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7 Signs She Really Wants You by Nobody: 5:14pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
1. She always returns your texts—and more quickly than you return hers This all relates back to the basics of how to attract women through texting . You never want to seem over-eager, or invest a lot more than she does. “Investment” here can be measured in text message length, amount of emotional content, how many texts get responded to, and how quickly you answer her texts. The same signals work in reverse. So if she's responding more quickly, more often, and with longer and more emotional messages than you are sending, there’s a decent chance that she’s interested in you. 2. She’s the last woman standing While some women will proposition their friends (or at least drop hints), most tend to hang around, structure an opportunity for you to make a move, and see what you do. So if your friend never seems to leave the party or the night on the town before you do, she’s probably into you—or she’s the world’s best "party friend." This counts double if she makes things happen such that the two of you will be alone at the end of the night (e.g. asking you for a ride home). You can also test to see if she’ll accompany you on mundane tasks and errands. Ask her to keep you company while you go grocery shopping or drop off dry cleaning. If she does, she’s either got nothing to do or she really likes spending time with you. 3. There’s sexual tension where there wasn’t any before When a friend wants you, there’s almost always some physical/sexual tension. This is different from when you’re attracted to someone you don’t know, where the first few steps are usually about spending time together and getting to know each other. But if you’re already friends, you’ve presumably done a lot of that already. Her wanting you means that she wants to take things to the next level. If there’s more sex talk and sexual joking in her conversation with you than there was before, that might be her way of showing that she wants you. Similarly, if she starts dropping hints about how "it’s been a while," she might be signaling that she’s not currently sleeping with someone—and that it’s time to make your move. 4. She’s “touchier” with you One thing we teach a lot at Love Systems is that “body language rarely lies." If she touches you more than she touches her other male friends (usually on the arm, shoulder, back, etc.), she might be showing her intentions. If she's starting to make those moves, use the “ping test." Touch her arm or hand when you make a point or tell a joke. Does she find an excuse to touch you back? Throw your arm around her playfully–does she seem uncomfortable, or does she curl in? One warning: Some women don’t like to be touchy-feely in public, or where their friends can see them. Test this out somewhere private. 5. You’re funnier all of a sudden A classic way for a woman to show she’s attracted to a man is to laugh at his jokes. Having a good sense of humor is important for meeting and attracting women anyway. If she seems to laugh at little louder and more quickly at your jokes than she does with other guys in your social circle, she might be sending signals. Or your sense of humor just happens to appeal to her—and that's a good sign, too. 6. She’s randomly up-to-date about your life She follows you on Facebook and “liked” you status update about getting off work early. She commented that your new profile photo looks great. When you run into her, she asks you how that new sushi restaurant was—because you posted last week that you were going to check it out. This is the social media equivalent of making eye contact at a party, and it’s just as good of a sign of her interest. It doesn’t have to be online. Does she notice every time you have a haircut or get a new outfit? Does she ask you how your date went last Thursday? If she’s not typically like that, it means that she’s paying attention to you. 7. She tries to set you up with another woman This seems illogical to the male brain, but often a woman who has a crush on you will try to set you up with someone else—especially if she’s seen you a bunch of times and you haven’t made a move yet. Regardless of the situation, be flattered if this happens. It means she sees you as being attractive enough to stake her own reputation on. And if your friend is single, it’s almost always a good sign if she’s interested in your dating life—even if she’s supposedly trying to set you up with someone else. Source: http://www.mensfitness.com/women/dating-advice/7-signs-she-really-wants-you? 1 Like |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by Dotwillis1(m): 5:17pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
8. She asks :How are your Girlfriends? 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by Nobody: 5:23pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
These signs are signs of being "Thirsty".... Like seriously? replying texts faster than you reply me!?? iffa hear!! if I Really Really Like someone...that's when i'll Wait for like 2Hours before rep!ying the text...A girl needs to show some pride sometimes... |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by Nobody: 5:25pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
Estharfabian:#Teamhardtoget kole pay yin.. Lol 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by Nobody: 5:26pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
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Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by Nobody: 5:29pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by Nobody: 5:41pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
Estharfabian:going by your signature, i'm assuming that in reality, it actually takes you two days to reply text . . . i don't think this has to do with pride though . . . i think it's more about the PS4. |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by Nobody: 6:16pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
