 by obiorathesubtle: 7:34pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
hariorh:and if you ever need paper. I'm available |
Re: 9 by Nobody: 7:38pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
obiorathesubtle:Well, I Used to Be....Buh Nigerians turned "feminism" into something Else... Anyways....Thanks for the hugs....I Don't need it.. You don't Look like One of the "good guys"... It's Okay for A guy to Cheat Buh when A Girl does the Exact thing, You'd see bashing/rude comments from these NL Hypocrites...! it's Sad |
Re: 9 by Nobody: 7:39pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
It's your life, you're free to ditch or be with whomever you want. You & your GF obviously have different outlooks. It's not by force that you should remain with her when things don't align in the relationship. I don't think you're a bad person for wanting to have sex, it's your choice, dare I say, your right, like it's also hers to abstain, therefore you shouldn't feel obligated. You owe her nothing as far as I'm concerned. You played your part for over a year & didn't try to make her change her principles. I say job well done, go get your life! |
Re: 9 by obiorathesubtle: 7:40pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
hariorh:uh. I object to your objection on point 4. She said and I quote "ok, we'll date, but no sex", then I said, "anything else?" She said "no", then I said "what if the temptation comes at me" then she said "you should deal with it anyway you can". Invariably, she gave me permission to do anything! Pay attention now Uhhh. Side chick isn't a ho. Do not call her that, she's a responsible sweetheart who knows how to fÚck I can Love and want to break up. Btw. God bless you for your contribution *here's your rice and coke* |
Re: 9 by IamLEGEND1: 7:41pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
I can't help you bro there is no way she won't overreact all dem bítches be crazy. |
Re: 9 by hariorh: 7:41pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
obiorathesubtle: Question... Is she a virgin |
Re: 9 by obiorathesubtle: 7:42pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
PunkyVeer:*round of applause* But you didn't do what I asked |
Re: 9 by jonaifame22(m): 7:42pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
Tell her u also do not want sex wth her. Start being distant frm her. When u guys meet answer her questions wth " I don't know" as an answer to questions thrown at u. |
Re: 9 by obiorathesubtle: 7:43pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
hariorh:oui, mademoiselle #prayforparis |
Re: 9 by hariorh: 7:43pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
Estharfabian: I doubt that... We already devised a way of satisfying that" libido" |
Re: 9 by obiorathesubtle: 7:44pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
jonaifame22:hmmmm. I don't see a clear picture, but thanks |
Re: 9 by Nobody: 7:45pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
hariorh:LoL from what I've heard...Nothing beats The real Thing... |
Re: 9 by obiorathesubtle: 7:46pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
IamLEGEND1:c'mon man. Why you lose faith so easy? Help me out man! She's calm really, but I've never made her so angry. I'm expecting the worst, so.... |
Re: 9 by jonaifame22(m): 7:46pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
obiorathesubtle:u said u wanted to knw how to dispatch her kindly right? |
Re: 9 by hariorh: 7:48pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
obiorathesubtle: obiorathesubtle: I've seen this setting before. It never ends well... Seems the babe is not really into you. Looks like u just pressurized her and she agreed on those conditions. Anyway sha, if na so, I'd advise u let her go. Otherwise she seems OK to me than thy side chick |
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