Thank you for clicking on my post. i need you to help me solve my problem. i live in port harcourt. im black (well i think im fine) tall and work. im about 24yrs now.i have problem with girls .any one i meet wants to get marride to me . the first was always disturbing me to come to her house to see her parents and i refused , then i had to break up when it became too much . she is 25yrs .fair n fine kindof

please continue readiing ,

now i met this one i luv very very very much ,im 24yrs shes 23yrs.shes so fine and presentable.everything was going fine and nice until she started indirectly talking about marrige.and im not ready for that now coz i dont have enogh moni for that and i dont want to pause my flexing now and i live with my aunt(she doesnt come to my house).
She knows a lot of guys and it pisses me off.i dont know when shes cheating on me.and im so jealous.

my question now is that what do i do, i love her and i dont want marrige now , and her time as a lady is going & i cant afford to lose her . shit!!! im so confused. please tell me what to do pls pls reply me fast,

pls just reply me .type something yes you type something

No it is not a cause. It is an effect.

Wait, what does this mean: "I don't want to pause my flexing"
what won't I read for naira

blackfine:

Thank you for clicking on my post. i need you to help me solve my problem. i live in port harcourt. im black (well i think im fine) tall and work. im about 24yrs now.i have problem with girls .any one i meet wants to get marride to me . the first was always disturbing me to come to her house to see her parents and i refused , then i had to break up when it became too much . she is 25yrs .fair n fine kindof

please continue readiing ,

now i met this one i luv very very very much ,im 24yrs shes 23yrs.shes so fine and presentable.everything was going fine and nice until she started indirectly talking about marrige.and im not ready for that now coz i dont have enogh moni for that and i dont want to pause my flexing now and i live with my aunt(she doesnt come to my house).
She knows a lot of guys and it pisses me off.i dont know when shes cheating on me.and im so jealous.

my question now is that what do i do, i love her and i dont want marrige now , and her time as a lady is going & i cant afford to lose her . shit!!! im so confused. please tell me what to do pls pls reply me fast,

pls just reply me .type something yes you type something

Good for you.

No itz nat a cause, itz a reason. Millerate!

u guys are not helping me here. im asking what to do to the relationship now . im so young for marrige and i love her, and she wants marrige what do i do .

resonable answers pls. il appriciate ,

Every girl wants 2 marry u, but u only mentioned 2.

then upgrade her, who knows, your blessings may follow suit

Igwe.:

then upgrade her, who knows, your blessings may follow suit

WHAT do u mean upgrade her. shes doing fine.shes works .but not big money anyway. my guy i love this chick oh (abi she use jazz 4 me?) ah .

but she has not come to my house once and its pissing her off too. my aunt is crazy, !!!

opinions pls,

C2H5OH:

Wait, what does this mean: "I don't want to pause my flexing"      
what won't I read for naira

what about "her time as a lady is going & i cant afford to lose her" !!!

please someone get me the manual on understanding some of these threads!

blackfine:

WHAT do u mean upgrade her. shes doing fine.shes works .but not big money anyway. my guy i love this chick oh (abi she use jazz 4 me?) ah .

but she has not come to my house once and its pissing her off too. my aunt is crazy, !!!

opinions pls,

upgrade in this context means marry her

Nl! Everybody wanna create a thread.

marry ke!!

Igwe.:

upgrade in this context means marry her

i dont want to marry now, ohhhhhh , im too young im 24yrs. pls you guys should help me here. is thre no lady in this forum . guys wa

MRbrownJAY:

what about "her time as a lady is going & i cant afford to lose her" !!!

please someone get me the manual on understanding some of these threads!

ts happening .

meaning she is running out of age .she is 23 yrs now,

How is she running out of age? Lol my guy. You dey crack me up o

blackfine:

meaning she is running out of age .she is 23 yrs now,

some people will never cease to amaze me, the more i read NL the more i see that there is so much ignorance within our brothas and sistas!!!!

C2H5OH:

Wait, what does this mean: "I don't want to pause my flexing"
what won't I read for naira

Rofl. . .ewoo wetin cause dey do 4 post, abeg translate. Lol.

You are trying to have your cake and eat or whatever the bloody saying is. There is nothing you can do, she wants to get married, you don't, but yet you would not be willing to release her to another man. Simple. There isn't a solution to make YOU happy.

