source:http://www.naijainn.com/2015/11/signs-he-only-wants-to-have-s8x-with-you.html
Women, forgive us. When we men are Hot, we have a tendency to behave like dogs— pawing, panting, and begging like you’re wagging a bone in front of our faces.
But we’re not always Hot. So for the other 98 percent of the time, you have every right to expect us to act like adult humans. Unless you and your guy have decided to stay in the b**ty-call zone, if you’re sleeping with him, he should at some point show interest in something other than getting you naked. So, worried that you’re with a guy who’s only after a good hookup? Here’s what to look for….
1. You’ve been dating for awhile, but you’ve never seen his place.
There are only two possible reasons for this. Either he is embarrassed by his living conditions, or he lives with another woman (girlfriend or wife) and possibly children.
2. Conversations always turns s8xual.
When he phones to talk with you and regardless of the topic – he finds a way to bring s8x into the conversation. You tell him about your successful sales presentation and he remarks how about how the client probably couldn’t take his eyes off you because you’re so beautiful and look so hot in your business suit. When you tell him you can hardly wait to go home and just soak in a hot bath, he’s quick to tell you, he wishes he could be there to wash your back.
3. He skimps on pre-intimacy.
You’ve gone down on this guy how many times? And he never repays the favor? Well—it sounds like he’s getting screwed, and you’re getting screwed over. When a man truly likes you, respects you and sees you as a prospect for a long-term relationship, he begins to have intimate feelings for you. He moves from having s8x with you to wanting to make love to you. pre-intimacy can last a long time because it’s so enjoyable to hug, kiss and touch everywhere. The joy is in the journey – not the destination of an org8sm. The man who wants to s8xually use you doesn’t need much k8ssing or touching. His body is ready for the s8x act quickly and he’s not thinking about your satisfaction. He’s thinking only about his gratification. You are a s8xual object to him.
4. He never asks about your friend, Or your family, Or your job.

Same logic—if a guy’s just looking for a f— buddy, he’ll avoid all the messy stuff. But as soon as he’s ready for a relationship, your personal life won’t seem messy to him.
5. Texts and emails are flirty and s8xual.

You can tell so much about a man’s interest in you by the content of his communication. Players, who only have a s8xual interest in you, use texts and emails as opportunities to turn the discussion into s8xual conversation. You just got home and are unwinding, he texts, “What are you wearing right now?” You’re shopping for vegetables at the grocery store, he texts, “Wouldn’t it be hot to make love right their among the strawberries?” By contrast, men who are sincerely interested in you will ask how you feel? How’s your work project coming along? They’ll ask about the big account you’re trying to close or how your annual review went with your boss.
6. He’s a little too busy to make plans.

You: “We should do something this weekend.”
Him: “Yeah, we’ll see.”
You: “No seriously! We should go to a movie or something.”
Him: “Well, maybe. I get kind of restless in movies.”
You: “What about dinner? You have to eat, right?”
Him: “Of course, but I might have to do this other thing anyway.”
He’s blowing you off. And even if you haven’t tried to initiate a non-s8xual hangout, he should. At some point, he should just sit across from you and talk. No lingerie, no groping, just conversation.
7. He gets angry if you don’t want to have s8x.

When a man loves your company and enjoys being with you – he just wants to be near you. You can invite him over to play a board game or to watch a movie. When you’re done, you can say, “Hey…I’m tired and I have an early day at work.” He’s happy that you hung out together and satisfied just being in your company. Even though, you normally have s8x, he’s Ok that you haven’t and content to share a hug and a passionate k8ss. But when you tell a man who’s using you for s8x, “Thanks for coming over tonight but I have to wake up and drive to the airport for a very early flight,” – he’ll pressure you to have quick s8x. If you aren’t receptive, he may become extremely angry at not getting his way.
8. He’s a little too good at making sure you don’t forget anything.

“Don’t forget your jacket. Oh, and here’s your bra. And your lipstick. And your bobby pin. And this flyer… did you want it? You grabbed it last night as we were leaving the bar, so take it if you want it. Otherwise I’m going to throw it away.”