Teempakguy:LoL! PS4? I don't see the connection... Uh...LoL! You talk like you know me... |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by obiorathesubtle: 6:19pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by Nobody: 6:29pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
Estharfabian:oh, it happens. ps4 tends to keep people away from their phone, so . . . they tend not reply messages from their crushes . . . and yes, we have been watching you for sometime now . . . |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by Nobody: 6:32pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
obiorathesubtle:sir, you seem to be "speaking" from experience. pardon the sarcasm. |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by obiorathesubtle: 6:36pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
Teempakguy:Lol. Something like that |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by Nobody: 6:37pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
#1 is so unbelievably childish. What ever happened to just being natural & answer messages when you can? Even if it's seconds later. Who cares? It's sickening when people treat relationships like a competitive sport of keeping scores. Personally, I EXPECT quick responses, unless of course someone is genuinely busy. Don't have time to be waiting hours for a reply because I find it disrespectful & it's one sure way to get me disinterested. I'm not about to wait hours for someone to reply like they're a flipping prince of Arabia. I got stuff to do too but I make sure to get back to someone as soon as I get the time to respond & not because I'm keeping scores or trying to be whatever. It's a matter of courtesy. Don't have time for games 1 Like |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by Nobody: 6:52pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
Teempakguy:Lmfao!! How'd You know I play PlayStation?? You've been watching me? LoL! I'm scared! |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by IamLEGEND1: 6:59pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
the speed at which she be replying ur texts shows how much she is into you?
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Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by Nobody: 7:05pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
Estharfabian:oh please. don't be scared. we couldn't help but notice you. what . . . with your font style that immediately commands attention, to your . . . warped, but effective sense of humor, to well, the fact that your comments are quite sensible ones. also . . . you literally typed it. you even mentioned the games you like playing. does that ring a bell? |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by Nobody: 7:15pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
Teempakguy:Warp but Effective sense of Humor?? Lmfao... Oh! I remember Now, me and my Blabbermouth... PS---Stop Saying "WE" |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by Nobody: 7:22pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
Hmm mm |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by Nobody: 7:33pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
All of the above @OP But a chick could get jealous and prevent other girls who are interested in you. She will tell them that you're her man. It's totally unfair because when they realize that you're not her man, your feelings is gone. |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by Nobody: 7:59pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
Estharfabian:yeah . . . your blabbermouth indeed . . . . |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by alterswerve(m): 8:26pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
Estharfabian: I actually planned to really expose the immaturity in this post, but I'm guessing you were just joking bout wah you posted.. Or are you not? |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by alterswerve(m): 8:29pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
PunkyVeer: I think this will be the second time I'll be asking you to school nairaland females on rules of engagement... Jeez! What maturity! Must there be some friggin rule we must follow to relate with people? (that's actually a rhetoric) |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by Nobody: 9:22pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
alterswerve:What if I said I wasn't joking? Puleeeease Explain The post's "Immaturity"...I can't wait!! |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by IamLucy(f): 9:42pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
Estharfabian:preach it sister! |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by Nobody: 9:44pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
IamLucy:That's the spirit!! 1 Like |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by lodphil(m): 11:08pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
PunkyVeer:punky I feel u,neglect my messages or my calls and I will delete ur contact from ma phone......no time to boost some ones self esteem while killing mine. |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by alterswerve(m): 6:35am On Nov 21, 2015 |
Estharfabian: Woh! Ayam tayad! Maybe later |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by mimicious(f): 6:41am On Nov 21, 2015 |
Estharfabian: M solidly behind u |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by mimicious(f): 6:42am On Nov 21, 2015 |
Op what u just wrote is what that babe does to u. |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by Nobody: 7:22am On Nov 21, 2015 |
mimicious:High5!!!! |
Re: 7 Signs She Really Wants You by Nobody: 7:35am On Nov 21, 2015 |
alterswerve:. . . . I noticed that too. 1 Like |
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