This is hilarious, You're actually imagining this ''love'' you have for the girl because she's beautiful, ''presentable'' (your words).
What are you feeling like anyway? most girls (childish ones) start dropping a line or two about marriage when they start going out with guys so your case is not as ''out of this world'' as you think.

I am still trying to understand the whole purpose of your thread?

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Orishirishi for Nairaland. A boy who admits that he is too young for marriage is talking about marriage. A boy who is been fed by an aunty is talknig about marriage. Na wa oooo


You berra commot here before I koboko you out. If you secure your future zillions of girls will be running after you. Do the right thing at the right time. Abeg leave chicks alone for now, you still have a long way to go.

two ladies have become every girl! My friend you beta say something else. How handsome do you think you are anyway?
please stop attracting such cheap attention to yourself

Blackfine wat exactly do u want? U ar 24yrs & not ready 4marriage, u dnt want 2 pause ur flexin, ! Haba U dnt need d whole world 2get marry 2d one u love. Yes u ar 24 bt if at ur age u ar matured enough 2takecare of a woman den whynot do so. How long will u keep flexin, pls b discipline & determine 2face life challenges. Every woman has a pick time 4marriage & wen it comes she'll wnt 2make do of it. U said u love her, so 4d sake of dat love & those tins u value in her dailogue with 2 come out wit reasonable decision. All d best.

@Ournaija you have said well, i should move on and let her go right? im even getting so slim thinking of her and what to do . okay thank you all for your help, but if you still have nay more solutions for me feel free to drop a line .

@Ezeja - dont u think if i get marride now , i would not achive what i need in life ? as in career and all.?
but all the same thanks for your help though

hahahahha i cant laff jor " "

i cant laff jare! "every girls wants to marry you"

me sef efri boy want to marry me too 

Well, i dnt think marriage can stop one 4rm achievin life desire if u ar focus, hardworkin & determine. To many their marriages ar blessns to dem. Im not askin u 2marry if u ar not ready 4it, all im sayin is dat u need 2look byound wat u see as a tenager but as a mature minded man.

blackfine:

Thank you for clicking on my post. i need you to help me solve my problem. i live in port harcourt. im black (well i think im fine) tall and work. im about 24yrs now.i have problem with girls .any one i meet wants to get marride to me . the first was always disturbing me to come to her house to see her parents and i refused , then i had to break up when it became too much . she is 25yrs .fair n fine kindof

please continue readiing ,

now i met this one i luv very very very much ,im 24yrs shes 23yrs.shes so fine and presentable.everything was going fine and nice until she started indirectly talking about marrige.and im not ready for that now coz i dont have enogh moni for that and i dont want to pause my flexing now and i live with my aunt(she doesnt come to my house).
She knows a lot of guys and it pisses me off.i dont know when shes cheating on me.and im so jealous.

my question now is that what do i do, i love her and i dont want marrige now , and her time as a lady is going & i cant afford to lose her . shit!!! im so confused. please tell me what to do pls pls reply me fast,

pls just reply me .type something yes you type something

ur quest has 2 subjcts 4 me. one, u shud have showed ur pic so we'd know handsome u are. then we wud know if it's a ''cause'' or curse. if it's a curse, then every gal on NL wud run after u.

two, someone wants to marry you and you don't want 2 'cos u r not redi 4 marriage. tell her so and give her d same reason u gave here: u don't want to stop ur flexing(u r not serious) and see waht she does.
bottom line: u wud make a bad fiction writer, ur story lacks weight, thugh i tink u've gotten wat u nid which is attention

look my friend,u better put ur acts together.wat type of childish help do u need?U ARE A FINE BOY,U DNT WANT 2 PAUSE UR FLEXING,those words sound very childish.so i advice u think properly b4,posting anything dat comes in2 ur childish head.this is a forum 4 matured minds,not a place for kids 2 show their typing skills.

marry one and the rest will keep to them self

@poster

Marriage is more than good look. Forget about if you are handsome or not. There are so many ingredients (finacially, emotionally, etc) you need to have to make your marriage a haven. From your post you dont possess any of them. You deserve a good life, your children deserve a good life, everyone deserve a good life. You are are relatively young.

Dont rush into things that will bring you perpetual regrets. Never dive into water you dont know the bottom. Do the right thing at the right time and you will be happy for it. Get that thought off your head and get focused. Be wise guy.

1. Guy wat do u want?
2. Do u work hard 4 ur moni or u just work smart?
3. Confess ur sins and u'll surely be healed.
4. Your problem is spiritual consult ur pastor