For some reason Ive realised Nigerian men have adopted this mentality from African American men that their own queens cant compete with women from other parts of Africa, especially east african women and women from other parts of the world. Its becoming common to see Nigerian male celebrities or politicians marrying Ethiopian or American women. Nigerian men are seen as "winning" if they got themselves an exotic non nigerian woman. Its quite disturbing seeing how prevalent interracial/interethnic marriage is amongst Nigerian men in the diaspora. Does anyone notice this?

There's nothing wrong with interracial marriage. It happens everywhere. Attraction/love has no race or ethnicity.

YourMain:
There's nothing wrong with interracial marriage. It happens everywhere. Attraction/love has no race or ethnicity.

True but I think many Nigerian men are marrying foreigners for the wrong reasons. Ive known many Nigerian men who told me secretly that their sole goal of getting a medical degree is to date women of other races. Its like they dont value their cultural roots and theyre fetishizing other women for their non african features, especially East Africans. You cant create a happy Nigerian family without a nigerian man and a woman. Nigerian women are beautiful and hardworking.Look what happen to alot of black celebrities who marry white women, their children end up confused

That's a white lie! As far as me concern, can never find beauty anywhere around the world like in Nigeria

Bigups to my naija gorgeous, succulent and well endowed sensational girls! Cant compare u to any!

YourMain:
There's nothing wrong with interracial marriage. It happens everywhere. Attraction/love has no race or ethnicity.

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Yo podría casarse con usted, usted sabe, #smiles

galadima77:
That's a white lie! As far as me concern, can never find beauty anywhere around the world like in Nigeria
Bigups to my naija gorgeous, succulent and well endowed sensational girls! Cant compare u to any!

I like your Confidence

wazzoz99:


True but I think many Nigerian men are marrying foreigners for the wrong reasons. Ive known many Nigerian men who told me secretly that their sole goal of getting a medical degree is to date women of other races. Its like they dont value their cultural roots and theyre fetishizing other women for their non african features, especially East Africans. You cant create a happy Nigerian family without a nigerian man and a woman. Nigerian women are beautiful and hardworking.Look what happen to alot of black celebrities who marry white women, their children end up confused

Lol. Well speaking from personal experience from my family. Interracial marriage is such a beautiful thing. It doesn't have to mean loss of ones culture. One of my uncles is married to a German lady and their daughter is called Faridah and she speaks fluent Yoruba and German. Shes fully immersed in Nigerian culture as well a German.I think it's absolutely amazing to see such a blend of culture.

We all can't live In a boxed world. The Nigerian culture will evolve and maybe get better with the addition of other cultures.

But I get what you mean. A lot of people just marry foreigners just because their foreign. Which is really uncalled for. Then again I find Arab men extremely attractive just because they're Arab lol.

PrimeMinisterr:

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Yo podría casarse con usted, usted sabe, #smiles

respondi a su correo

No permanent friends, only permanent interests.

I don't fantasize about showtys from other countries

Nah NAH NAH NAH
not mhe i dig mhe NAIJA BABES TILL DIE
ammma Ijaw boy and i love big big backsides something only ma naija babes can give specially doze frm Akwa-ibom Bayelsea and Igbo

wazzoz99:


True but I think many Nigerian men are marrying foreigners for the wrong reasons. Ive known many Nigerian men who told me secretly that their sole goal of getting a medical degree is to date women of other races. Its like they dont value their cultural roots and theyre fetishizing other women for their non african features, especially East Africans. You cant create a happy Nigerian family without a nigerian man and a woman. Nigerian women are beautiful and hardworking.Look what happen to alot of black celebrities who marry white women, their children end up confused

If that is the case then why is there are so many unhappy MARRIED Nigerian couples?

Ok, I didn't read the op before.

You need a medical degree in order to date women of other races?

which men?
What research is ur assertion based on?
Give me 100 options, 70 will be a Nigerian lady, 25 will be from any other African country, 5 could be from jupiter

SMH, people often say Nigerian men "adopted" those behaviors from African American men but not all AA men chase white women or think they're better. As an AA man myself I prefer black women whether they're from the US, Caribbean or Africa. It is true that there is an atmosphere in western nations that encourages interracial relationships as symbol of status so as to say you have 'assimilated,' unfortunately that means removal from culture.

I feel that it is unfair to say that African men "adopted" those behaviors from us African Americans because that's like saying all African American men want white women. I also find it unfair because no man forces another to do anything unless a weapon is involved. Each person makes choices based on their values and since an African man is supposed to be 'cultured' it is strange for him to devalue his own women unless he didn't love them enough from the start. If it is becoming a routine thing one has to assess their values, even cultural ones, to see why the disconnect is happening. For example, as an AA male myself whenever I go onto social media read comments or watch videos where other AA men badmouth black women I find it disgusting. I feel as if those men are unaccomplished in their own lives and that they are so pathetic they think insulting black women will somehow make them seem more appealing to other people.

With respect, I feel that black women all over the world in some respects have been taken for granted. They have always been expected to sacrifice for sake of family and it is assumed they'll always be there no matter what is done to them. Because of that some black men eventually end up not wanting black women at all and see other women as a 'trophy' like some kind of challenge. This is foolish thinking because all it does is promote black women to seek out white men for "better treatment" and men like me who love my beautiful black women end up having a hard time convincing them I'm not bad.

I think its because they are obsessed with anything white.or they think white women are prettier than the blacks

Op do you wanna knw myfantasies?

itokam:
Op do you wanna knw myfantasies?

R u a matchmaker

myfantasies:
R u a matchmaker

Well...its just the perfect platform to call you out

itokam:


Well...its just the perfect platform to call you out

U r funny

myfantasies:
U r funny

Lol...and you are beautiful

I would be bothered when they stop being at the bottom ( i e black men) of the barrel. Or when white men stop running their asses all about.

For now they aint worth fighting for.

GuyTye:
SMH, people often say Nigerian men "adopted" those behaviors from African American men but not all AA men chase white women or think they're better. As an AA man myself I prefer black women whether they're from the US, Caribbean or Africa. It is true that there is an atmosphere in western nations that encourages interracial relationships as symbol of status so as to say you have 'assimilated,' unfortunately that means removal from culture.

I feel that it is unfair to say that African men "adopted" those behaviors from us African Americans because that's like saying all African American men want white women. I also find it unfair because no man forces another to do anything unless a weapon is involved. Each person makes choices based on their values and since an African man is supposed to be 'cultured' it is strange for him to devalue his own women unless he didn't love them enough from the start. If it is becoming a routine thing one has to assess their values, even cultural ones, to see why the disconnect is happening. For example, as an AA male myself whenever I go onto social media read comments or watch videos where other AA men badmouth black women I find it disgusting. I feel as if those men are unaccomplished in their own lives and that they are so pathetic they think insulting black women will somehow make them seem more appealing to other people.

With respect, I feel that black women all over the world in some respects have been taken for granted. They have always been expected to sacrifice for sake of family and it is assumed they'll always be there no matter what is done to them. Because of that some black men eventually end up not wanting black women at all and see other women as a 'trophy' like some kind of challenge. This is foolish thinking because all it does is promote black women to seek out white men for "better treatment" and men like me who love my beautiful black women end up having a hard time convincing them I'm not bad.

Wow i love this. You are the first AA man i am seeing on this forum. I've heard, seen and read so many bad tales about you guys. So sad you just confirmed them. No hard feelings tho.